{"id":31494,"date":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","slug":"lo-unico-que-necesito-en-una-relacion-es-constancia-y-esfuerzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-unico-que-necesito-en-una-relacion-es-constancia-y-esfuerzo\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo \u00fanico que necesito en una relaci\u00f3n es constancia y esfuerzo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No voy a endulzar nada m\u00e1s. Si no puedes cumplir mis normas, ya no tengo tiempo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito que seas una constante en mi vida y no s\u00f3lo alguien que de vez en cuando responde a mis mensajes.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito que me llames y me preguntes c\u00f3mo me va el d\u00eda. Quiero que seas t\u00fa quien inicie la comunicaci\u00f3n de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t be the only one texting and calling first. That makes me feel like you\u2019re not really in this for the long haul.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-lista-definitiva-de-mensajes-de-buenos-dias-para-ella\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> textos de buenos d\u00edas <\/a> cada ma\u00f1ana y no s\u00f3lo cuando tenemos algo planeado.<\/p>\n<p><b>Necesito saber que soy la primera persona en la que piensas cuando te despiertas y quiero que me preguntes todos los detalles de mi d\u00eda porque quiero cont\u00e1rtelo todo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But I don\u2019t want to feel like a burden and tell you stuff that I feel doesn\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112549\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente enviando mensajes de texto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/smiling-woman-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want you to make plans with me on weekends. Not just when your buddies are busy but even when they\u2019re all free, I want you to choose me sometimes and go on a little adventure together.<\/p>\n<p>Los fines de semana significan consuelo y quiero saber que soy yo quien te consuela.<\/p>\n<p>If you make a promise, I need you to stick to it. I don\u2019t want to continuously get disappointed by your endless excuses and empty promises to make it up to me.<\/p>\n<p>If you aren\u2019t a man of your word, I\u2019m sorry but I can\u2019t do this with you. I need consistency and effort. Anything else\u2013I\u2019m out.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que me mandes un mensaje de buenas noches todas las noches.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero saber que soy tu \u00faltimo pensamiento antes de dormir y necesito que me tranquilices cuando me sienta insegura y paranoica sin motivo.<\/p>\n<p>Love isn\u2019t all sunshine and rainbows and there are going to be days when I won\u2019t be easy to handle.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll get a little jealous and insecure and I need you to understand me and comfort me.<\/p>\n<p>Running away when things aren\u2019t blissful and exciting is a dick move. Only cowards leave when things get rough.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Hombres de verdad <\/a> stay when it\u2019s a little challenging. That is what will make our relationship solid and genuine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre consolando a mujer triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-comforting-sad-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I want you to want to be with me and not just when you want sex. It\u2019s more than okay to be physically attracted to me and I love that but I need more.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I need to feel close to you in other ways too. I need to know that you love spending time with me, even when it doesn\u2019t include sex.<\/p>\n<p>Tenemos que ser capaces de hablar durante horas sobre cualquier cosa y nada estar\u00e1 fuera de los l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n<p>I need to feel comfortable telling you stuff I can\u2019t tell anyone else.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quiero que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/te-deje-pero-en-realidad-queria-que-lucharas-por-mi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>lucha por m\u00ed<\/b><\/a><b>. I want you to tell me I look beautiful when I\u2019m a mess and I don\u2019t feel so good about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> I need to feel your love when I\u2019m tired and exhausted after a long day.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I need actions that will follow your words. You need to put in just as much effort into this as I am. I can\u2019t waste time on anything half-assed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"pareja cogida de la mano y mir\u00e1ndose a los ojos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-and-looking-each-other-in-the-eyes-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want you to tell me that you love me when I least expect it. And I need you to tell me that as often as possible. I don\u2019t think that is too much to ask.<\/p>\n<p>I want your support. When I achieve something I\u2019m really proud of, I need you to be my biggest cheerleader.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que est\u00e9s orgulloso de m\u00ed, que lo celebres conmigo y que me hagas sentir especial. Porque t\u00fa eres especial para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero escuchar tus opiniones sinceras sobre las cosas que son importantes para m\u00ed. Quiero incluirte en mi vida de todas las formas posibles.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t feel like I\u2019m boring you with anything, otherwise it\u2019s not going to work.<\/p>\n<p>Me interesa tu vida, tus amigos, tus aficiones y las cosas con las que luchas. Quiero ser quien te ayude a superar las cosas y necesito que t\u00fa seas igual conmigo.<\/p>\n<p>When you tell me you\u2019re going to call me, I need to know that you\u2019re not just saying that and you\u2019re actually going to call me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make me question everything. I need to feel secure with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Necesito tu coherencia por encima de cualquier otra cosa. Necesito saber que puedo contar contigo, confiar en ti y que est\u00e1s involucrado en esto. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por eso s\u00e9 que tenemos una posibilidad real.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enamorado abrazando a mujer en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-in-love-hugging-woman-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hearing \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/33-dulces-y-significativos-refranes-de-te-quiero-para-tu-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Te quiero <\/a>\u2019 will always be my favorite three words from you but I need you to keep proving that, because consistency means checking in on me and having a sense of commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que me conozcas, mi verdadero yo, con defectos y todo, y que me quieras a pesar de todos mis defectos.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito que siempre est\u00e9s orgulloso de m\u00ed y me presentes a personas que son importantes para ti, porque eso me hace sentir que yo tambi\u00e9n soy importante para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Your honesty will always be needed, even when it\u2019s hard telling me the truth. I would rather hear the harsh truth than a white lie.<\/p>\n<p>Consistency means you won\u2019t wake up one day and decide you want something else.<\/p>\n<p>It means you\u2019re in this for the long haul and that you\u2019re ready for anything that may come our way.<\/p>\n<p>We are a team and there is nothing we can\u2019t overcome.<\/p>\n<p>Te amo y necesito saber que me amas lo suficiente como para seguir haciendo esto conmigo, porque sabes que valemos cada dificultad y cada lucha.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t ask for a lot. Just be consistent, make an effort and stay true to your word. Everything else will come easy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112554\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lo \u00fanico que necesito en una relaci\u00f3n es constancia y esfuerzo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not going to sugar-coat anything anymore. If you can\u2019t meet my standards, I don\u2019t have time for you anymore. I need you to be a constant in my life and not just someone who occasionally answers my texts. I need you to call me and ask how my day is going. I want you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":112553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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