{"id":31727,"date":"2019-01-23T13:39:46","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T13:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31727"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:46","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-ser-infiel-le-convierte-en-un-perdedor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-ser-infiel-le-convierte-en-un-perdedor\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que ser infiel le convierte en un perdedor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Being cheated on by someone you love is one of the most hurtful experiences you can have, and you should never think that you are the reason he did it in the first place. Cheating is an act of cowardice and selfishness because it is a matter of choice\u2014not a mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando decide ponerte los cuernos, decide deliberadamente herir tus sentimientos y traicionar tu confianza aunque sabe que t\u00fa nunca le har\u00edas algo as\u00ed. Y eso es lo que le convierte en un gilipollas y un perdedor.<\/p>\n<p>Losers betray and break womens\u2019 hearts, but it takes a real man to treat them with respect and care. Losers decide to cheat when things get rough, but it takes a real man to be there for his woman no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Si necesitas m\u00e1s convencimiento, aqu\u00ed tienes 6 razones por las que enga\u00f1arle le convierte en un perdedor<\/p>\n<h2>1. It\u2019s never \u201ca mistake\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Cheating on someone is not like going to the mall, buying yourself a pair of shoes and when you come home, realizing the mistake of doing it and wanting to return them because you don\u2019t really like them or they are not fitting. Cheating on someone is never, ever a mistake. It is a choice, and making it makes you a total loser.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Destruye su capacidad de confiar en futuras relaciones<\/h2>\n<p>How selfish can you be to betray her trust and scar her for life by making her unable to trust anyone ever again in her future relationships? You don\u2019t do that to those who are always there for you and who would do anything for you. Only losers dare to kill a good woman\u2019s hope because they don\u2019t care about anyone except themselves.<\/p>\n<h2>3. It\u2019s cowardly<\/h2>\n<p>The moment you decided to cheat on her, it instantly turned you into a biggest coward in the whole, wide world because you could have chosen otherwise. You could have ended things first, but you didn\u2019t! You could have spared her the pain, but you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY sabes por qu\u00e9? Porque fuiste demasiado codicioso para tenerlo todo, y demasiado inmaduro para conservar lo que tienes.<\/p>\n<h2>4. It\u2019s egocentric and selfish on so many levels<\/h2>\n<p>You cheated on her only to appease your selfish instincts. The moment you decided to do it, you didn\u2019t think about how it would make her feel which is the embodiment of a real loser.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking only about yourself is egocentric as hell. Later, saying that you\u2019re sorry for that and you don\u2019t know why you did it is the lamest excuse ever. I\u2019m sorry to tell you that some things are too painful to be be excused or forgotten just like that.<\/p>\n<h2>5. It proves you\u2019re weak<\/h2>\n<p>It proves that your moves are weak just as your entire mindset. It proves you\u2019re not as real a man as you might have thought. Cheating on someone means you can\u2019t handle commitment because you\u2019re too afraid of it.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re too afraid of being a real man who will fight for her or leave her alone because cheating is the lowest option on the scale. It\u2019s easy to be with someone when things are going smoothly, but it takes a real man to handle various obstacles, and stay grounded and truthful.<\/p>\n<h2>6. It\u2019s narcissistic<\/h2>\n<p>By cheating, you\u2019re proving to yourself and others how narcissistic you actually are. You can\u2019t devote yourself and give all of yourself to just one woman because it would be a shame if you didn\u2019t widen your horizons and share yourself with the rest.<\/p>\n<p>It is narcissistic in every sense, and you should question your inability to be a decent person. You see, choosing to be decent is not as hard as choosing to cheat, but somehow you\u2019ve chosen to do so which makes you a complete, irreversible loser.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-31729\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/17-4-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"6 razones por las que ser infiel le convierte en un perdedor\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/17-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/17-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/17-4.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being cheated on by someone you love is one of the most hurtful experiences you can have, and you should never think that you are the reason he did it in the first place. Cheating is an act of cowardice and selfishness because it is a matter of choice\u2014not a mistake. When he decides to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31728,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/kevin-laminto-608594-unsplash-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31727","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31727"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31727\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31728"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}