{"id":31731,"date":"2020-03-05T14:48:32","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T14:48:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31731"},"modified":"2022-12-06T11:01:20","modified_gmt":"2022-12-06T11:01:20","slug":"8-maneras-de-perder-el-interes-de-un-chico-sin-darte-cuenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-maneras-de-perder-el-interes-de-un-chico-sin-darte-cuenta\/","title":{"rendered":"8 formas de perder el inter\u00e9s de un chico sin darte cuenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe has preguntado alguna vez por qu\u00e9 algunos chicos se esfuerzan tanto al principio y luego, de repente, dejan de intentarlo?<\/p>\n

Aunque en la mayor\u00eda de los casos la raz\u00f3n es que son gilipollas, tambi\u00e9n hay algunas situaciones en las que T\u00da puedes ser el culpable de ese comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, los hombres est\u00e1n pr\u00e1cticamente conectados de la misma manera, y todos se apegan al mismo viejo patr\u00f3n: PERSEGUIR-GANAR. Y si interrumpes ese patr\u00f3n, matar\u00e1s su inter\u00e9s sin darte cuenta.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019ve noticed that your guy has been acting distant and different lately, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019ve killed his interest in chasing you by doing one or more of the following 8 things unwittingly.<\/p>\n

8 ways you’re killing a guy’s interest without even realizing it<\/p>\n

Empezaste a perseguirle<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you chase him, he will no longer chase you. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re constantly texting him, initiating date nights, complimenting him and doing everything to make him feel special, it means you\u2019ve started persigui\u00e9ndolo<\/a>y deber\u00eda ser al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

You should be the one enjoying all of these privileges without any pressure and the need to prove to him that you\u2019re worthy.<\/p>\n

Has accedido a Netflix y a relajarte demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s every guy\u2019s dream to manage the transition from \u201cgoing to the restaurant dates\u201d to \u201cNetflix and chill dates at his place\u201d.<\/p>\n

If he suggests this to you, it is because he likes more casual date options where he will not feel that much pressure to impress you and because it is easier to convince you to sleep with him (if you haven\u2019t already).<\/p>\n

Whatever the reasons be, you shouldn\u2019t agree to come to his place too early because once you\u2019re into casual dating, he will think that his job here is done, and he will slowly stop chasing you.<\/p>\n

Te acostaste con \u00e9l demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yup. If you sleep with them too soon, men have this tendency to think that you\u2019re an easy catch, and they didn\u2019t have to try hard to win you because you are satisfied with much less.<\/p>\n

Quieren una mujer que eleve sus exigencias, se atenga a ellas y les haga trabajar duro para conquistarla.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been an open book<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with being honest about your whereabouts and life in general, but you need to find the balance.<\/p>\n

If he knows everything about your life from A-Z, your habits, every pet you\u2019ve ever had, family, friends and even your plans for the next ten years, he will stop being interested in you.<\/p>\n

Tienes que mantener el misterio y dejar que se pregunte de vez en cuando d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s y qu\u00e9 haces.<\/p>\n

That way, he\u2019ll see that he has so much to learn about you yet, and he will not stop chasing you until he knows every single detail about you (and you\u2019ll give him everything bit by bit).<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too available<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

If you jump the same second he calls you out and start dressing, you\u2019re being too available.<\/p>\n

If you discard your plans only because he wants to see you, you\u2019re being too available.<\/p>\n

Y esa es la raz\u00f3n por la que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n empez\u00f3 a perder inter\u00e9s. Disfruta de tu propia vida y hazle saber que a veces tendr\u00e1 que esperar un poco para pasar tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have boundaries<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re accepting everything he gives you, if you\u2019re absorbing all of his words without ever contradicting him, it means you don\u2019t have boundaries.<\/p>\n

Y cuando un chico sabe que puede decirte cualquier cosa y hacer cualquier cosa sin que protestes o te enfades con \u00e9l, te perder\u00e1 el respeto, lo que va unido a la p\u00e9rdida de inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Set strict boundaries, stick to them, and you\u2019ll be in control of the game.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t ask for what you want<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pedir lo que quieres es algo por lo que toda mujer deber\u00eda esforzarse hoy en d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not satisfied with something but you\u2019re having problems telling him that, you\u2019re deliberately denying yourself happiness only to make him feel good which is totally unsexy.<\/p>\n

Pide siempre lo que quieras y exige que te lo d\u00e9. Es la \u00fanica forma de mantener su inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t give him ultimatums<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Has it ever happened that he\u2019s disappointed you somehow by not arriving on time or something else more serious, and you didn\u2019t say a word?<\/p>\n

Seguiste siendo amable aunque por dentro te mor\u00edas de ganas de cont\u00e1rselo todo.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t give him ultimatums and make him think about what he\u2019s done, he will darte por sentado<\/a>y ya no estar\u00e1 interesado en perseguirte.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que lo mejor es reconocer sus esfuerzos o castigar su comportamiento cuando sea necesario, y te aseguro que seguir\u00e1 persigui\u00e9ndote.<\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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