{"id":31872,"date":"2020-04-28T09:38:14","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T09:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31872"},"modified":"2021-10-06T10:43:10","modified_gmt":"2021-10-06T10:43:10","slug":"6-cosas-que-hay-que-tener-en-cuenta-antes-de-besarse-en-la-segunda-cita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-hay-que-tener-en-cuenta-antes-de-besarse-en-la-segunda-cita\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que hay que tener en cuenta antes de besarse en la segunda cita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tener su primera cita<\/a> go smoothly and knowing you\u2019re both interested enough to take it to round two (second date) is a truly reassuring feeling.<\/p>\n

Significa que los dos os gust\u00e1is lo suficiente como para querer conoceros mejor, y est\u00e1 claro que lo pasasteis bien la primera vez, as\u00ed que ten\u00e9is eso a vuestro favor.<\/p>\n

Now, you\u2019ve probably covered the basics already, and know about their life, work situation, aspirations in life, and family. Enough to feel like you\u2019re getting somewhere.<\/p>\n

Su segunda cita<\/a> le permitir\u00e1 profundizar un poco m\u00e1s y conocerlos mejor.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a good time to discuss what you want out of this thing you\u2019re exploring and how serious you are in pursuing this for real.<\/p>\n

Puedes hablar de emociones, de la conexi\u00f3n que probablemente teng\u00e1is y de c\u00f3mo te sientes respecto a que esto se convierta en algo real.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling anxious because you know the second date kiss is looming, and you don\u2019t want it to ruin the date, here are some things to consider before going for it, in order to do it just right.<\/p>\n

Beso en la segunda cita: las mejores formas de abordarlo<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Preg\u00fantate c\u00f3mo te sientes realmente bes\u00e1ndola en la segunda cita<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

There are no rules when it comes to these things. Many people have many different opinions on this, and who\u2019s to say what\u2019s right and what\u2019s not? I always say \u2013 follow your gut!<\/p>\n

There is no pressure to force anything if you\u2019re not feeling it 100%. Ask yourself how you truly feel about it, and go from there.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re hesitant and don\u2019t want to get too intimate too soon, that is perfectly fine.<\/p>\n

Everybody has their own pace, and you\u2019ll get there when it feels right.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re feeling it, and you do want that beso en la segunda cita<\/a>, than by all means, do it, and don\u2019t let yourself talk your way out of it. If it feels right, there\u2019s no reason not to do it!<\/p>\n

2. There\u2019s no rule saying the kiss has to happen at the end of the date<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Normally, kissing her as your date is nearing its end seems like the best time to do it, and it can be… but not necessarily always.<\/p>\n

Si en un momento de la cita sientes que besarla es lo correcto y sientes que a ella tambi\u00e9n le gustar\u00eda, yo digo que vayas a por ello.<\/p>\n

Puedes sentir una chispa de forma totalmente inesperada, \u00a1y esa puede ser tu se\u00f1al!<\/p>\n

Ahora, si quieres que sea a\u00fan mejor, puedes ped\u00edrselo de verdad y ahorrarte posibles situaciones embarazosas.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling eager to kiss her and there is some tensi\u00f3n sexual<\/a> in the air, just say something along the lines of: \u2018\u2019I really want to kiss you right now\u2026 is that okay with you?\u2019\u2019 to make sure she\u2019s on board.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll probably say \u2018Yes\u2019 without hesitation, but in case she doesn\u2019t, it doesn\u2019t mean the date is ruined.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que significa es que a\u00fan no est\u00e1 preparada para ello, necesita un poco m\u00e1s de tiempo, y eso est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que bien.<\/p>\n

3. Darle un abrazo te ayudar\u00e1 a leer la situaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not yet sure that she\u2019s totally on board for a kiss, giving her a hug might make things a bit clearer for you.<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong in hugging a person (but make sure that it\u2019s not totally out of the blue).<\/p>\n

You can give her a warm hug at a particular moment when it feels right, and you\u2019ll sense by her lenguaje corporal<\/a> if she\u2019d like a bit more.<\/p>\n

If she feels tense and she\u2019s not giving out any vibes that would signify she is interested in a kiss, respect that, and proceed with the date.<\/p>\n

But if you feel her embracing you warmly and pulling you close\u2026 she\u2019s probably expecting a kiss as well.<\/p>\n

Her body language will give it away, don\u2019t worry, and you\u2019ll know what to do.<\/p>\n

4. Keep in mind \u2013 it\u2019s only a kiss (not a marriage proposal)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si a tu cita no le van los besos en la segunda cita, debes saber que no tiene nada que ver contigo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about her personal boundaries and space, and there is nothing you can do about it, but be patient and respect her choice.<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo est\u00e1 de acuerdo en estas cosas, y no pasa nada.<\/p>\n

If you want this to be a long-term thing, you\u2019ll survive, and when the time for a kiss comes, you\u2019ll see it was all merece la pena.<\/a><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if the kiss DID happen, but it was a little weird… don\u2019t be discouraged.<\/p>\n

It happens, and it doesn\u2019t mean anything. With a little time and practice, all your future kisses are going to be that much better.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s important is that you don\u2019t lose sleep over this. It\u2019s just a kiss! You\u2019ll survive however it goes, and life will go on.<\/p>\n

As your dates go by, you\u2019ll be more in sync with the person, and you won\u2019t be as unsure as you are now.<\/p>\n

Lleva tiempo, pero mejora.<\/p>\n

5. Some miscommunication is always possible, and it shouldn\u2019t discourage you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Even partners who have been together for years have problems with miscommunication every now and again. That\u2019s just part of life, so always be prepared for it.<\/p>\n

She might be giving out strong hints that she wants you to kiss her but you\u2019re not really getting it, so in the end, neither of you get what you really want, and you both have the wrong idea.<\/p>\n

It really does happen, and it\u2019s totally not a big deal. One day, you\u2019ll probably be laughing about it over drinks, celebrating your anniversary, reminiscing about your beginnings (fingers crossed).<\/p>\n

If you want to avoid any possible miscommunication, you can just be direct in stating what you want and if you\u2019re not sure about what she\u2019s trying to tell you, ask! Simple as that.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t jump to conclusions, and give it until the end of the date<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

The second date is a crucial date in discovering if there is truly a spark or a connection between you and the person you\u2019re seeing, and if there is even any point in going for the third date.<\/p>\n

If the kiss hasn\u2019t happened because neither of you felt like the moment was right, it doesn\u2019t mean it won\u2019t happen in the future.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always better to do things that feel natural, and if kissing her seemed forced, it\u2019s a good thing you didn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Now, if you\u2019re really interested and you want her to know that you want to see her again, you can text her after coming home (wait for an hour or so). Tell her what a great time you had and that you\u2019d like to see her again.<\/p>\n

Give yourselves another chance. You know what they say \u2013 third time\u2019s the charm!<\/p>\n

And in case the kiss DID happen and it felt amazing, good for you! You went for it, and now you\u2019ve got a taste of what could possibly be your future.<\/p>\n

Make sure to text her when you get home. Tell her how amazing it was for you and that you cannot wait to do it again. She\u2019ll be dying for a third date, so don\u2019t wait too long, and go sweep that girl off her feet!<\/p>\n

Kissing is a really big step because it is what leads to a more physical aspect of the relationship. Therefore, it is best to follow your feeling and not do anything that doesn\u2019t feel natural.<\/i><\/p>\n

There are no rules as to when you\u2019re supposed to kiss and how many dates should go by, so don\u2019t worry about any of that. It\u2019s all on you two to figure it out together. Nothing else matters.<\/i><\/p>\n

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