{"id":31251,"date":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31251"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","slug":"5-consejos-de-expertos-para-olvidar-a-alguien-con-quien-nunca-saliste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-consejos-de-expertos-para-olvidar-a-alguien-con-quien-nunca-saliste\/","title":{"rendered":"5 consejos de expertos para olvidar a alguien con quien nunca saliste"},"content":{"rendered":"

No puedes perder a alguien que nunca tuviste, \u00bfverdad? Mentira.<\/p>\n

Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some kind of an almost relationship\u2014the point is the same; he te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n aunque nunca salisteis <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tienes que salvarte y dejar de romperte el coraz\u00f3n. Sabes que tienes que alejarte y dejar ir pero tu coraz\u00f3n sigue aferr\u00e1ndose.<\/p>\n

That is why we are here to give you the most efficient tips on getting over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with. Just follow them and I can assure you that he\u2019ll be gone from your head and heart in no time.<\/p>\n

Empieza a ver las cosas como realmente son<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to do if you really want to get over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with is look at the truth directly in the eye, no matter how painful or harsh it might be for you.<\/p>\n

Porque no hay otra forma de enfrentarse a la realidad, a menos que la aceptes, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to tell you that you aren\u2019t entitled to suffer in any way for this guy or that you are crazy for even thinking about him.<\/p>\n

This is just me asking you to see things for what they really are and accept that they probably won\u2019t ever change.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014even though you don\u2019t want to hear this, the fact is that this man doesn\u2019t care for you.<\/p>\n

Or at least that is his emotions aren\u2019t deep enough to enter a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

No, he won\u2019t change his mind over time. No, he won\u2019t realize that you are the one for him and regret treating you badly.<\/p>\n

Y esto no es algo por lo que debas malgastar tu vida esperando.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think about everything that could have been<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve accepted the harsh reality, it\u2019s time to understand that you are mostly crying over everything you two didn\u2019t experience.<\/p>\n

You are crying over the fact that you could never call this man your boyfriend, over all the trips you didn\u2019t go on together and over all the memories you didn\u2019t create.<\/p>\n

En tu mente, piensas que todo habr\u00eda sido perfecto entre vosotros dos si \u00e9l te hubiera dado una oportunidad.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014it wouldn\u2019t have been.<\/p>\n

No haces m\u00e1s que idealizar las cosas y pensar en todo lo que deber\u00eda o podr\u00eda haber sido.<\/p>\n

Even though I completely understand your thinking, you also need to understand that none of this is real and it\u2019s time you stop fantasizing about it.<\/p>\n

So instead of obsessing over this potential future that you\u2019ve imagined next to this guy and instead of trying to look for reasons why it could have never worked between the two of you, focus on the present moment.<\/p>\n

Focus on the fact that you don\u2019t have him and forget about all of your plans, dreams and hopes with him because they are obviously not achievable.<\/p>\n

Deja de idealizar a esta persona<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando tienes una relaci\u00f3n con alguien, tambi\u00e9n ves su lado malo.<\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de todas esas peque\u00f1as cosas que te sacan de quicio y todos esos rasgos de personalidad que te gustar\u00eda cambiar, por mucho que los quieras.<\/p>\n

Pero esto es algo que nunca tuviste la oportunidad de experimentar porque nunca viviste realmente junto a este hombre. Y por eso lo est\u00e1s idealizando.<\/p>\n

El hecho es que nunca tuviste la oportunidad de cansarte de esta persona. Siempre fue alguien inalcanzable para ti y por eso nunca superaste la fase de las mariposas.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si de verdad quieres superarlo, tienes que quitarte las gafas de color de rosa.<\/p>\n

Tienes que pensar en todos los defectos que tiene este chico y centrarte en esas cosas cada vez que empieces a arrepentirte de no estar con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Cortar todos los lazos<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, tu proceso de curaci\u00f3n y superaci\u00f3n nunca podr\u00e1 empezar si sigues en contacto con este hombre. Es por eso que usted necesita para cortar todos los lazos con \u00e9l lo antes posible.<\/p>\n

Y cuando te digo que cortes todos los lazos, lo digo en serio.<\/p>\n

Pasa totalmente del contacto, deshazte de todo lo que te recuerde a \u00e9l, deja de visitar los lugares que conozcas donde puedas encontrarte con \u00e9l y, al menos durante un tiempo, deja de hablar con sus amigos, tratando de conseguir toda la informaci\u00f3n posible relacionada con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

I know that this isn\u2019t easy. But it is something that has to be done and it is the only way for you to let time heal your wounded heart and do its magic.<\/p>\n

Concentra toda tu energ\u00eda en ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019ve done all of the steps mentioned above but there is no significant difference?<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve removed this man from your life physically but he is still very present in your mind.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

Es exactamente por eso que usted necesita para redirigir todo esto energy you\u2019ve been wasting on him<\/a> a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Date unos d\u00edas para llorar tu p\u00e9rdida y luego empieza a trabajar en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Start doing the things you like doing, start pleasing yourself and most importantly\u2014start loving yourself the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

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You can\u2019t lose someone you never had, right? Bullshit. Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":110368,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Expert-Tips-On-Getting-Over-Someone-You-Never-Dated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31251"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110368"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31251"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31251"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}