{"id":31644,"date":"2020-05-22T13:01:32","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T13:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31644"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:53:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:53:28","slug":"7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-das-cuenta-de-que-no-va-a-volver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-das-cuenta-de-que-no-va-a-volver\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que hacer cuando te das cuenta de que no va a volver"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Aceptar que se ha ido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90187\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa sentada en casa ojos cerrados\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-at-home-closed-eyes-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo primero que tienes que hacer es aceptar que se ha ido y que no va a volver.<\/p>\n<p>Si quisiera estar contigo, se habr\u00eda quedado contigo y habr\u00eda resuelto los problemas que ten\u00edais.<\/p>\n<p>Pero obviamente decidi\u00f3 renunciar a ti y a todo lo que ten\u00edais.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso es algo que nunca debes olvidar. Ni perdonar. Una vez que aceptes que ya no forma parte de tu vida, ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil empezar un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de tu vida.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Date tiempo para curarte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"primer plano de persona llorando con ojos marrones\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/close-up-photo-of-crying-person-with-brown-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando alguien a quien quieres se va, necesitas tiempo para curarte y volver a ponerte en pie.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t rush anything because there is plenty of time to do whatever you want.<\/p>\n<p>Si tienes ganas de llorar, llora. Si tienes ganas de gritar, grita.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t bottle up those emotions. Let everything toxic get out and once that happens, you will be able to start things over.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que te des el tiempo suficiente para sanar, superar\u00e1s a quien te dej\u00f3 y que nunca mir\u00f3 atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Aprenda de sus errores<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90189\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Joven triste sentada sola en una piedra al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Relationships are a two-way street and you can\u2019t blame only one person for the things that happened.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to accept the fact that maybe you made some mistakes in that relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez seguiste d\u00e1ndole segundas oportunidades y nunca las mereci\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez le pusiste a \u00e9l primero y nunca fuiste una prioridad para \u00e9l. Todas esas cosas fueron errores pero pensaste que estabas haciendo lo correcto en ese entonces.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso es en lo que tienes que trabajar. Tienes que corregir tus errores.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que aprender a respetarte a ti mismo para que los dem\u00e1s te respeten.<\/p>\n<h2>4. C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de enfoque poco profundo de mujer en bikini de pie junto al agua durante la hora dorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/side-view-of-shallow-focus-of-woman-in-bikini-standing-by-the-water-during-golden-hour-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En lugar de pensar en \u00e9l todo el tiempo, deber\u00edas centrarte en ti misma y en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>You are finally free to do whatever you want. You don\u2019t need anyone to tell you what to do or how you will act in certain situations. You are a free woman now and your life is in your hands again.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que d\u00e9jalo donde est\u00e1 y c\u00e9ntrate en las cosas que son importantes para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Por una vez en la vida, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-situaciones-en-las-que-es-mas-que-correcto-anteponerse-a-uno-mismo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ponte t\u00fa primero<\/a> and don\u2019t feel bad about that. And remember, that is not selfish. It is necessary.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Abre tu coraz\u00f3n a un nuevo amor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja hablando en un restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-couple-talking-at-a-restaurant-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The worst thing you can do is close your heart and to put giant walls up. Just because one man was bad doesn\u2019t mean that all of them will be like that.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t close your heart because you can find love where you don\u2019t think you will find it.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever stop smiling because you never know when someone will fall in love with that beautiful smile.<\/p>\n<p>Always keep your heart open because that is good for you. Don\u2019t close it because you can lose so many amazing things by doing that.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Aprende a ser positivo pase lo que pase<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con sombrero fedora rodeada de \u00e1rboles\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Woman-in-fedora-hat-surrounded-by-trees-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que el desamor puede sacudir todo tu mundo, pero eso no es motivo para ser negativo todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes derecho a llorar y a pasar por el proceso de curaci\u00f3n, pero cuando \u00e9ste termine, vuelve a ser la de antes. Ser\u00e1 bueno para ti y tambi\u00e9n para la gente que te rodea.<\/p>\n<p>Si sonr\u00edes a la vida, la vida te sonreir\u00e1 a ti y quiz\u00e1 te traiga gente positiva.<\/p>\n<p>And when you see that life is beautiful and that you shouldn\u2019t be crying over a man who didn\u2019t know to cherish you, you will see that everything comes together.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Aprende a ponerte en primer lugar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo una flor roja\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-holding-red-flower-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes que tienes que hacer cuando te des cuenta de que no va a volver es anteponerte a ti misma.<\/p>\n<p>Hace tiempo que no lo haces y ahora es el momento adecuado para hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Te centraste demasiado en un hombre que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/las-8-cosas-mas-comunes-que-dicen-los-hombres-cuando-no-les-importas-nada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">didn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/a> y ahora es el momento de olvidarlo todo y empezar a vivir tu vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que aprendas a ponerte a ti primero, ver\u00e1s los cambios que tanto deseabas en tu vida y cada cosa nueva que hagas por fin tendr\u00e1 sentido.<\/p>\n<p>Christine es autora de <em>\u2018<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n<\/a>\u2019<\/span><\/em>Un libro que cambiar\u00e1 tu forma de combatir la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90185\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 cosas que hacer cuando te das cuenta de que no va a volver \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Things-To-Do-When-You-Realize-He-Is-Not-Coming-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Accept that he has gone The very first thing you need to do is accept that he has gone and that he is not coming back. If he wanted to be with you, he would have stayed with you and he would have solved the problems you two had. 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