La primera vez que lo piensas, una relaci\u00f3n sin compromiso suena perfecta. La ves como una oportunidad de darle un toque picante a tu vida con la cantidad justa de pasi\u00f3n y mariposas que te ayuden a pasar el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n
You have someone to call when you are lonely, without having any duties which could rearrange your life. You don\u2019t have to change or make compromises for the sake of the other person and you can continue rocking your vida de soltero<\/span><\/a> y tener a alguien que te d\u00e9 un poco de afecto y ternura cuando lo necesites.<\/p>\n Parece un arreglo estupendo, \u00bfverdad? Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 puede salir mal?<\/p>\n Bueno, yo ten\u00eda exactamente los mismos pensamientos corriendo por mi cabeza antes de entrar en mi casi relaci\u00f3n. Y entonces, la vida me demostr\u00f3 que estaba equivocada.<\/p>\n Por eso estoy a punto de darte una visi\u00f3n de primera mano sobre c\u00f3mo es realmente este tipo de relaci\u00f3n. Est\u00e1s a punto de leer 5 cosas que seguramente te har\u00e1n cambiar de opini\u00f3n sobre todo lo que cre\u00edas saber sobre las relaciones sin t\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n Las citas modernas nos han ense\u00f1ado que un relaci\u00f3n sin trabajo<\/a> es casi exactamente igual que la real. Pasas tiempo con tu pareja, os comunic\u00e1is con regularidad, ten\u00e9is intimidad f\u00edsica y, b\u00e1sicamente, hac\u00e9is todas las cosas que hace una pareja normal.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, the emphasis here is on the word almost. This relationship is not a real relationship, even if it is similar to one and this is something you need to be aware of before getting yourself involved in it. You can call it an affair, a situationship or some kind of connection but if it were a real romantic relationship, you guys would have labeled it as such, wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n Tu casi novio no es alguien con quien puedas contar en todo momento. No es alguien que prometi\u00f3 estar a tu lado en los d\u00edas buenos y malos y no es el hombre que firm\u00f3 para ser tu mejor amigo y tu compa\u00f1ero de vida.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, he will be the cause of your sleepless nights and of your tears. He will be someone you\u2019ll give your precious time and effort to, just like in a real relationship.<\/p>\n Aunque esta situaci\u00f3n sin laboratorio no es una relaci\u00f3n, te aportar\u00e1 toda la verdadera problemas de pareja<\/a>. Its end will bring you the same amount of emotional pain a real break-up would. Just because you never dated a man, it doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t break your heart.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that a labeled relationship guarantees you a stress-free life. I am not saying that labeled couples don\u2019t have problems and disagreements because they most certainly do.<\/p>\n But they also have the benefits of a real relationship which makes all of the hardships worth it. And that is something you don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n When you are in this kind of situationship, you are not entitled to demand anything. You don\u2019t have the right to demand loyalty, fidelity, commitment, effort or closure. Whenever you think about complaining, remember that you are the one who signed up for this.<\/p>\n If you are planning on getting yourself involved in this type of relationship in the hope of it one day becoming serious\u2014don\u2019t. A person who doesn\u2019t have second thoughts about you and a person who is sure about his feelings for you will behave accordingly from the start.<\/p>\n Please, don\u2019t lie to yourself that tu amor cambiar\u00e1 a este hombre<\/span><\/a> and that he\u2019ll eventually understand that you deserve to have the title of his girlfriend. Don\u2019t fall for his false excuses that he just needs time to get his shit together. Don\u2019t believe in his empty promises that this arrangement is only temporary and that things between you will sort themselves out in no time.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that nothing will probably ever change. You\u2019ll just end up wasting years of your life next to someone who thinks you are convenient, while you keep waiting for a miracle that will never come.<\/p>\n Another thing you need to be aware of when it comes to entering a relationship without a label is that you are probably not the only girl in this man\u2019s life. After all, he never promised you fidelity or exclusivity which means that you don\u2019t have the right to be jealous.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, I guarantee you that you will be more than upset about this\u2014you\u2019ll just know that you can\u2019t show it. You\u2019ll spend numerous nights crying yourself to sleep, preguntando lo que tu casi novio<\/a> has been up to. You\u2019ll do your best to find out everything there is to know about other women in his life, secretly hoping that you are the only one, while not saying a word and knowing that he never gave you the right to ask any questions.<\/p>\n Antes de involucrarte en una relaci\u00f3n sin laboratorio, debes saber que eso no es lo que te mereces y que, definitivamente, no es algo con lo que debas conformarte. En lugar de eso, te mereces un hombre que est\u00e9 m\u00e1s que orgulloso de cogerte de la mano en p\u00fablico, de mostrarte su afecto delante de todo el mundo y de llamarte su novia.<\/p>\n1. No es una relaci\u00f3n real<\/h2>\n
2. Pero te traer\u00e1 todos los problemas reales de las relaciones<\/h2>\n
3. Probablemente nunca ser\u00e1 serio<\/h2>\n
4. You don\u2019t have the right to be jealous<\/h2>\n
5. Te mereces m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n