{"id":31439,"date":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31439"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","slug":"todo-lo-que-realmente-quiero-es-un-amante-que-tambien-es-mi-mejor-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todo-lo-que-realmente-quiero-es-un-amante-que-tambien-es-mi-mejor-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Todo Lo Que Quiero Es Un Amante Que Sea Tambi\u00e9n Mi Mejor Amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tener a alguien con quien compartir tus pensamientos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos y profundos -y sentirte c\u00f3modo y seguro al hacerlo- es lo que representa la verdadera intimidad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entregar mi cuerpo a alguien es muy \u00edntimo y significativo, pero tener a esa persona no s\u00f3lo como amante sino tambi\u00e9n como <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tu-mejor-amigo-frente-al-amor-de-tu-vida\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mejor amigo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es por lo que realmente lucho.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finding a lover isn\u2019t that hard of a job anymore. It\u2019s relatively easy to find a person who would want to sleep with you and then disappear from your life. That is the sad reality we\u2019re living in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pero encontrar a una persona que quiera quedarse y compartir una vida contigo en todos sus altibajos es la parte dif\u00edcil.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compartir la cama con alguien y tener una aventura casual es f\u00e1cil. A muchos hombres y mujeres les encantar\u00eda tener la oportunidad de disfrutar de una noche de excitaci\u00f3n y placer sin ning\u00fan tipo de compromiso ni sentimientos que se interpongan en el camino.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But I want more. I want a lover who will understand how my body works and take his time with me, knowing we\u2019ve got our whole lives ahead of us. I want to connect with him on more than just a physical level.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want somebody will know how my mind works. A man who will be attracted to my intellectual side just as much as my physical one. &nbsp;I want to be able to share my soul with him. I want him to be my passionate lover who is at the same time the best friend I\u2019ll ever have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiero a alguien que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-la-quieres-estate-a-su-lado\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">estar all\u00ed<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when I cry on the kitchen floor, feeling completely lost and misunderstood. I want him to wipe away my tears and tell me it\u2019s going to be okay because he\u2019s here.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Quiero que se gire hacia mi lado de la cama en cuanto se despierte y me plante un beso enorme en los labios, despert\u00e1ndome de la forma m\u00e1s placentera posible.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiero que se r\u00eda de lo gracioso que me queda el pelo por las ma\u00f1anas y me lo despeine de una forma simp\u00e1tica, que me d\u00e9 un beso sentido en la frente antes de levantarse para ir a trabajar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiero un amante que me pregunte a qu\u00e9 hora salgo del trabajo, para que venga a recogerme porque tiene toda una noche planeada para nosotros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiero ver partidos de f\u00fatbol con \u00e9l, beber cerveza y partirme de risa porque es capaz de hacerme re\u00edr hasta casi hacerme pis encima.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want us to travel together. I want us to explore as much of the world as possible. I want us to have that relationship where we love nothing more than being in each other\u2019s company because we get each other on a whole new level that nobody can quite understand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>I want him to feel like I\u2019m one of his closest buddies, who he can go out with, laugh for hours on end with, play darts with and make fun of each other, and then make out for 5 minutes straight because he\u2019s so freaking attracted to me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want a best friend type of relationship in which we are so open with each other that there is literally nothing we can\u2019t talk about, but at the same time, where we can just spend a whole weekend in bed together, snuggling, watching TV, making out and feeling perfectly content.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want him to send funny texts to me all the time that will make me laugh out loud while I\u2019m at work and make me feel so happy that I have this man to come home to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want him to miss me so much while I\u2019m on a work trip that he won\u2019t let me out of his sight the moment I get back, wanting to hear all about it, and then spend the night in bed, up until the early hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo quiero todo. Quiero re\u00edrme con \u00e9l. Quiero ser una tonta total con \u00e9l, y quiero que me consiga con una sola mirada.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiero que sea <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/querida-bestie-siempre-persona\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mi persona<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mi amante y mi mejor amigo en todo el universo con quien puedo compartir toda mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-31441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/www.herway.net-3-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"Todo Lo Que Quiero Es Un Amante Que Sea Tambi\u00e9n Mi Mejor Amigo\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/www.herway.net-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/www.herway.net-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/www.herway.net-3.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having somebody you can share your most intimate and deepest thoughts with\u2014and feel comfortable and secure while doing so\u2014is what true intimacy represents. Giving my body to someone is very intimate and meaningful, but having that person as not just a lover but also a best friend is what I truly strive for. Finding a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sweet-ice-cream-photography-624496-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}