{"id":31747,"date":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31747"},"modified":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","modified_gmt":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","slug":"sentirse-inseguro-sobre-el-matrimonio-7-pros-y-contras-para-resolverlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sentirse-inseguro-sobre-el-matrimonio-7-pros-y-contras-para-resolverlo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe sientes inseguro sobre el matrimonio? 7 ventajas e inconvenientes"},"content":{"rendered":"

These days, marriage has become a real debate in which everyone has their own opinions on who is a \u201creal candidate\u201d for it and who should not get married due to some assumptions or prejudice. But, not in my case.<\/p>\n

For some unknown reasons, I\u2019ve always felt unsure about marriage and never was one hundred percent for or against it.<\/p>\n

Habl\u00e1bamos mucho de ello, y a veces est\u00e1bamos de acuerdo, pero otras veces nuestras opiniones chocaban y uno de los dos estaba totalmente en contra.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve figured it out that the only way to find the right answer is to create a list of pros and cons that will help us decide.<\/p>\n

And, believe me, it did help us. And if you\u2019re having the same dilemmas as we did, I warmly recommend to read the following list of pros and cons of marriage to figure things out.<\/p>\n

7 PROS Y 7 CONTRAS DEL MATRIMONIO<\/b><\/p>\n

LOS CONS<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re influenced by others\u2019 expectations and rules<\/h2>\n

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Getting married is not just saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d to the el amor de tu vida<\/a> y luego vivir felices para siempre.<\/p>\n

There are also some annoying legalities you need to deal with once you\u2019re in marriage waters. You are no longer left to your own decisions.<\/p>\n

Tus planes y ahorros influyen directamente en los planes y ahorros de tu pareja, y siempre ser\u00e1 necesario considerar amplios factores y firmar numerosos papeles para apaciguar los tr\u00e1mites legales.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t have to think about things like this which are in most of the cases draining as hell.<\/p>\n

El matrimonio parece anticuado<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

En general, el matrimonio ha perdido su encanto. Antes era algo que todas las parejas hac\u00edan sin pens\u00e1rselo dos veces por las presiones de la sociedad, la seguridad financiera o las similitudes. Y hoy tenemos una imagen diferente del mismo.<\/p>\n

Somos libres de vivir con nuestro novio o novia sin ser juzgados por ello ni presionados por los dem\u00e1s para casarnos, lo cual es incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n

So, why would we rush things if we don\u2019t have to yet? The decision to live together as a couple sounds pretty inviting. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s the same thing as being married, only that you haven\u2019t signed anything.<\/p>\n

Las bodas son una verdadera carga financiera<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Preparar una boda puede ser una aut\u00e9ntica odisea financiera. Los que han pasado por ello pueden confirmarlo con seguridad. Aparte de tu trabajo y otras cosas que haces actualmente en la vida, tambi\u00e9n tendr\u00e1s que hacer un hueco en tu presupuesto para preparar una boda.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve always had pictures in your head of your perfect wedding day, you will have to do everything in your power to make it come true.<\/p>\n

If your current finances can\u2019t support your wishes, you will not be content and your wedding would turn into a disappointment.<\/p>\n

La tasa de divorcios ha aumentado considerablemente<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

And it is still increasing. There\u2019s this epidemic of divorced couples, single moms and single dads and I\u2019m sure you already know a few of them in your circle of friends and family.<\/p>\n

While it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you\u2019ll end up being divorced, there is still some percentage proving that you might.<\/p>\n

If your guts are telling you that you\u2019re not ready yet or if your partner might not be the best marriage material, it is better to wait until you have better insight and perspective on how thinally are.<\/p>\n

La fobia al compromiso es una verdadera lucha<\/h2>\n

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Choosing one person for the rest of your life sounds a little bit scary, right? It is like going to a chocolate factory where you\u2019re \u201cforced\u201d to choose only one type of chocolate that you\u2019ll be eating till the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

Are you capable of doing that? Are you capable of discarding all of the other flavors to devote all of yourself to the one you\u2019ve chosen? If not, you know what you ought to do because commitment phobia is not something you should dar por sentado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

El matrimonio podr\u00eda cambiar las cosas<\/h2>\n

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Sometimes marriage can influence your happiness and change the good you\u2019ve had before while you were unmarried.<\/p>\n

For example, married people have this tendency to relax a little bit too much than they should because now they\u2019re married, and it\u2019s the end of the story.<\/p>\n

So, sometimes they forget to fight for their partners and work on themselves because they think that they should be accepted as they are because they\u2019ve signed the sacred \u201ccontract\u201d of loving each other at their good and bad (which comes as a perfect excuse).<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: La lista definitiva de pros y contras de las relaciones que funcionan<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Las preguntas sobre tener hijos son interminables<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s say that you\u2019ve decided to get married, but you still don\u2019t want children or you haven\u2019t even thought about having them. Now, how will you explain this to all of these people who will constantly keep bombarding you with questions regarding your future offspring?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you already have a few of them in mind who might fit the role of being \u201ca pain in the ass\u201d and who keep living other people\u2019s lives and worrying about what they certainly shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

LOS PROS<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfTe<\/p>\n

1. Los dem\u00e1s entender\u00e1n mejor tu situaci\u00f3n sentimental<\/h3>\n

Your relationship status will no longer be the biggest enigma the world has seen or to be exact your grandma and grandpa who still can\u2019t deal with how things function today.<\/p>\n

You will no longer have to think of what to say before introducing yourself and your partner to others because now you will know exactly what to say proudly and out loud: \u201cI\u2019m her\/his husband\/wife\u201d.<\/p>\n

2. Obtienes un seguro y subvenciones fiscales<\/h3>\n

Puede que no sea lo m\u00e1s apropiado en esta situaci\u00f3n, pero estar casado tambi\u00e9n tiene sus ventajas econ\u00f3micas.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019ve always thought about making some changes in life but couldn\u2019t afford it, when you get married these will be much easier for you to accomplish when your budget is improved.<\/p>\n

3. Con tus nuevas etiquetas de marido y mujer, obtienes nuevos roles vitales<\/h3>\n

During our lives, we go through different roles from being a daughter\/son, sister\/brother, granddaughter\/grandson and now you\u2019re about to become someone\u2019s wife or husband!<\/p>\n

Hooray!! Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to proudly share your new labels with the rest of the world?<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to share your love with the rest of the world? It surely does because it is one of the most beautiful roles one could have during his lifetime, so think about it.<\/p>\n

4. Si tienes la oportunidad de elegir casarte con el amor de tu vida, aprov\u00e9chala<\/h3>\n

Antes, la gente se ve\u00eda obligada masivamente a contraer un matrimonio concertado y a seguir las normas tradicionales de su familia o creencias (y sigue siendo real a\u00fan hoy, pero en menor n\u00famero). Hoy en d\u00eda, la mayor\u00eda somos libres de elegir casarnos con el amor de nuestras vidas, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no aprovechar la oportunidad?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no dejar que florezca el amor que llevamos en el coraz\u00f3n por otro ser humano?<\/p>\n

Muchas de las personas que se han visto obligadas a casarse con alguien por motivos distintos del amor habr\u00edan matado por tener la oportunidad de hacerlo de otro modo. Por tanto, s\u00e9 prudente y s\u00e9 agradecido.<\/p>\n

5. Planear una boda es creativo y muy divertido<\/h3>\n

Planear una boda es la excusa perfecta para volverse locamente creativo y probar a hacer lo imposible.<\/p>\n

Desde globos y confeti hasta preciosas flores de miles de colores y mucho m\u00e1s, t\u00fa eliges c\u00f3mo ser\u00e1 tu d\u00eda perfecto.<\/p>\n

You have the opportunity to make it a real fairy tale (if that\u2019s what you always wanted) and you have the opportunity to have lots of fun while doing it.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a creative maniac, now is the perfect time to shine.<\/p>\n

6. Te da la oportunidad de elogiar tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

I believe that every relationship deserves to be crowned at some point because five years or more spent together definitely deserve a special celebration. All of these hardships you\u2019ve survived together, all of these happy moments, kisses, tears deserve to be praised by a celebration called marriage.<\/p>\n

It is a perfect opportunity to say to the world and to yourselves that you\u2019ve gone through a lot, you\u2019re still together, you still amaos los unos a los otros<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s just beautiful.<\/p>\n

7. Si en el fondo de tu coraz\u00f3n realmente lo deseas, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no?<\/h3>\n

If you can\u2019t think of any specific reason why not and you\u2019re still having second thoughts about it, then ask yourself why not? If deep down in your heart you know you really want to do it, but you somehow keep making excuses not to do it, then just do it.<\/p>\n

After all, you only live once, and if you\u2019re sure that you\u2019ve found the love of your life, someone who will be there for you in your bad and at your good, someone who will share joy and tears with you, then do not wait.<\/p>\n

Enjoy the moment of saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d and becoming someone\u2019s friend, lover, and life companion just as I did myself (and I didn\u2019t regret it).<\/p>\n

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