{"id":31225,"date":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31225"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","slug":"la-sincera-verdad-sobre-dar-una-segunda-oportunidad-a-un-infiel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-sincera-verdad-sobre-dar-una-segunda-oportunidad-a-un-infiel\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad sobre dar una segunda oportunidad a un infiel"},"content":{"rendered":"

Enga\u00f1ar es una elecci\u00f3n. Nadie est\u00e1 obligado a hacerte pasar por tanto dolor, da\u00f1o y verg\u00fcenza, y sin embargo, lo hicieron.<\/p>\n

Enga\u00f1ar es un acto malicioso y toda persona implicada en \u00e9l deber\u00eda estar fuera de tu vida. Incluso si fue con alguien muy cercano a ti.<\/p>\n

That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t you think if they loved you so much, they would stop and think about what they\u2019re doing to you?<\/p>\n

Deja que lo asimile.<\/b><\/p>\n

When cheating occurs, there are so many chances to stop. So many times when one or both parties are capable of just stopping the whole thing and realizing what a shitty thing they\u2019re about to do.<\/p>\n

And yet, it didn\u2019t happen. So next time you consider giving tu hombre <\/a> una segunda oportunidad despu\u00e9s de aplastar tu alma con este acto de desprecio, pi\u00e9nsatelo dos veces.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t want to think about you as he was doing it, so why do hell should you give him an opportunity to do it again?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been put through the wringer by your pareja infiel<\/a>, know that you\u2019re not alone. Find solace in the fact that there are so many of us out there struggling to cope with this.<\/p>\n

Trust someone who has been through this before, and after gave out more second chances than I can count, regretting it to the bone\u2026<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the ugly truth. They don\u2019t change. They never take responsibility for what they did, even though they try to make it seem as if they do.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Their perspective remains the same and they don\u2019t reform in any way. It\u2019s a futile battle, trust me, I\u2019ve witnessed it more times than I\u2019d like to admit.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let me tell you what they\u2019re too good at.<\/p>\n

Te convencer\u00e1n f\u00e1cilmente con su encantadora sonrisa de disculpa, sus ojos de cachorrito y las palabras justas que necesitas o\u00edr para sentirte seguro de que s\u00f3lo ha sido un momento de debilidad que nunca volver\u00e1 a repetirse.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo no asumir\u00e1n ninguna responsabilidad por sus acciones, sino que enumerar\u00e1n innumerables maneras de c\u00f3mo en realidad fueron forzados a ello por ti y tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have enough time for them. You were too busy at work to nurture their fragile egos. You\u2019re always on their case, so they don\u2019t really have a choice but to find a girl who\u2019s going to be there.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s easier for them to go out there and find comfort in the arms of another woman, instead of being a man, having balls and talking to their girl about whatever issue that is plaguing them.<\/p>\n

Los tramposos son demasiado buenos con las palabras, tenlo en cuenta en todo momento.<\/p>\n

Son los mentirosos m\u00e1s viles y manipuladores que puedes tener cerca, que jugar\u00e1n con tu mente despu\u00e9s de haberte hecho mal y te romper\u00e1n el alma ech\u00e1ndote la culpa a ti.<\/p>\n

Son maestros en victimizarse y convertirte en el malo de la pel\u00edcula.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please be smart about this and don\u2019t let them lure you back into their world of toxic manipulation and juegos mentales <\/a> que te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s mal que bien.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

They crushed you once, why let them go for round two? People who cheat don\u2019t understand the real meaning of love.<\/p>\n

The unconditional type of love, where there is mutual respect and where partners go through all kinds of crap together, but they don\u2019t let it break them.<\/p>\n

They are not afraid of a challenge, because they know for as long as they stick side by side, they\u2019re good.<\/p>\n

Cheaters aren\u2019t wired this way. Their outlook on love is a warped one, at best.<\/p>\n

Tener su alma t\u00f3xica cerca s\u00f3lo te da\u00f1ar\u00e1 m\u00e1s y te invitar\u00e1 a volver a ese mundo venenoso del que estuviste tan cerca de salir.<\/p>\n

Saca tu billete y no mires atr\u00e1s. Si te enga\u00f1\u00f3 una vez, puede que vuelva a hacerlo. Te mereces algo mejor que alguien que est\u00e1 de acuerdo con hacerte da\u00f1o tan profundamente.<\/p>\n

Appreciate yourself enough to say \u2018<\/b>No<\/i><\/b>\u2019. You\u2019re too good for him anyway. <\/b><\/p>\n

Show him your strength and leave him with grace. Make him see what he\u2019s missing.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cheating is a choice. Nobody is forced into putting you through so much pain, hurt and shame, and yet, they did. Cheating is a malicious act and every person involved in it should be out of your life. Even if it was with someone really close to you. That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":75295,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-Honest-Truth-About-Giving-A-Cheater-A-Second-Chance.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31225"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}