{"id":31214,"date":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31214"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","slug":"encontraras-el-amor-cuando-dejes-de-buscarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/encontraras-el-amor-cuando-dejes-de-buscarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Encontrar\u00e1s el amor cuando dejes de buscarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time.<\/p>\n<p>Queremos encontrar nuestra alma gemela, nuestra pareja hecha en el cielo, la que est\u00e1 destinada a ser nuestra y nuestra persona para siempre, todo en una sola persona.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t get me wrong &#8212; I am not saying that pursuit for love should be the only thing giving meaning to your existence nor that love is the only important thing in the world. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I am especially not telling you that you can\u2019t be complete on your own and that you need love to fulfill you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pero lo cierto es que, en alg\u00fan momento de nuestra vida, todos queremos encontrar a esa persona especial con la que compartirla.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien que har\u00e1 que todas nuestras dificultades parezcan llevaderas y que todos nuestros retos tengan soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien s\u00f3lo para estar a nuestro lado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/elige-un-companero-que-te-coja-cuando-te-caigas\/\">para atraparnos cuando estamos a punto de caer<\/a> y que nos coja de la mano, dici\u00e9ndonos que todo ir\u00e1 bien cuando perdamos toda esperanza.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120320 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o con bata blanca camina por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you are no exception. You are not afraid of being alone and you\u2019ve embraced your single life a while ago.<\/p>\n<p>You know what you want and are not a girl who is ready to settle for less so obviously, you don\u2019t even think of finding someone so you are not &nbsp;alone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Instead, you just want to find an ever-lasting connection, a man who\u2019s love will feel like home and a man who will always try his best to always <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/gracias-por-recordarme-siempre-como-se-sienten-las-mariposas\/\"><b>recordarte c\u00f3mo se sienten las mariposas<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even though you don\u2019t want to lower your standards (and you shouldn\u2019t), you are not looking for a perfect man because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either.<\/p>\n<p>Eres consciente de tus imperfecciones y s\u00f3lo quieres que alguien te acepte tal y como eres, sin intentar cambiarte.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo quieres a alguien que te comprenda y que te corresponda, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien con quien envejecer y que est\u00e9 a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas.<\/p>\n<p><b>But this love you are waiting for isn\u2019t coming, as much as you keep searching for it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120321 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sentada en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All you get are immature guys who don\u2019t appreciate everything you have to offer and who don\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>So naturally, you can\u2019t help but wonder what the problem is? You see all those happy couples everywhere you look and it appears like you are the only one who can\u2019t seem to find love.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTienes t\u00fa la culpa? \u00bfEst\u00e1s destinado a morir solo? \u00bfNo est\u00e1s destinado a ser amado?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing &#8212; love will come to you. And it will happen when you least expect it.<\/p>\n<p>Entrar\u00e1 en tu vida cuando la abandones por completo y cuando dejes de buscarla.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurrir\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9s realmente preparado para ello y cuando dejes de darle vueltas a la cabeza.<\/p>\n<p>Once you stop with the overthinking and once the desperation abandons you completely &#8212; thats when love will come.<\/p>\n<p>One morning, when you accept that you\u2019ll never find your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/alguien-especial-vendra-vida-no-dar\/\"> alguien especial <\/a> , true love will knock on your door and it will bring you everything you\u2019ve expected and more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120322 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con sombrero en la cabeza y gafas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hay que entender que nada ocurre cuando queremos que ocurra.<\/p>\n<p><b>The same is with love. Love has the perfect timing and if it still hasn\u2019t come to you, it just means you are not prepared for it yet.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que deja de esperar. Deja de compararte con los dem\u00e1s a tu alrededor y deja de obsesionarte con tu estado sentimental.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, esfu\u00e9rzate por convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo. Regala <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/todo-el-amor-que-has-dado-volvera-a-ti-algun-dia\/\"> todo ese amor <\/a> que no has ocultado a nadie m\u00e1s que a ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Para variar, s\u00e9 ego\u00edsta. C\u00e9ntrate en mejorar y mimarte.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y, lo m\u00e1s importante, \u00e1mate y resp\u00e9tate a ti misma como esperas que lo haga un hombre. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>En lugar de estresarte y pensar demasiado en el futuro, intenta dejarte llevar por la corriente. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t analyze the past, don\u2019t overthink the future and live in the present moment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Rel\u00e1jate y deja que el amor te encuentre, en lugar de buscarlo. Te garantizo que uno de estos d\u00edas, lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120319 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Encontrar\u00e1s el amor cuando dejes de buscarlo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time. We want to find our soulmate, our match made in heaven, the one who is destined to be ours and our forever person all in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":120318,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? 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