{"id":31304,"date":"2020-04-12T07:58:15","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:58:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31304"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:06:15","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:06:15","slug":"por-eso-no-pasa-nada-si-no-quieres-una-relacion-ahora-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-no-pasa-nada-si-no-quieres-una-relacion-ahora-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso no pasa nada si no quieres una relaci\u00f3n ahora mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Due to the insane pressures of society, we always feel this overwhelming need to be in a relationship. We are made to feel like there is something wrong with us if we\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

But guess what, there isn\u2019t. These societal constraints only tie us down and make us play to their tune.<\/p>\n

But just because somebody who doesn\u2019t know you makes you feel a certain thing, does not mean that they are right.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let these insane pressures of society make you feel like you need to be in a relationship just for the sake of it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not supposed to be an obligation. A relationship means love. And you can\u2019t force love.<\/p>\n

La gente es juzgada constantemente por su situaci\u00f3n sentimental, y cada vez son m\u00e1s los que se comprometen en relaciones sin amor, todo ello en un intento de no ser juzgados por el mundo exterior y de sentirse diferentes.<\/p>\n

Sinceramente, no s\u00f3lo es totalmente normal <\/b>ser soltero<\/b><\/a>, but it\u2019s actually good for you!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te brinda una oportunidad incre\u00edble para descubrirte a ti misma, averiguar qu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que quieres de la vida y del amor, y aprender a ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti misma.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, why should you feel guilty for not conforming to society\u2019s norms and keeping yourself happy?<\/p>\n

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Cuando llegue el momento, y sientas la necesidad de cambiar tu situaci\u00f3n sentimental, trabajar\u00e1s en ello, saldr\u00e1s y te esforzar\u00e1s por encontrar el<\/a> con la que quieres compartir tu vida.<\/p>\n

But until you\u2019re ready, it is perfectly fine to enjoy life by yourself and explore all there is to learn about love, life, and yourself.<\/p>\n

Un poco de introspecci\u00f3n es bueno para el alma y, en \u00faltima instancia, te har\u00e1 mejor pareja cuando llegue el momento.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel the need to be in a relationship, it\u2019s really simple \u2013 don\u2019t be in one.<\/p>\n

Siempre me permit\u00eda escuchar a la gente a mi alrededor y siempre ten\u00eda a un chico cerca, s\u00f3lo por el hecho de no estar sola.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t for me. It was for all these other people who have absolutely no business telling me, you or anyone who to date and who to spend our time with.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel like spending the majority of your time with a specific individual, that\u2019s okay! You don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n

You can go out with whomever you like, stay as long as you want, and you don\u2019t have anybody to report to.<\/p>\n

Eres libre de pasar el d\u00eda como quieras, y si eso significa quedarte delante de la tele en tu pijama favorito, viendo un reality y bebiendo vino, \u00a1que as\u00ed sea! <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a1Lo que haga flotar tu barco, chica!<\/b><\/p>\n

Enjoy this now because when you have a partner, there won\u2019t be much alone time on your plate.<\/p>\n

So why not make the most of it! Screw anyone telling you otherwise. They\u2019re just miserable people, unhappy with their own lives.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo tiene las mismas prioridades en la vida, y eso es completamente normal. Todos estamos conectados de forma diferente, y todos hemos tenido nuestros propios altibajos en lo que se refiere al amor.<\/p>\n

Tienes tus razones para elegir estar soltera en este momento, y m\u00e1s poder para ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay whichever way you want to live, for as long as it\u2019s your own decision and nobody else\u2019s. You are in control of your life.<\/p>\n

People like to pry and ask around as to why you\u2019re not with somebody right now. But you don\u2019t have any reason to explain anything to anyone.<\/p>\n

They are not a part of your life, and therefore, they shouldn\u2019t play a role in how you feel about ser soltero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora mismo te encuentres en un momento incre\u00edble en el trabajo y quieras dedicarte a ello, lo que te deja muy poco tiempo para una vida plena. amar la vida<\/a>y esa es tu decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It could be that you are simply sick and tired of boys playing mind games with you and always ending up disappointed in the male species, so you\u2019re taking a little much needed break from men.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una vez m\u00e1s, la decisi\u00f3n es tuya y s\u00f3lo tuya.<\/p>\n

Whatever makes you feel good and comfortable is what you should do. Don\u2019t feel like you have to explain your decisions to irrelevant people.<\/p>\n

Cuestiones de compromiso<\/a> son algo real.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan lugar de nuestro interior, existe un miedo silencioso a atarnos. De perder una parte de ti misma d\u00e1ndolo todo por un chico.<\/p>\n

Personalmente, siempre he tenido este miedo dentro de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Siempre acabo estropeando mis relaciones<\/a> porque me da mucho miedo y paranoia comprometerme, y siempre me hace sentir mal conmigo misma.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why I decided to take a little break until I figured myself out, and you should too! Don\u2019t feel bad if you are scared of commitment.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only human. There is this fear in all of us, and we all deal with it in our own way.<\/p>\n

El hecho de que lo hagas a tu manera no te hace peor por ello.<\/p>\n

Te hace valiente hacer lo tuyo, independientemente de lo que piensen los que te rodean.<\/p>\n

Pasar tiempo contigo misma es sumamente importante y no se valora lo suficiente. Haz lo que necesites para volver a sentirte bien y escucha a tu cabeza.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s your life. You\u2019re the only one living it. So you might as well make it a good one.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s okay to be your own number one priority. If you want to have freedom to do what you need to do, then that is exactly what should happen.<\/b><\/p>\n

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In relationships, we often lose a little part of ourselves, and our priorities inevitably change. It\u2019s not necessarily a bad thing, but it can be if you don\u2019t feel ready for this step yet.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En lo que a m\u00ed respecta, siempre sent\u00ed ese rencor malsano hacia mis parejas porque estar con ellas ocupaba gran parte de mi tiempo, sin dejarme a solas conmigo misma lo suficiente para averiguar si eso era lo que quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Y tard\u00e9 un tiempo en darme cuenta de que era culpa m\u00eda y no de ellos. No estaba en el estado de \u00e1nimo adecuado para una relaci\u00f3n seria, y eso solo me ahuyent\u00f3 cuando ellos quer\u00edan tanto de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Avoid sacrificing yourself for the sake of pleasing others. You have a long life ahead of you. There is plenty of time to be happily in love. If that time isn\u2019t right now, listen to your gut!<\/p>\n

If you feel too flirty and casual to be in a committed relationship, then, by all means\u2014do as you please. It\u2019s better to be single and be able to hook up with whomever you want, than to be in a relationship and have all these desires for other people!<\/p>\n

Explore your feminine side, see what the city has to offer, meet new guys, flirt your ass off, and make out with hot strangers. There\u2019s no better time for it than right now!<\/b><\/p>\n

And when you\u2019re done with this, you\u2019ll feel ready and capable of being in a serious, relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/a>, without having all these annoying needs for freedom and other guys, and you won\u2019t end up cheating.<\/p>\n

As long as you\u2019re honest about what you want with yourself and with others, you\u2019re doing absolutely nothing wrong. Be true to yourself, and make yourself a priority. Nobody knows what you need better than you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give a shit about people talking and making you appear like you\u2019re not the relationship type. There is a time for everything. You need to focus on whatever is important to you at that particular time.<\/p>\n

If your career is the most important thing to you right now, it\u2019s okay to shift your focus solely to it. There\u2019s plenty of time for love. Make a name of yourself in the business world, and you\u2019ll feel less strained when you meet someone new who you want to spend time with.<\/p>\n

Life is about being happy and finding your place in this world. It\u2019s about getting to know exactly who you are, what your desires are and how to accomplish them, without hurting anybody in the process.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about discovering who we want to share our lives with\u2014be that family, friends, coworkers, lovers. They all somehow end up shaping us into one whole person, so it is important to let yourself live your life to the fullest, and do what feels right.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo se es joven una vez. Aseg\u00farate de tener algo que contar a tus nietos alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Disfruta de tu solter\u00eda sin remordimientos porque cuando encuentres a tu verdadero amor, te sentir\u00e1s completa y preparada para el siguiente paso, sabiendo que has vivido tu vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

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