{"id":3165,"date":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","date_gmt":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3165"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","slug":"5-malditas-buenas-razones-mataron","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-malditas-buenas-razones-mataron\/","title":{"rendered":"5 malditas buenas razones por las que se suicid\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre fue mejor con los dem\u00e1s de lo que ellos fueron buenos con ella.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others.<\/p>\n

Pensaba que, con el tiempo, el bien que hac\u00eda se le devolver\u00eda y todo el esfuerzo que dedicaba a la gente se ver\u00eda recompensado. Nunca med\u00eda lo que daba a los dem\u00e1s. Mientras les hiciera felices, estaba bien. En alg\u00fan momento, se olvid\u00f3 de sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n

A menudo se quedaba sola.<\/span><\/h2>\n

La gente llamaba a su puerta s\u00f3lo cuando necesitaba algo. Ella estaba all\u00ed para consolarlos. Estaba all\u00ed para aumentar su confianza y hacer que se sintieran bien consigo mismos, pero a nadie le importaba una mierda c\u00f3mo se sent\u00eda ella.<\/p>\n

The moment they got what they needed, they\u2019d pack their things and leave, leaving her alone. Not asking her if she was ok. She didn\u2019t need anybody to get her\u2014she only needed someone to care.<\/p>\n

She was other people\u2019s dumping ground.<\/span><\/h2>\n

All the evil, all the darkness and misfortune they had, they transferred to her. It was just like she wore a sign telling people how she\u2019s a landfill\u2014 so feel free to contaminate her pureness and her good soul with their problems.<\/p>\n

Sol\u00eda ser la persona m\u00e1s positiva del mundo. Ten\u00eda la sonrisa m\u00e1s brillante, pero la gente t\u00f3xica de la que estaba rodeada encontr\u00f3 formas de envenenarla.<\/p>\n

Todo el mundo era tan ego\u00edsta.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Como si en alg\u00fan momento de su vida hubiera sido invisible para el resto del mundo. Claro que la gente se fijaba en ella, pero s\u00f3lo en los momentos en que la necesitaban. Nadie ve\u00eda su sonrisa falsa y nadie se ocupaba de ella.<\/p>\n

Yes, she was a very welcoming person, smart and strong. She could bear anybody\u2019s burden but only up to some point. When they overburdened her, they left her to deal with it alone. She was only as good as she was needed.<\/p>\n

She just couldn\u2019t do it anymore.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She couldn\u2019t be the least relevant person to herself. She just couldn\u2019t put others before her because they made it pretty obvious they were toxic. She learned her lesson. She couldn\u2019t let those toxic people use her anymore so she killed herself. She killed her kind and unselfish side and everybody lost.<\/p>\n

And then she learned to say \u2018no\u2019.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t have a moment for you.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t understand anymore.<\/p>\n

No, she can\u2019t help you.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 a ponerse a s\u00ed misma en primer lugar. Aprendi\u00f3 a ser su propia prioridad. Aprendi\u00f3 que cuando no tiene a nadie que la coja de la mano, lo mejor que puede hacer es meterse las manos en los bolsillos y seguir caminando.<\/p>\n

The tables have turned. Now, she’s aware of her worth and she’s aware of everything she deserves. So, the next time you ask why is she such a jerk, maybe you should wonder what you did wrong.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She was always better to others than they were good to her. She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others. She thought that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":3167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shifaaz-shamoon-300079.jpg",800,555,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":4,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}