But in all honesty, it\u2019s not that hard. We\u2019re not some unsolvable enigma that men\u2019s magazines have you believe and finding a good girl and managing to keep her is not that hard, if you\u2019re not a douche.<\/span><\/p>\n And since I\u2019m so sick and tired of seeing it portrayed as some sort of a complex equation, I\u2019m going to break it down to you in 13 simple steps.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019ve had my fair share of guys trying stupid things like playing all macho, not calling for a few days after a date because he was playing hard to get, or boasting around his crew how he landed a fine piece of meat.<\/span><\/p>\n That is FOR SURE not a way to keep a girl around, so cross all that off your list and focus on the stuff I\u2019m about to lay on you here.<\/b><\/p>\n Obviously, effort is extremely important but there are some other interesting (but not complicated) ways that will get you a girl that don\u2019t include being disrespectful or making zero effort.<\/span><\/p>\n Pay close attention and don\u2019t deviate from these simple steps and you\u2019ll get yourself a good girl in no time.<\/span><\/p>\n C\u00f3mo encontrar novia<\/b><\/p>\n <\/p>\n El primer paso para encontrar novia es dejar de buscarla activamente.<\/span><\/p>\n Once you shift your focus from constantly being on the lookout, you\u2019ll realize that just being yourself and not trying so damn hard will get you more points.<\/span><\/p>\n Next time you interact with women, no matter where or with whom, stop trying and relax. Girls notice when you\u2019re trying too hard and when you\u2019re not being natural and it\u2019s off-putting.<\/span><\/p>\n Instead, be totally casual, don\u2019t look too eager and you\u2019ll see how girls will react to you.<\/span><\/p>\n Hint: They will be more drawn to the guy who seemingly doesn\u2019t give a shit than to the guy who is constantly trying to impress her.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ponte algo que destaque un poco. Lo peor que puedes hacer es mezclarte con todos los dem\u00e1s chicos y hacerle ver lo sosas que son sus opciones; mucho de lo mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n Ponte algo atrevido, como un traje a medida, alguna joya si tienes y entabla conversaci\u00f3n con una chica en particular que te guste. O con unas cuantas, \u00a1t\u00fa eliges!<\/span><\/p>\n She\u2019ll compliment you on your choice of attire, you\u2019ll return the favor and there you go\u2026 the conversation has started and she has noticed you.<\/span><\/p>\n Also, if you have a tattoo and it\u2019s possible to see it with clothing on, put it on display. It\u2019s always a great conversation starter.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Antes de acercarte a una chica que te gusta de verdad, tienes que deshacerte de las excusas y las inseguridades que conlleva.<\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019ve convinced yourself that she\u2019ll say no or that she\u2019s out of your league, get all of that out of your head, because negative thoughts will only limit your abilities when you approach her.<\/span><\/p>\n You need to feel secure and positive about it because she is going to sense if you\u2019re scared and insecure by the way you talk and how you present yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n So, chin up, believe that you can do this and just act as naturally as you can. Girls appreciate honesty and realness so never act like somebody you\u2019re not. With time, it all comes to the surface.<\/span><\/p>\n Sea exactamente <\/span>qui\u00e9n eres<\/span><\/a>, because if you\u2019re not and she likes you, you\u2019ll end up playing a character for as long as you\u2019re salir con ella<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Si hubo una raz\u00f3n espec\u00edfica por la que decidiste acercarte a ella, si hubo algo en particular que te atrajo de ella, d\u00edselo de forma simp\u00e1tica y genuina.<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe it\u2019s her beautiful, long, curly hair that stands out, or her adorable dimples, or the way she laughs; whatever it is, compliment her and tell her that you just had to approach her because that certain thing blew your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n Just be honest. Don\u2019t bullshit her and don\u2019t overdo it with the compliments. Tell her how cute you think she is and she\u2019s going to really appreciate it.<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019ll see how she responds to it and you can continue with the conversation based on what she says.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Las bromas son la mejor manera de crear <\/span>tensi\u00f3n sexual<\/span><\/a> entre vosotros y ver si congeni\u00e1is y si hay verdadera chispa.<\/span><\/p>\n Always pay attention to everything she says and does, to find the perfect opportunity to say something witty and cute that will make her think for a split second, and when she realizes you\u2019re just teasing, she\u2019s going to feel relieved and probably crack a smile.<\/span><\/p>\n Also, by teasing, you are showing her that you\u2019re not a pushover and that you can stand up for what you believe in.<\/span><\/p>\n She\u2019ll love your raw honesty and she\u2019ll probably reply with something playful and you\u2019ll have that cute, flirty rapport working for you better than you hoped for.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Girls LOVE a guy who can listen! Whatever she\u2019s talking about, be all ears and make sure to soak it all in. She will feel pleasantly surprised at how good of a listener you are; plus, you will remember so much stuff about her that she\u2019ll be overjoyed you remembered it at a later time.<\/span><\/p>\n If she says something you don\u2019t agree with, tell her but not in a confrontational way. Just make her see you respect her opinion but don\u2019t necessarily share it.<\/span><\/p>\n She will like a man who won\u2019t accommodate his beliefs with hers just to get into her pants. That would be the easy way, sure, but you chose transparency and that will always take you far.<\/span><\/p>\n Cuando te des cuenta de que la conversaci\u00f3n ha ido muy bien, inventa una excusa para marcharte y r\u00e1pidamente ens\u00e9\u00f1ale tu tel\u00e9fono y dile que teclee su n\u00famero para que puedas <\/span>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/span><\/a> m\u00e1s tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n This is going to be awesome for you if you\u2019re in a bar. She\u2019ll give you her number if she likes you (and chances are she will) and then you can both return to your friends and give them the 411!<\/span><\/p>\n She\u2019ll go to her girlfriends\u2019 table and tell them all about you and you\u2019ll tell your buddies how great you did and you\u2019ll both be pleased with how things are developing.<\/span><\/p>\n Toward the end of the night, she\u2019ll probably come looking for you one final time and if she does\u2013bingo. She\u2019s really <\/span>en ti<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n Okay, now it\u2019s go big or go home. Once you\u2019ve got her interest and she has given you her number, now it\u2019s time to do something about it.<\/span><\/p>\n Puedes enviarle un mensaje de texto al d\u00eda siguiente, pero s\u00f3lo un mensaje casual y bonito, nada demasiado complicado. Preg\u00fantale c\u00f3mo est\u00e1 y dile lo bien que te lo pasaste con ella anoche.<\/span><\/p>\n Tell her you\u2019d love to see her again and wait to hear what she has to say. If she shares the sentiment, suggest meeting up sometime this week. Ask when she\u2019s available and try to work out the best day to go on a coffee date where you can actually talk and not be interrupted.<\/span><\/p>\n Be fun, playful and cute. Don\u2019t double-text and make sure not to reply the exact second she texts, as it will make you seem too eager. Just give it a little time and don\u2019t push too hard.<\/span><\/p>\n1. Deja de centrarte en encontrar novia<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Aseg\u00farate de que se fija en ti<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. An\u00edmate y ac\u00e9rcate a ella<\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Be genuine and honest when you\u2019re complimenting her<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Provocarla<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Escuchar de verdad cuando habla<\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Now it\u2019s time to get her number<\/span><\/h2>\n
8. Inv\u00edtala a salir<\/span><\/h2>\n
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