{"id":31713,"date":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31713"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","slug":"7-tacticas-de-control-de-la-conversacion-mas-comunes-que-utilizan-todos-los-narcisistas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-tacticas-de-control-de-la-conversacion-mas-comunes-que-utilizan-todos-los-narcisistas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 t\u00e1cticas de control de la conversaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s comunes que utilizan todos los narcisistas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intentar razonar o mantener una conversaci\u00f3n normal con un narcisista es imposible. Puedes intentarlo. Puedes luchar por tu derecho a hablar, pero no llegar\u00e1s a ninguna parte.<\/p>\n

If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall.<\/p>\n

Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no matter how determined and loud you are. Conversations with a narcissist can drive you insane.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going around in circles while talking to a narcissist, and in the end, you, a perfectly healthy person, leave the conversation wondering if there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es lo que hacemos cuando empezamos una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista? <\/i><\/p>\n

Confiamos en ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Y eso es algo que debes hacer al principio de toda relaci\u00f3n. Tienes a un hombre a tu lado. Crees que te quiere y que nunca har\u00eda nada para hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que le das tu coraz\u00f3n y tu alma a la persona que se supone que debe protegerte y te da la espalda. Te maltratan, juegan contigo.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, esto te deja confuso y dolido. Narcissists don\u2019t think like we do. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t play by the rules, and their mindsets are completely different than ours.<\/p>\n

Their empathy doesn’t exist, and don\u2019t you ever try to understand why a narcissist did something or said something because you won\u2019t be able to understand it.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque alguien te lo dijera, te resultar\u00eda completamente il\u00f3gico.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando nos damos cuenta de qui\u00e9nes son en realidad? <\/i><\/p>\n

By that time, it\u2019s too late. You go round in circles. You try to prove a point to a person who thinks he is almighty and right all the time.<\/p>\n

Never start a conversation match with a narcissist. You\u2019ll lose!<\/b><\/p>\n

Their manipulation is obvious to everyone but you. And the first mistake you\u2019re making in a conversation with a narcissist is disagreeing with him.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve found yourself in a situation where you can\u2019t avoid talking to a person like that, just wait patiently for him to finish what he has to say, and no matter how it hurts, keep your mouth shut, and don\u2019t let any of it disturb you.<\/p>\n

A simple disagreement will cause a full attack on you. Instead of you being the victim which you are, he\u2019ll turn things around, and you\u2019re going to be the bad guy all of a sudden.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t lead conversations, they lead verbal attacks. <\/b>It\u2019s not in their interest to talk things through like normal people do.<\/p>\n

Quieren meterse en tu cabeza y ganar una discusi\u00f3n. Lo \u00fanico que les importa es ganar el duelo verbal.<\/p>\n

\u00c9stas son las conversaciones m\u00e1s habituales t\u00e1cticas que usan los narcisistas<\/a> para manipularte.<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Proyecci\u00f3n inversa<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you talk to a narcissist, you may say something nice. You may try really hard to compliment him on something to take the conversation in another direction, but that won\u2019t be enough.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista siempre interpretar\u00e1 cualquier cosa que digas como un insulto y un ataque personal contra \u00e9l. Invertir\u00e1 el proyecto y se convertir\u00e1 en una v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

He will make you think you\u2019re crazy and turn you into a bad guy which will leave you confused because all you wanted to do or say was something nice.<\/p>\n

Cambio de tema<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Whenever you have the upper hand, you\u2019re right, and your narcissist doesn\u2019t know how to disprove you, he changes the topic.<\/p>\n

He has to have the control over the conversation, and while you\u2019re in charge with your valid points, he can\u2019t achieve that.<\/p>\n

Pero antes de que pesta\u00f1ees, \u00e9l dirigir\u00e1 la conversaci\u00f3n en otra direcci\u00f3n en la que t\u00fa ya no tienes el control.<\/p>\n

It will have nothing to do with what you\u2019ve talked about before, and you will find yourself in defense mode trying to prove your innocence.<\/p>\n

Gritando<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Un narcisista intenta intimidarte gritando. Utiliza la voz alta para intimidarte y hacerte retroceder en una conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Esto tiene mucho sentido cuando el narcisista es un hombre y la v\u00edctima es una mujer. La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres se retiran cuando empiezan los gritos.<\/p>\n

This tactic is the most effective when there are people around you like when you\u2019re in public.<\/p>\n

Knowing that you won\u2019t risk public embarrassment, a narcissist will pick a fight, preferably around as many people as possible because he knows he\u2019ll win it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll back down trying to calm things down.<\/p>\n

Culpar a<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando un narcisista cambia de tema, te culpar\u00e1 a ti. Plantear\u00e1 preguntas y sacar\u00e1 a relucir cosas del pasado.<\/p>\n

Maybe some of them were your fault, but you\u2019ve dealt with them then\u2014at least you thought so. Well, that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 guardando esas patadas en su mente exactamente para usarlas contra ti en momentos como estos.<\/p>\n

Then, you\u2019re the one to blame, you start defending yourself, and you have no idea how the conversation changed its course that quickly.<\/p>\n

All you know is that you\u2019re the one to blame for every single problem in your relationship, and he is just a blameless, poor victim.<\/p>\n

V\u00edctima jugando<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando se hacen las v\u00edctimas, nadie sospechar\u00e1 que son los maltratadores. Saben darle la vuelta a la situaci\u00f3n y demostrar que son ellos los maltratados.<\/p>\n

For example, if you want something from them and you ask them nicely, they won\u2019t answer with empathy.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t care that the thing you\u2019re asking for is very important to you. They won\u2019t apologize for not being able to help you out.<\/p>\n

They will get angry at you and scream at you because you haven\u2019t considered their emotions. You haven\u2019t thought about their feelings and what they are going through.<\/p>\n

Because when you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist, it\u2019s always about them. They are and always will be their own first priority.<\/p>\n

Y al final, ser\u00e1s una zorra por atreverte siquiera a pedirle algo. Ya sabes, como \u00e9l es una v\u00edctima, y nadie tiene la menor idea de lo dif\u00edcil que eres de manejar.<\/p>\n

That is his goal\u2014to present himself like that to others and eventually to convince you that it is really the truth.<\/p>\n

Interrumpir<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Como les encanta ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n en la multitud, tambi\u00e9n les encanta serlo en la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Their communication with you is a one-way street. If you try to prove a point and you\u2019re very close to doing so, a narcissist will constantly interrupt you in attempt to disprove your thesis.<\/p>\n

Cuando un narcisista habla contigo, no tiene ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en escuchar lo que tienes que decir, y la conversaci\u00f3n tiene que desarrollarse seg\u00fan sus reglas o no desarrollarse en absoluto.<\/p>\n

Por eso, cuando empiezan a perder el control, interrumpen para retomarlo y desviar la atenci\u00f3n hacia s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

El tratamiento silencioso<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La peor forma de abuso emocional es sin duda un narcissist\u2019s silent treatment <\/a> . Narcissists use this to block you when you haven\u2019t accepted what they perceive and tell to be the truth.<\/p>\n

When they have no other source of power, they use emotional manipulation to gain control over you. Not only they use it when they are not wrong, but also every time something they don\u2019t like takes its course.<\/p>\n

Lo utilizan cuando como pareja tienen que discutir cuestiones importantes o cuando han hecho algo mal.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is, they won\u2019t talk to you unless you apologize\u2014usually for the thing you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que no s\u00f3lo te ignoran sin motivo, sino que adem\u00e1s tienes que disculparte y normalmente suplicar su atenci\u00f3n para que se apiade de ti y te vuelva a hablar.<\/p>\n

Entonces asume el papel de perdonador todopoderoso.<\/p>\n

Se vuelve tan bueno e indulgente, y se asegura de que recuerdes aquella vez que metiste la pata en algo y te perdon\u00f3 porque es un alma buena as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Se supone que el tratamiento silencioso te hace sentir poco querido y abandonado.<\/p>\n

Al principio, suena extra\u00f1o que ese comportamiento pueda provocar esas emociones en tu interior, pero cuando el silencio se convierte en algo habitual, tiene un gran impacto en ti.<\/p>\n

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Trying to reason or have a normal conversation with a narcissist is impossible. You can try. You can fight for your right to speak, but you\u2019ll get nowhere. If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall. Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":77644,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Most-Common-Conversation-Control-Tactics-All-Narcissists-Use.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77644"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}