{"id":31540,"date":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31540"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","slug":"como-iniciar-el-sexo-con-su-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-iniciar-el-sexo-con-su-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo iniciar el sexo con su pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perhaps you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a long time or with someone new and when it comes to initiating sex, you find it difficult to devise a proper way of doing it.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too pushy, passive or confusing so that your partner doesn\u2019t get the wrong idea of your intentions.<\/p>\n

You also don\u2019t want to just say: \u201cLet\u2019s do it!\u201d because it\u2019s totally unproductive and it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

La mejor forma de iniciar el sexo con tu pareja es hacerlo con sensualidad y de forma creativa, lo cual a veces es dif\u00edcil, pero cuando le cojas el truco, te aseguro que se convertir\u00e1 en tu segunda naturaleza.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman, don\u2019t be overwhelmed when it comes to letting your partner know that you would like to have some action.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the thinking that men are supposed to be the ones initiating it prevent you from doing the same because that is what society imposes on you all this time. It is not true.<\/p>\n

Initiating sex is something you shouldn\u2019t be ashamed of because it is totally normal and desirable by both sexes. It also gives you the opportunity to take control over your sexuality and embrace it.<\/p>\n

Te da el poder de tomar las cosas en tus manos y, de vez en cuando, ser la que lleva las riendas, lo cual es (si le preguntas a cualquier hombre) sexy a m\u00e1s no poder.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo iniciar las relaciones sexuales con su pareja<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Hay muchas formas de iniciar el sexo (como ver\u00e1s a continuaci\u00f3n), pero antes de entrar en materia, debes recordar que, elijas la opci\u00f3n que elijas, tienes que estar relajada.<\/p>\n

Mucha gente se frustra por este motivo, ya que procesan mentalmente todos los escenarios posibles antes incluso de intentarlo.<\/p>\n

It is especially hard to think positively if your partner seems a little bit upset, and you would like to cheer them up by spicing things up in bedroom or some new pose that you\u2019ve come up by reading Kama Sutra.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the environment and other details discourage you from making the first move when it comes to sex.<\/p>\n

Si te mantienes relajado y eliges el enfoque adecuado en funci\u00f3n de su estado de \u00e1nimo, lo m\u00e1s probable es que todo salga como deseabas (o incluso supere tus expectativas), y ver\u00e1s que las cosas no son tan complicadas como pod\u00edas pensar.<\/p>\n

13 formas de iniciar el sexo con tu pareja y darle un toque picante a tu dormitorio<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sea directo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil, y a veces la m\u00e1s eficaz, es ser directo. Sin rodeos, sin presentaciones innecesarias.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale a tu pareja si le apetece un poco de acci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

A algunas personas simplemente les encanta porque es atrevida y directa, y le ahorrar\u00e1 nervios y tiempo (y Dios sabe que nunca se tiene tiempo suficiente).<\/p>\n

Pero no te aconsejo que utilices este m\u00e9todo si tu pareja no est\u00e1 de humor para nada.<\/p>\n

Si se sienten mal o est\u00e1n preocupados por algo, preguntarles si quieren meterse en la cama contigo ser\u00eda totalmente inadecuado.<\/p>\n

En cambio, siempre es mejor empezar con un ligero masaje e ir poco a poco al grano (ya me entiendes).<\/p>\n

Habla sucio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Dirty talk is underrated most of the times, but it shouldn\u2019t be so. It is a playful and sexy way of telling your partner that you would like to have some fun with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re at a party or among a crowd, talking dirty is a nice way of letting your partner know what they should expect when you come home.<\/p>\n

It will build great sexual tension, and they will surely know that you\u2019re in the mood for something spicy. Just slowly whisper into their ear and let your imagination do the rest.<\/p>\n

Ten por seguro que al instante les entrar\u00e1n escalofr\u00edos y se pondr\u00e1n cachondos, esperando el momento de abandonar el local.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1gales cumplidos<\/h2>\n

\"linda<\/p>\n

Otra buena forma de iniciar el sexo con tu pareja es elogiarlos<\/a>. Intenta decir lo sexy que es o que te gusta su nuevo corte de pelo o cualquier otra cosa.<\/p>\n

Compliments are a great way to increase your partner\u2019s mood and prepare them for action because they work as confidence boosters.<\/p>\n

And when your partner is feeling good, your half of your job is done. But, don\u2019t bombard them with too many compliments because it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

Tiene que sonar natural y como si realmente lo sintieras.<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strales que son el hombre m\u00e1s guapo o la mujer m\u00e1s bella del mundo. Esto os acercar\u00e1 m\u00e1s, y ser\u00e1 una gran transici\u00f3n para intimar.<\/p>\n

Turn routine activities into fun (especially if you don\u2019t have time)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Your daily chores and other tasks shouldn\u2019t prevent you from initiating sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Puedes sacar partido de esto y utilizarlo para iniciar relaciones sexuales con tu pareja cuando menos se lo espere. Es una buena forma de romper la rutina y probar algo nuevo.<\/p>\n

So, when you\u2019re in the kitchen together or doing laundry, try subtly touching your partner and letting them know that you would like to have sexy time with them.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wait for the perfect moment because every moment is the perfect moment if you know how to approach it sensually and with care.<\/p>\n

Utilizar palabras clave<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A veces, iniciar el sexo parece imposible debido a las circunstancias que te lo impiden.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puedes estar en la misma habitaci\u00f3n con tus hijos cuando empiezas a pensar en iniciar relaciones sexuales con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Por eso, la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de hacerlo sin que lo sepan es utilizar palabras clave.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se hace? Simplemente inventa algunas frases que utilizar\u00edas normalmente en una conversaci\u00f3n, y dilo siempre que te apetezca.<\/p>\n

You can ask your partner something, and they can reply positively or negatively in accordance with their mood about having sex with you. It\u2019s easy and fun at the same time.<\/p>\n

Enviar mensajes coquetos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puedes intentar enviar algunos mensajes coquetos a tu pareja en los que le digas lo mucho que le echas de menos y que te gustar\u00eda que estuviera a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Use the power of your imagination and the power of today\u2019s technology to your advantage (especially if your partner is currently not around the house or wherever you are).<\/p>\n

Pero, aunque est\u00e9n en la misma habitaci\u00f3n que t\u00fa o en la cocina, puedes enviarles mensajes de texto coquetos que ser\u00e1n picantes y divertidos al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n

And when you feel like you can\u2019t endure it anymore, just jump onto each other and do everything that you\u2019ve been texting about all this time.<\/p>\n

Idear una llamada de apareamiento<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Here’s an interesting one. The concept is simple. Devise a mating call that when one partner imitates it (a certain animal), the other follows them with their own response that implies yes or no.<\/p>\n

For example, monkeys have a specific mating call. You can implement this sound. It\u2019s funny, amazing, and it gets the job done.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also much simpler, and more entertaining, to make this sound than just say: Let\u2019s do it! But don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n

If the situation is just right, there’s no need to act like a monkey or certain animal because it will be just waste of time and totally unnecessary.<\/p>\n

Act\u00faa<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling bold, forget about the verbal approach. Instead, take action by taking your partner by hand and going to the bedroom or somewhere else where you would like to have sex with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a woman, your man will be amazed by your dominant side and the decision to take things in your hands and do what makes you happy.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, puedes sorprender a tu pareja paseando en bragas por la casa o simplemente desnud\u00e1ndote cuando menos se lo espere.<\/p>\n

This kind of unexpected surprise will definitely be a great initiation for further action. It is simple, effective, and you don\u2019t have to say a word.<\/p>\n

Tener sexo por la ma\u00f1ana<\/h2>\n

\"apasionada<\/p>\n

Morning sex is in most cases overrated because couples don\u2019t feel that comfortable about engaging into steamy activities when they\u2019ve just woken up and didn\u2019t shower, brushed their teeth or similar.<\/p>\n

Pero, sin duda, deber\u00edas iniciar el sexo por las ma\u00f1anas porque a esa hora, la hormona del deseo sexual (testosterona) est\u00e1 en su punto m\u00e1s alto.<\/p>\n

A simple touch and kiss will do the job. You don\u2019t have to try hard by going out of your way to initiate something.<\/p>\n

Todo seguir\u00e1 su curso, y lo \u00fanico de lo que debe preocuparse es de disfrutar del momento.<\/p>\n

So, next time you wake up next to your partner, do not be appalled by the idea of having sex with them just because you didn\u2019t manage to finish your bathroom rituals.<\/p>\n

Recuerde su pasado acciones apasionadas<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"apasionada<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve had some steamy activities before that are worth remembering (and I\u2019m sure you have), try reminding your partner of them.<\/p>\n

Simply start talking about whether they remember the day when you\u2019ve got home from your job, started cooking and end up making out, and the rest is history.<\/p>\n

Recordar vuestras acciones fogosas del pasado crear\u00e1 un v\u00ednculo entre los dos, y tu cerebro lo relacionar\u00e1 instant\u00e1neamente con el placer.<\/p>\n

And you will be thirsty for more. Your body will also get ready to engage in more pleasure, so that you can recall it again after a few months when you\u2019re about to initiate sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Elija una fecha y hora<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you’re pretty busy during the week, bring out an old-fashioned calendar, circle a date and write down the time of your encounter.<\/p>\n

This might sound disturbing because it ain\u2019t spontaneous and it feels like a chore, but this anticipation is what makes you bubble down there, between your legs.<\/p>\n

Just simply talk to your partner about a date and time, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll come to a mutual agreement.<\/p>\n

Although least exciting, this method also has its pros. For example, when you\u2019re being casual all the time, sometimes you don\u2019t have sex that often because one of the two of you is not in the mood.<\/p>\n

Pero, cuando has marcado con un c\u00edrculo una fecha y una hora, lo intentar\u00e1s seguro, y si no va, a qui\u00e9n le importa.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019ll have sex more often than if you were too casual about it.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo tener relaciones sexuales m\u00e1s a menudo<\/a><\/p>\n

Sorprende a tu pareja con un juego de rol<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is one of my personal favorites. It\u2019s interesting, entertaining and to the point. When you feel like initiating sex with your partner, try surprising them with some role playing.<\/p>\n

Cambia la voz, empieza a hablar de algo que no tenga nada que ver con lo que estabas hablando hace unos minutos y ve introduci\u00e9ndoles paso a paso en tu juego.<\/p>\n

You can also surprise them by putting a blindfold on their face while approaching them from the back. I\u2019m sure their heart rate will immediately increase, and the fun will be inevitable.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 creativo y piensa en un juego de rol que no sea tan dif\u00edcil ni demasiado sencillo. Algo que os guste a los dos.<\/p>\n

Juguetes sexuales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean instantly using your sex toy in front of them because it would be a little bit word (but if it\u2019s something that you\u2019re comfortable with, then why not).<\/p>\n

Mu\u00e9strale tu nuevo juguete sexual a tu pareja explic\u00e1ndole en broma lo que acabas de comprar. Tambi\u00e9n puedes hacer que adivine de qu\u00e9 se trata.<\/p>\n

If it is handcuffs, you can simply put it on their hands in a playful manner and I\u2019m sure they will instantly start to follow your lead and cooperate.<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea, elige el momento adecuado y crea un entorno en el que se sientan c\u00f3modos e inspirados para probarlo contigo.<\/p>\n

Just choose the approach that you\u2019re most comfortable with and if all else fails, then try to talk to your partner and explain them that something\u2019s not right. But, don\u2019t accuse them.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only one initiating sex all the time tell them that you would like them to do the same.<\/p>\n

After all, it takes two to tango. If your partner is not willing to cooperate even though you\u2019ve tried everything, the problem could be in them and not you.<\/p>\n

Piensa en todo con cuidado y lo m\u00e1s importante, disfruta de cada momento.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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