{"id":31534,"date":"2020-06-21T09:06:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T09:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31534"},"modified":"2021-08-24T12:34:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T12:34:41","slug":"esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-la-gente-va-y-viene-y-7-lecciones-que-te-ensenan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-la-gente-va-y-viene-y-7-lecciones-que-te-ensenan\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 la gente va y viene y 7 lecciones que te ense\u00f1an"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La gente va y viene. Lo hacen por diversas razones y hagas lo que hagas, no puedes afectarles.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos de ellos llegan a nuestras vidas para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-important-lessons-last-break-taught\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> darnos lecciones <\/a> mientras que algunos de ellos se convierten en nuestros mejores amigos, los que est\u00e1n a nuestro lado pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>Esas personas son raras, pero existen. Y si tienes la suerte de tenerlas en tu vida, aseg\u00farate de conservarlas.<\/p>\n<p>Hazlo porque pueden convertir tu vida en la historia m\u00e1s hermosa y mostrarte lo que te has estado perdiendo todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas as\u00ed entienden que los amigos son muy importantes en nuestras vidas, y hacen un esfuerzo adicional para mantenerte en sus vidas.<\/p>\n<p>Esas personas son a veces incluso m\u00e1s importantes que nuestra familia, porque son nuestra elecci\u00f3n personal, y el hecho de que nos sintamos bien cuando estamos con ellas dice mucho de nuestra relaci\u00f3n con ellas.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque s\u00f3lo lleguen a nuestras vidas, est\u00e9n all\u00ed alg\u00fan tiempo y se marchen, son muchas las lecciones que pueden ense\u00f1arnos.<\/p>\n<p>Y de eso quiero hablar hoy. Quiero hablar de todas las lecciones que aprendemos de las personas que van y vienen en nuestra vida.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Lecciones que aprendemos de las personas que van y vienen<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">They teach us that we shouldn\u2019t trust everyone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103348\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>People who come and go from our life teach us a lot of things. Maybe one of the most important ones is that we shouldn\u2019t trust everyone we like at first.<\/p>\n<p>People have a thousand faces nowadays, and we can\u2019t just trust someone because we feel we clicked with them at first.<\/p>\n<p>Hay personas que fingen ser alguien que no son s\u00f3lo para gustarte.<\/p>\n<p>Utilizar\u00e1n tu amistad s\u00f3lo para conseguir lo que quieren, y despu\u00e9s de aprovecharse de ti, te dejar\u00e1n como si no fueras nada para ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Eso no est\u00e1 bien, pero aun as\u00ed, hay gente que piensa y se comporta de esa manera.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que tienes que saber es que todo lo que pasa entre vosotros dos no es culpa tuya.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo te habla de ellos y de si son capaces de conseguir lo que quieren.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nos cambian<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103349\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta sentada en el piso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-the-flat-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas entran en nuestras vidas para cambiarnos. Si ten\u00edamos problemas con ellas, nos ense\u00f1ar\u00e1n c\u00f3mo afrontar esos problemas, y vamos a hacernos m\u00e1s fuertes de cada problema que tengamos con ellas.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, si tratamos con personas positivas y buenas, nos ense\u00f1ar\u00e1n algo bueno sobre la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Nos demostrar\u00e1n que siempre compensa ser buena persona y que al final los malos reciben su merecido.<\/p>\n<p>Pero el punto aqu\u00ed es que tarde o temprano con las personas que entran en nuestras vidas vamos a cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>Cambiaremos lo queramos o no, y a veces ese cambio puede ser todo lo que necesitamos.<\/p>\n<p>It can actually open our eyes and show us that the right things were in front of us the whole time while we were preoccupied with something that wasn\u2019t so important.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nos muestran lo fuertes que somos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103350\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bonita posando al aire libre\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-posing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>People come and go and teach us things that we wouldn\u2019t have learned a million years alone.<\/p>\n<p>They can teach us things that are very important for educators but not so important for your children. but that we don\u2019t actually pay a lot of attention to them.<\/p>\n<p>Esas cosas nos dicen <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/una-mujer-fuerte-nunca-mendigara-tu-amor-y-atencion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> lo fuertes que somos <\/a> y que debemos darnos cr\u00e9dito por ello.<\/p>\n<p>And that is what we miss to do nowadays. It is like every success we have is normal, but we get pretty hard on ourselves for the bad things that happen. But it shouldn&#8217;t be like that.<\/p>\n<p>Al igual que somos duros con nosotros mismos por las cosas malas que nos pasan, del mismo modo deber\u00edamos estar orgullosos de nosotros por las buenas.<\/p>\n<p>Y ah\u00ed es donde los dem\u00e1s asumen el papel. En situaciones como esas, otras personas de nuestra vida nos recuerdan lo incre\u00edbles y buenos que somos.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso es en realidad lo mejor que pueden hacer por nosotros.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Demuestran que al final debes confiar en ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103351\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven de pie con atenci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-standing-mindfully-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una cosa importante que los dem\u00e1s pueden ense\u00f1arte es que, al final, siempre debes confiar en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>La gente va y viene, pero t\u00fa eres el n\u00facleo. T\u00fa eres quien decide, quien hace planes y quien dirige tu propia vida.<\/p>\n<p>Eres el due\u00f1o de tu vida y t\u00fa, m\u00e1s que nadie, sabes qu\u00e9 es lo mejor para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe those lessons won\u2019t be something nice and sweet but they will help you in the long-run. They will open your eyes and make you think about your existence in this world and your purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Those lessons mostly come when you most need them. They come when you don\u2019t know what you will do with your life when you are on the crossroads.<\/p>\n<p>They are like an epiphany, and they serve like that. When you realize certain things, you will see that the truth was in front of your eyes all the time, but you couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p>Pero el destino te envi\u00f3 a diferentes personas en tu vida que pod\u00edan mostrarte lo que te estabas perdiendo todo el tiempo. Y por ellas, deber\u00edas estar agradecido.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Demuestran que algunas personas te har\u00e1n da\u00f1o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103352\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en la hierba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-lying-in-the-grass-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has conocido a personas y has pensado que son todo lo que necesitas para ser feliz?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces confiaste en extra\u00f1os porque te pareci\u00f3 una buena idea?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY cu\u00e1ntas veces te han roto el coraz\u00f3n algunas personas que no son tan importantes en tu vida?<\/p>\n<p>Muchas veces, lo s\u00e9. Pero cada uno de los que te hirieron de alguna manera en realidad sirvi\u00f3 de lecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Fue una lecci\u00f3n que tuviste que aprender de forma dura, pero era algo que te pertenec\u00eda y nadie te lo pod\u00eda quitar nunca.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que da las gracias a todas esas personas que te han hecho da\u00f1o porque te han ense\u00f1ado que debes tener cuidado con a qui\u00e9n dejas entrar en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>And once you learn something like this, your life won\u2019t be the same anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You will finally learn to stand up for yourself and to change your outlook on life. It won\u2019t be all rose colored-glasses anymore but it will be more real.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00f3lo porque ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s real, te ayudar\u00e1 a tener una vida mejor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te ense\u00f1an que nunca debes rendirte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103353\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tranquila en el campo de flores\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/calm-woman-in-the-flower-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A nadie le gusta rendirse, pero a veces es lo \u00fanico que nos queda en la vida. A veces es necesario rendirse y tocar fondo para poder empezar todo de cero.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si lo tienes todo y a\u00fan as\u00ed te rindes ante cada problema que tienes, entonces algo no va bien.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why God sends us people who weren\u2019t as lucky as we are but who are still fighting for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Nos env\u00eda a personas que han tenido tantos problemas en la vida pero que siguen en pie, sin dejar que la vida les derribe.<\/p>\n<p>Y esas personas est\u00e1n aqu\u00ed para ense\u00f1arnos que, pase lo que pase, nunca debemos rendirnos.<\/p>\n<p>Never give up on anything you love, especially your dreams because they are there to keep you alive. And even if things don\u2019t turn out to be like you wished, don\u2019t be sad.<\/p>\n<p>Al menos has intentado algo nuevo. Al menos has hecho alg\u00fan esfuerzo por cambiar lo que iba mal en tu vida, y deber\u00edas reconoc\u00e9rtelo.<\/p>\n<p>Because if you don\u2019t, then who will?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They teach you that you shouldn\u2019t change to please others<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103354\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-drinking-coffee-on-the-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo caf\u00e9 al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-drinking-coffee-on-the-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-drinking-coffee-on-the-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-drinking-coffee-on-the-fresh-air-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-drinking-coffee-on-the-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En esta \u00e9poca moderna, mucha gente cambia para gustar a los dem\u00e1s. Lo hacen porque tienen miedo de quedarse solos y de ser excluidos de la sociedad de la que tanto desean formar parte.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cuando eches el freno, ver\u00e1s que hacer algo as\u00ed no resolver\u00e1 tus problemas.<\/p>\n<p>By trying to fit in with people who don\u2019t give a damn about you, you are doing all in your power to change the real you, the authentic you. And that is the worst thing that can happen.<\/p>\n<p>I am telling you\u2014it is better if they haze you for who you are than to love you for who you are not.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this doesn\u2019t make sense right now, but if you think about it better you will realize I am right.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes cambiar para convertirte en alguien que no eres, pero llegar\u00e1n personas a tu vida que te demostrar\u00e1n con una sola palabra que has estado haciendo algo malo todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Llegar\u00e1 alguien que te demostrar\u00e1 que intentar cambiarte para complacer a los dem\u00e1s es lo peor que podr\u00edas haber hecho por ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Y esa ser\u00e1 la lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s valiosa de todas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103347\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/This-Is-Why-People-Come-And-Go-And-7-Lessons-They-Teach-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por qu\u00e9 la gente va y viene y 7 lecciones que te ense\u00f1an\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/This-Is-Why-People-Come-And-Go-And-7-Lessons-They-Teach-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/This-Is-Why-People-Come-And-Go-And-7-Lessons-They-Teach-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/This-Is-Why-People-Come-And-Go-And-7-Lessons-They-Teach-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People come and go. They do that for a various number of reasons and whatever you do, you can\u2019t affect them. Some of them come into our lives to teach us lessons while some of them become our best friends, the ones who stand next to us no matter what happens. Those people are rare,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":103355,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/This-Is-Why-People-Come-And-Go-And-7-Lessons-They-Teach-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31534\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}