{"id":31291,"date":"2020-05-14T13:49:39","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T13:49:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31291"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:24:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:24:44","slug":"diferencias-clave-entre-el-amor-verdadero-y-un-simple-flechazo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferencias-clave-entre-el-amor-verdadero-y-un-simple-flechazo\/","title":{"rendered":"Diferencias clave entre el amor verdadero y un simple enamoramiento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, when you fall for a person really hard, you\u2019re left unsure if it\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/2018-taught-me-what-real-love-is-not\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> amor verdadero <\/a> you\u2019re feeling or whether it may be just a passing crush.<\/p>\n<p>It can be really hard to differentiate between the two because they both consume you and leave you with butterflies in your stomach\u2014the only difference being that one will likely pass.<\/p>\n<p>But how do you know when it\u2019s love, when it\u2019s just a crush, and how to act on it? I know. It\u2019s a real puzzle, but there are ways to help you decipher this eternal mind boggle and act accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>He aqu\u00ed algunas diferencias clave que te ayudar\u00e1n a distinguir entre el amor verdadero y un simple flechazo.<\/p>\n<p><b>1.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>lo que te atrae de esa persona ser\u00e1 un aspecto f\u00edsico determinado o un rasgo, como sus ojos, su sonrisa, su personalidad extrovertida, sus tetas o una voz incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, there won\u2019t be just one thing that makes them so appealing.<\/p>\n<p>Everything about them will be so alluring and inviting, and you won\u2019t be able to pinpoint just one thing.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the big difference. When you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/15-consejos-para-enamorar-a-cualquier-hombre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> enamorado <\/a>, you will be attracted to this person as a whole package, and you won\u2019t even notice certain little things because you\u2019ll be able to see the entirety of their amazingness.<\/p>\n<p>In a crush, you\u2019ll find them attractive or intriguing because of a certain thing, but there won\u2019t be that grand feeling of overwhelming attraction and connection as is the case with love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"joven besando a mujer en la mejilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-man-kissing-woman-in-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>2.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>Sentir\u00e1s una necesidad abrumadora de impresionarles constantemente y de mostrarte de la mejor manera posible.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll only wear your best clothes, you will always have your face perfectly made up, and you will watch your every move, sometimes even stooping to tiny lies in order to make the best impression.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>te sentir\u00e1s perfectamente c\u00f3modo siendo exactamente quien eres en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>There won\u2019t be pressure to always look your best and be careful what you say.<\/p>\n<p>Dejar\u00e1s que te vean por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/never-let-a-guy-change-who-you-are\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> qui\u00e9n eres <\/a>y no habr\u00e1 que fingir.<\/p>\n<p>Either they will love you for you or you\u2019re out. Playing pretend will not interest you with this guy.<\/p>\n<p>Real love makes you feel good about yourself, no matter what you\u2019re wearing and how you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para levantarte y valorarte por lo incre\u00edble que eres en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>Si est\u00e1s enamorado, estar\u00e1s constantemente obligado a vestirte de punta en blanco y a comportarte lo mejor posible, porque la idea de que esa persona te vea con tu atuendo casero y acogedor te pone los pelos de punta.<\/p>\n<p><b>3.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>En cuanto a los temas de conversaci\u00f3n, se tratar\u00e1n con dulzura, rozando la superficie y sin profundizar en los asuntos importantes, como los sentimientos, la familia y las ambiciones vitales.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be too comfortable talking about the big stuff, about everything that goes on inside your head, and your biggest fears and insecurities. This just won\u2019t be that type of a thing.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Querr\u00e1s hablar con \u00e9l de las cosas m\u00e1s intrigantes y complejas. Nada estar\u00e1 fuera de los l\u00edmites, y usted ser\u00e1 capaz de hablar durante horas, sin cansarse de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>You will call him on the phone, and it will be the most beautiful part of your day that you\u2019ll never wish would end.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l conocer\u00e1 tu verdadero yo, y t\u00fa compartir\u00e1s gustosamente las profundidades de tu mente con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Esta es la principal forma de diferenciar entre los dos. Lo que hables con esta persona dice mucho sobre el futuro que puedes o no tener.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe parece bien contarle tus secretos m\u00e1s profundos o te incomoda que sepa demasiado? Si es as\u00ed, se trata de un flechazo, y pasar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet somebody who will make you feel like it\u2019s real love, you will be over the moon to share your entire self with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97659\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"pareja de jovenes abrazandose al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-hugging-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>4.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you will constantly feel like you\u2019re in a hurry. The excitement and the rush will constantly consume you, and you will always feel like time is running out.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you\u2019re in will always feel so fleeting, and you will be scared of it passing, which will stem from the insecurity of not knowing if it will happen again.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, you won\u2019t feel the need to rush anything. You will be at peace, not hurrying anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Love takes time to build, one step at a time, and you\u2019ll know it won\u2019t run off anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>You will allow it to grow while you nurture it with love, care and patience. Love is not a race, and you will be understanding of it. It\u2019s always there, and you will feel secure in it.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel insecure and like it\u2019s going to vanish if you don\u2019t dedicate every second to it, it\u2019s probably not love. Love never makes you feel rushed and unsure.<\/p>\n<p>It builds your self-esteem and makes you comfortable with taking your time. Anything worth having is not supposed to be forced. If it is, it\u2019s probably not real love.<\/p>\n<p><b>5.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you\u2019ll be kind of obsessed with him, but not in a good way.<\/p>\n<p>Te olvidar\u00e1s de tus amigos y familia y tendr\u00e1s esta obsesi\u00f3n malsana de pasar cada minuto con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>It will ruin your social life, and you will be in too much of a heightened state to notice what you\u2019re doing. It will consume you, in the worst way possible.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>No s\u00f3lo os unir\u00e1 mucho, sino que tambi\u00e9n influir\u00e1 positivamente en vuestras relaciones con los m\u00e1s allegados.<\/p>\n<p>Querr\u00e1 su aprobaci\u00f3n y su opini\u00f3n. Te importar\u00e1 lo que sientan por \u00e9l porque son igual de importantes para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca les har\u00e1 caso omiso y les permitir\u00e1 dar su opini\u00f3n sincera.<\/p>\n<p>A crush makes you momentarily forget what\u2019s important and disregard those who truly matter to you.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be completely yourself, and you will hate yourself for it later on when the dust settles.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in love, the support of your friends and family will mean everything. You will care about everyone getting along and lifting each other up.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together.jpg\" alt=\"cena en familia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/family-having-a-dinner-together-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>6.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>la idea de la confrontaci\u00f3n te dar\u00e1 mucho miedo. En caso de que te enzarces en una pelea, siempre sentir\u00e1s que podr\u00eda significar tu fin, por lo que te sentir\u00e1s constantemente inseguro y evitar\u00e1s discutir a toda costa.<\/p>\n<p>This means you\u2019ll never be able to be one hundred percent yourself, as you will always try to avoid disagreements by agreeing with things you normally wouldn\u2019t agree with.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>Comprender\u00e1s que a veces es normal que surjan roces entre vosotros y que de vez en cuando habr\u00e1 desacuerdos.<\/p>\n<p>It only means you both care enough to fight for each other, and you\u2019re not scared of opening yourself up to the fullest and being vulnerable.<\/p>\n<p>In love, there will always be tiny quarrels and discussions. But you will know that it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s the end.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que significa es que tienes cosas que resolver, y eso es exactamente lo que har\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>You will never fear that being open and honest will lead to your relationship\u2019s doom.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e9is un frente unido, capaz de afrontar los mayores problemas que se os presenten.<\/p>\n<p><b>7.<\/b> <b>When it\u2019s a crush you\u2019re dealing with<\/b>, you will get easily jealous and possessive. If he takes too long to reply or if he hasn\u2019t called that day, you\u2019ll feel a little crazy and mad at him.<\/p>\n<p>It will really bug you not hearing from him for a few hours, as you will be sure he\u2019s with someone else or doing something he shouldn\u2019t be doing.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when it\u2019s real love<\/b>, you will feel a sense of peace and trust. You won\u2019t go crazy if he doesn\u2019t immediately get back to you because you have the utmost trust in him.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t go into panic mode if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-he-sabido-nada-de-el-en-todo-el-dia\/\">you haven\u2019t heard from him<\/a> for half a day because you know he\u2019ll call or text as soon as he gets a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Love brings you peace, serenity and faith in each other. You don\u2019t go attacking him for the smallest things, and you don\u2019t let your mind get the better of you.<\/p>\n<p>When you feel okay and at peace when he\u2019s away and not able to text at all times, it\u2019s real love you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Un flechazo te har\u00e1 enloquecer sin motivo y tus celos estar\u00e1n a flor de piel.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97654\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Diferencias clave entre el amor verdadero y un simple enamoramiento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-2-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97653\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Diferencias clave entre el amor verdadero y un simple enamoramiento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, when you fall for a person really hard, you\u2019re left unsure if it\u2019s real love you\u2019re feeling or whether it may be just a passing crush. It can be really hard to differentiate between the two because they both consume you and leave you with butterflies in your stomach\u2014the only difference being that one&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":97664,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Key-Differences-Between-Real-Love-And-A-Simple-Crush.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? 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