{"id":31572,"date":"2020-04-21T11:55:50","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T11:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31572"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:24:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:24:05","slug":"enganar-es-una-eleccion-no-un-error","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/enganar-es-una-eleccion-no-un-error\/","title":{"rendered":"Enga\u00f1ar es una elecci\u00f3n, no un error"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos los que hab\u00e9is sido enga\u00f1ados de una forma u otra por alguien a quien amabais con todo vuestro coraz\u00f3n, comprend\u00e9is el dolor de romperse en pedazos y no poder respirar bien porque tu mundo se desmorona de repente.<\/p>\n

Entiendes lo que se siente al ser la segunda opci\u00f3n para alguien que era tu prioridad desde el principio.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s one thing you need to understand as well: T\u00fa los elegiste, pero ellos eligieron enga\u00f1arte.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you dare think or let them persuade you that cheating on you was just a mistake, and now they realize that they shouldn\u2019t have done it.<\/p>\n

Hacer trampas es un acto de cobard\u00eda, y no tiene nada que ver con cometer errores por accidente.<\/p>\n

It is a choice made by greediness\u2014not appreciating what you have but not being willing to let the person go. You chose to commit that sin because it makes you si\u00e9ntete feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que lo hiciste es porque te dio autosatisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Enga\u00f1ar es destruir deliberadamente a otro ser humano para satisfacer tus necesidades ego\u00edstas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cheating is not something you do by accident because you can\u2019t control yourself.<\/p>\n

Cada acci\u00f3n que realizas es aprobada por tu cerebro, lo que significa que T\u00da tomaste la decisi\u00f3n de hacer que otro ser humano se sintiera miserable disfrutando de tu momento de felicidad.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But, was it so hard to admit to them that you\u2019re not satisfied with how things are? Was it so hard to tell them how you feel and fix the problem or leave and spare them the pain?<\/i><\/p>\n

I bet, it wasn\u2019t. Then why didn\u2019t you do it? You didn\u2019t do it because you wanted to try something new.<\/p>\n

Te aburriste de lo que ten\u00edas. Te aburriste de su amor y quisiste probar otro para saciar tu apetito.<\/p>\n

Cheating is a choice driven by your urge for a change that you\u2019re not capable of making yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando decidiste enga\u00f1ar, decidiste hacer algo en secreto; ocultar tu acto vergonzoso a tu ser querido porque sab\u00edas que lo que hac\u00edas no estaba bien.<\/p>\n

You wanted something new, but you didn\u2019t want to lose what you already have, and that is what makes you an asshole.<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres a alguien de verdad, tomas decisiones que le protegen, le hacen sonre\u00edr y le hacen sentirse querido. Cuando quieres a alguien de verdad, tomas decisiones que mejorar\u00e1n vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/i>\u2014no destruirlo.<\/i><\/p>\n

But, you made a choice to fuck things up and break them, so don\u2019t you dare tell anyone that you\u2019re sorry because you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Decidiste deliberada, voluntaria y conscientemente destruir todo lo que ten\u00edas s\u00f3lo porque eras incapaz de amar a tu pareja como lo hace un hombre de verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You deliberately killed their hope just because you didn\u2019t have any. You deliberately broke their heart just because you didn\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n

And on top of all that, now, you probably expect them to forgive you because YOU MADE A MISTAKE. I\u2019m sorry to tell you that love doesn\u2019t tolerate mistakes.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re either committed or you\u2019re not. You\u2019re either here or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no grey area here.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que hagas en una relaci\u00f3n depende de tu propia elecci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Les haces re\u00edr porque te gusta su sonrisa.<\/p>\n

Les haces sentir especiales porque les quieres.<\/p>\n

Los proteges porque te importan de verdad.<\/p>\n

You hurt them because you don\u2019t give a shit about how they\u2019ll feel.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s as simple as that. You could have chosen otherwise, but you didn\u2019t because you didn\u2019t feel the burden of your own decisions.<\/p>\n

You decided to waste large amounts of time only to enjoy one second. You did it because you didn\u2019t give a fuck about them.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t give a fuck about people who te quiero<\/a> y que dar\u00edan su vida por ti.<\/p>\n

Les hiciste da\u00f1o porque tus propios deseos y anhelos eran tus \u00fanicas prioridades y tienes que saber que estas personas no son tontas que creer\u00e1n que fue s\u00f3lo un error.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, puede que te hayan querido con todo su coraz\u00f3n y puede que a\u00fan lo hagan, pero en el momento en que decidiste hacerles da\u00f1o, tambi\u00e9n han decidido no perdonarte NUNCA.<\/p>\n

\"Enga\u00f1ar<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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