{"id":31705,"date":"2020-06-23T10:26:07","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T10:26:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31705"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:05:10","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:05:10","slug":"alucinantes-razones-por-las-que-volvemos-con-gente-que-nos-hizo-dano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/alucinantes-razones-por-las-que-volvemos-con-gente-que-nos-hizo-dano\/","title":{"rendered":"Razones alucinantes por las que volvemos con la gente que nos hace da\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las personas son criaturas de h\u00e1bitos, y una vez que se crean una rutina y la mantienen durante mucho tiempo, resulta muy dif\u00edcil salir de ella.<\/p>\n

Aunque suene retorcido, ser en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/span><\/a> where things are always a certain way and which allows you to know the endgame is a source of comfort and security for some people, and they just aren\u2019t ready to break out of it.<\/p>\n

Tener algo con lo que est\u00e1s familiarizado, con un riesgo m\u00ednimo, es algo a lo que algunas personas se sienten extremadamente atra\u00eddas, y debido a esa sensaci\u00f3n familiar, se encuentran en un ciclo interminable de dolor y da\u00f1o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Everyone\u2019s pain stems from somewhere, be that from a traumatic childhood experience, a bad relationship that is haunting them to this day or any kind of abuse.<\/p>\n

Y como ese dolor es lo \u00fanico que conocen y lo \u00fanico que les han ense\u00f1ado a aceptar, encuentran consuelo en la inestabilidad que les proporciona su pareja t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n

Cuando el dolor es todo lo que uno cree merecer, es dif\u00edcil buscar otro tipo de tratamiento.<\/p>\n

\"mujer Otro ejemplo es ser ciegamente adicto a una persona que sabemos que no es buena para nosotros.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is way too easy to get lost in a relationship when we are blinded by \u2018\u2019love\u2019\u2019 that is merely an unhealthy addiction to the wrong person.<\/p>\n

In order to justify going back, we tell ourselves: \u2018\u2019Maybe this time he\u2019s really going to change\u2019\u2019 or \u2018\u2019It was me who made him react that way\u2019\u2019, so we would feel less shameful for not being able to say \u2018\u2019No\u2019\u2019 when it\u2019s the only right thing left to do.<\/p>\n

Hace poco, una amiga me cont\u00f3 que decidi\u00f3 volver con su ex despu\u00e9s de que \u00e9l le hiciera da\u00f1o en numerosas ocasiones porque se convenci\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma de que ten\u00eda que compensarle por todas las veces que la hab\u00eda maltratado.<\/p>\n

Las personas se dir\u00e1n a s\u00ed mismas lo que necesiten o\u00edr e inventar\u00e1n las razones m\u00e1s peculiares y perturbadoras para volver con aquellos a quienes hirieron porque necesitan creer que est\u00e1n haciendo lo correcto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Otra raz\u00f3n por qu\u00e9 la gente vuelve con sus parejas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> is because it\u2019s easier than opening up to someone new and making yourself vulnerable for new potential heartbreak.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Being in a long-term relationship and investing so much of your soul, energy and time into this one person is a lot to give up, so it\u2019s easier for some people to go back over and over again, hoping it will be better, than to start something brand new.<\/p>\n

Exponerse de nuevo es aterrador, desalentador y arriesgado, ya que te est\u00e1s abriendo a nuevas posibilidades de acabar herido y decepcionado.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de permitirnos ser vulnerables ante alguien y, por tanto, convertirlo en nuestro puerto seguro, es dif\u00edcil volverlo inseguro.<\/b><\/p>\n

They are what\u2019s familiar to you, and they know you best. And after distancing yourself for a little while, you romanticize what you had and make it seem better in your head than it actually was, which justifies going back to that endless cycle of pain.<\/p>\n

Volver con personas que nos hicieron da\u00f1o suele estar relacionado con problemas de autoestima. Intentar salir de una relaci\u00f3n malsana y luego ceder y revivirla por milmillon\u00e9sima vez contribuye a sentimientos de inutilidad.<\/a><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esos sentimientos nos hacen creer que no somos dignos de amor y que el trato que recibimos es el que merecemos.<\/p>\n

La idea de que alguien no se sienta suficientemente bueno<\/span><\/a> o incluso merecedor de un tipo de amor real, amable y genuino es desgarrador y demuestra lo f\u00e1cilmente que todos podemos ser manipulados para tener una imagen equivocada de nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n

Creer que este dolor al que volvemos es la medida de lo que merecemos es un error en muchos niveles, ya que es s\u00f3lo una t\u00e1ctica utilizada para hacernos volver al dolor y al abandono.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need validation from anyone that you are worthy of love. When he tells you he\u2019s the best you\u2019ll ever have, know that he is wrong! When he manipulates you into coming back, be brave to say \u2018\u2019No\u2019\u2019 and walk away from his web of deceit.<\/p>\n

Eres hermosa, fuerte, amable y mereces el mejor tipo de amor que existe. Salir nunca es f\u00e1cil, pero siempre hay esperanza cuando decides que ya es suficiente.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s never too late to walk away from pain and decide to find someone who loves you and makes you feel safe. We are all deserving of love, and you are no exception.<\/p>\n

\"Razones<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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