{"id":31672,"date":"2020-09-23T08:41:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T08:41:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31672"},"modified":"2022-01-21T21:54:28","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:54:28","slug":"por-eso-los-narcisistas-necesitan-desesperadamente-que-dudes-de-ti-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-los-narcisistas-necesitan-desesperadamente-que-dudes-de-ti-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que los narcisistas necesitan desesperadamente que dudes de ti mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfConoces esa sensaci\u00f3n visceral que tienes cuando un narcisista te dice que eres una persona dif\u00edcil de querer?<\/p>\n

Bueno, la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que lo dicen es para enmascarar su propia incapacidad para amarte <\/a> la cantidad que se merece.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist is quick to judge you on your flaws (and never lets you forget them) he is only doing that because of his own imperfect sorry ass, knowing that if he makes sure to make you feel bad, you won\u2019t be focused on his shit.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas necesitan hacerte sentir mal contigo mismo<\/a> para poder aumentar su fr\u00e1gil ego y alimentarse de tus inseguridades, porque son totalmente incapaces de centrarse en sus propios problemas de los que se deriva su horrible comportamiento en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist emotionally abuses you and strips you of your security and comfort, he is doing that because he sees something good and genuine inside you that he doesn\u2019t possess and knows he never can, so he makes you feel bad out of pure envy and malice.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When he yells at you, puts you down and never lets your true colors shine, know that the only reason he is doing that is because he can\u2019t control his emotions.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Es profundamente defectuoso, desordenado e incapaz de estar plenamente satisfecho consigo mismo. Esto no es en absoluto culpa tuya.<\/p>\n

Sus emociones est\u00e1n fuera de control y te est\u00e1 convirtiendo en el chivo expiatorio de sus defectos.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist makes you feel like there is something constantly wrong with you and you can\u2019t seem to do anything right, know that there is nothing you can do to please him.<\/p>\n

Hagas lo que hagas y como lo hagas, nunca ser\u00e1 suficiente y todos tus intentos ser\u00e1n en vano, debido a las expectativas tan poco realistas que tiene puestas en ti.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, \u00e9l es incapaz de lograr nada por s\u00ed mismo, por lo tanto te hace sentir incapaz simplemente para sentirse mejor.<\/p>\n

Las peleas con un narcisista son una batalla que siempre vas a perder.<\/i><\/p>\n

No se va a detener ante nada para destruirte emocionalmente por completo y en lugar de entrar en ello con ellos, es m\u00e1s inteligente asentir y al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l <\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca dejes que te supere y te vac\u00ede de toda tu mente sana, energ\u00eda y positividad. Eso es lo que mejor saben hacer y por lo que siempre se esforzar\u00e1n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The best you can do is recognize this behavioral pattern, learn to not let it affect you, knowing it\u2019s not you, and walk away, letting it all go in one ear and out the other.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas har\u00e1n todo lo posible para que te sientas demasiado sensible cuando intentes hablar de un tema delicado y airear tus problemas.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1n sentir d\u00e9bil y vulnerable por intentar solucionar tus problemas, ya sean individuales o de pareja.<\/p>\n

Cualquier persona normal nunca tratar\u00eda de disminuir tu valor y amor propio debido a tu voluntad de ser honesto sobre tus problemas.<\/p>\n

Pero los narcisistas te har\u00e1n sentir loco y cuestionar\u00e1n seriamente tu juicio con sus t\u00e1cticas probadas.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But when you show them that you don\u2019t need them and that you see right through their obsessive need to control you by seemingly doing something nice but only to use it to make you feel bad later, you\u2019re going to make them see you\u2019re not as easy a prey as they\u2019d hoped you were.<\/p>\n

Cuando un narcisista te hace sentir culpable por tener relaciones buenas y sanas con otras personas (amigos y familiares) s\u00f3lo lo hace porque tiene miedo de que puedas <\/i><\/b>d\u00e9jalo<\/i><\/b><\/a> si pasas suficiente tiempo con personas que \u00e9l sabe que sacan lo mejor de ti.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you find yourself stuck in a web they\u2019ve made, feeling there\u2019s no way out, know that you are the only one who can escape this by not letting him control you.<\/p>\n

He needs to believe that he has all the control over you by making you feel like you can\u2019t survive without him but in fact, it\u2019s the other way around!<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que no le tienes miedo y que eres perfectamente capaz de vivir sin \u00e9l y observa c\u00f3mo se retuerce de inseguridad y nerviosismo.<\/p>\n

When you make him see you don\u2019t really need him, he will finally be rendered powerless and his reign over you will be over.<\/p>\n

Escapa de su villano trato y demu\u00e9strale lo buena que eres por ti misma. No ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s que un cascar\u00f3n de persona, incapaz de vivir sin ti para alimentarse.<\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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