{"id":31918,"date":"2020-07-29T07:40:04","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T07:40:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31918"},"modified":"2022-11-23T12:36:21","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T12:36:21","slug":"40-abridores-de-tinder-eficaces-en-los-que-caen-todos-los-chicos-y-chicas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/40-abridores-de-tinder-eficaces-en-los-que-caen-todos-los-chicos-y-chicas\/","title":{"rendered":"40 abridores de Tinder que enamoran a chicos y chicas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque las citas en l\u00ednea y cara a cara son bastante diferentes, tienen algo en com\u00fan: la primera impresi\u00f3n lo es todo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, dar con un tema de conversaci\u00f3n sencillo que te ayude a romper el hielo con tu pareja no es f\u00e1cil ni en persona ni en una aplicaci\u00f3n de citas.<\/p>\n

Por eso estamos aqu\u00ed para ayudarte ofreci\u00e9ndote la lista m\u00e1s eficaz de frases para ligar en Tinder que realmente funcionan (y que tambi\u00e9n puedes utilizar en otras aplicaciones de citas).<\/p>\n

And not only that\u2014you are also getting some tips which will definitely help you out with creating your own striking openers.<\/p>\n

4 errores que debe evitar a toda costa<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Sonando desesperado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Uno de los primeros errores que cometen tanto hombres como mujeres cuando se trata de abrir frases en citas en l\u00ednea <\/a> est\u00e1 sonando demasiado necesitado y desesperado.<\/p>\n

So, you are after something serious but you don\u2019t want your match to get the idea that you are ready to settle for the first person who comes your way, just to get a date.<\/p>\n

Al escribir tu primer mensaje de Tinder, evita los grandes p\u00e1rrafos rom\u00e1nticos que den la impresi\u00f3n de que ya te has enamorado de ese desconocido con el que vas a hablar por primera vez.<\/p>\n

Also, if the other person doesn\u2019t reply to your message right away, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should continue talking to yourself until they text you back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the fact that they\u2019ve left you on read offend you and don\u2019t even think about insulting them just because they chose to ignore your message.<\/p>\n

Even if you get don\u2019t get an answer, accept it and move on to someone new.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es ser demasiado insistente y pegajoso, porque eso echar\u00e1 por tierra todas tus posibilidades.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo responder a Hey en Tinder: 15 respuestas impresionantes<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Being too ordinary or sounding clich\u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todo el mundo en Tinder (y especialmente las chicas) recibe toneladas de mensajes cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la mayor\u00eda de estas frases son m\u00e1s o menos iguales y rara vez consiguen intrigar a la otra persona lo suficiente como para que responda.<\/p>\n

That is why you have to avoid being too ordinary or sounding clich\u00e9 when you want to break the ice.<\/p>\n

Sin decir nada m\u00e1s que hola, dando la habitual cumplido <\/a> or asking about their day simply doesn\u2019t work well on Tinder.<\/p>\n

Aunque no hay nada malo en empezar una conversaci\u00f3n as\u00ed en persona, este es el principio de casi todas las Mensajes de apertura de Tinder<\/a> que todos reciben.<\/p>\n

Besides, it can give the other person the impression that you\u2019ve sent the same line to everyone and that you basically don\u2019t care whom it will work on.<\/p>\n

Remember that this person doesn\u2019t see you face-to-face\u2014they can\u2019t be enchanted your charm, your smile or your behavior in general.<\/p>\n

Eso significa que lo \u00fanico en lo que puedes confiar, adem\u00e1s de en tu foto, es en tu sentido del humor, y eso es algo que tienes que utilizar en tu propio beneficio.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be a creep<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with the fact that you\u2019ve come to Tinder in search of a rollo de una noche <\/a> o sexo casual.<\/p>\n

Aunque nunca debes enga\u00f1ar a los dem\u00e1s convenci\u00e9ndoles de que quieres algo m\u00e1s y aunque debes ser claro sobre tus intenciones, mencionar el sexo desde el principio es una de las peores formas de iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n en Tinder.<\/p>\n

Offering sex or making sexual innuendos in your first message will just make you look like a perv and a creep and you\u2019ll probably get your ass blocked before you know it.<\/p>\n

Besides, you always have to be respectful toward other people\u2019s boundaries, even when it comes to dating apps.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too passive<\/h2>\n

\"happy<\/p>\n

Tu trabajo no termina cuando consigues iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Breaking the ice is a huge step but if you get a positive response, you can\u2019t expect the other person to completely take over the entire communication and you shouldn\u2019t allow yourself just to follow their lead.<\/p>\n

Even though your lines shouldn\u2019t be paragraph-long, you should also avoid responding with nothing more than \u2018haha\u2019 or an emoji.<\/p>\n

Another thing you shouldn\u2019t be doing is just answering their questions and not putting any effort in to conocerlos <\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Doing the things mentioned above just give out the impression that you\u2019ve lost interest and that the other person is boring you.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, haz todo lo posible por iniciar la conversaci\u00f3n y ver ad\u00f3nde te lleva todo.<\/p>\n

4 consejos para conseguir los mejores abridores de Tinder<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1galo personal<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo cierto es que todos queremos sentirnos especiales cuando alguien nos tira los tejos y eso ocurre tambi\u00e9n con las aplicaciones de citas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si quieres tener una gran l\u00ednea de apertura de Tinder, tienes que hacerla lo m\u00e1s personal posible, para que esta chica o chico al que te diriges sepa que es el que realmente te gusta.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me advising you to try and make your match think that they are the only one you swiped right on.<\/p>\n

No, this is just a way of creating a little bit of magic so they won\u2019t feel like they are nothing more than another fish in the sea.<\/p>\n

Of course, don\u2019t try looking for them on social media or show them that you know some personal info about them because that would make you look like a stalker and it would definitely chase your Tinder match away.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, lo que debes hacer es utilizar su biograf\u00eda y foto de Tinder para ayudarte a iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n y hacer que la otra persona vea que te interes\u00f3 lo suficiente como para leer su perfil m\u00e1s a fondo.<\/p>\n

If you have a chance, make a pun with this person\u2019s name and interests, without it being insulting.<\/p>\n

Si ves que les gusta un deporte, por ejemplo, hacer referencia a algo relacionado con ese deporte siempre es mejor que limitarse a preguntarles por su equipo y jugador favoritos.<\/p>\n

Y lo mismo ocurre con todos los posibles intereses que puedan tener.<\/p>\n

When it comes to your match\u2019s Tinder photo, you can also use it to your own benefit.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, si ves que su foto de perfil fue tomada en un lugar que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n visitaste, puedes hacer referencia a tu experiencia all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Si tienen un gato o un perro en la foto con ellos, empieza la conversaci\u00f3n mencionando tu mascota o preguntando por la suya.<\/p>\n

Informalidad y sencillez<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Otro consejo que debes seguir si quieres que tus abridores de Tinder sean lo m\u00e1s atractivos posible es que todo sea sencillo e informal.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too complicated, don\u2019t overwhelm your match with too much information (or questions), don\u2019t start your message with an essay and don\u2019t be overly romantic (because you will probably appear as pathetic).<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, imagina que est\u00e1s hablando con un amigo y simplemente s\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even though you like this person\u2019s profile enough to make the first move, act like the possibility of them turning you down is not such a big deal (and let\u2019s face it\u2014it is not).<\/p>\n

Ser diferente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

One of the most precious qualities to have in today\u2019s dating market, and that includes online dating as well, is being able to stand out.<\/p>\n

Ser especial y \u00fanico y no mezclarse con la masa es algo que mejora tu tasa de respuesta en las aplicaciones de citas.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you have to pretend that you are something you are not or that you should make a fool of yourself just to be noticed.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tienes que demostrar a tu pareja que no eres una m\u00e1s entre el mill\u00f3n de personas que le tiran los tejos y que eres t\u00fa quien merece una respuesta.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, showing the other person that you have what it takes to cut to the chase right away is the real deal, even though it doesn\u2019t have to succeed.<\/p>\n

Para algunas personas, iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n <\/a> con una imagen divertida o un gif (que est\u00e9 relacionado con su nombre, su biograf\u00eda o su foto) funciona a las mil maravillas.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014you\u2019ll never be one hundred percent about what works out the best until you try your options.<\/p>\n

And yes, some of the opening lines which will definitely help you stand out are quite risky. But remember that the one who doesn\u2019t risk actually risks even more.<\/p>\n

Desaf\u00edelos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Un buen Tinder frase para ligar <\/a> siempre desaf\u00eda a la otra persona. En cierto modo, les provoca y despierta en ellos el deseo de responder.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly what you want, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Contradice algo que tu pareja haya mencionado en su perfil y muestra tu desacuerdo con su opini\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you should get into a fight with them\u2014it will just help you keep the conversation going.<\/p>\n

40 originales abridores de Tinder que funcionan<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora que ya conoces todos los errores que debes evitar y todo aquello en lo que debes centrarte a la hora de idear tus frases para Tinder, est\u00e1s listo para echar un vistazo a estos 40 legendarios y originales abridores para Tinder que realmente funcionan.<\/p>\n

1. Titanic. That\u2019s my icebreaker.<\/p>\n

2. Oh, I was hoping that you\u2019d swipe right<\/p>\n

3. You had me at \u2018It\u2019s a match\u2019<\/p>\n

4. \u00a1Ay! Casi me deslizo a la izquierda<\/p>\n

5. Si tuvi\u00e9ramos una cita, \u00bfad\u00f3nde ir\u00edamos?<\/p>\n

6. Let\u2019s cut to the chase and just go out on a date?<\/p>\n

7. Esto es tan nuestro. Yo hablando. T\u00fa ah\u00ed sentada con cara de mona<\/p>\n

8. \u00a1Muchas gracias por el partido! Mis padres est\u00e1n super emocionados de tenerte para la cena<\/p>\n

9. 9. \u00bfD\u00f3nde y cu\u00e1ndo?<\/p>\n

10. *Let\u2019s pretend that I\u2019ve put a corny pick-up line here* Can I have your number?<\/p>\n

11. Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es lo que quiere que hagamos?<\/p>\n

12. Do you remember drunkenly walking into my room? \u2013No. When was that? \u2013Next weekend<\/p>\n

13. Dime que crees en el amor a la primera<\/p>\n

14. No tienes idea de cu\u00e1ntas veces tuve que deslizarme a la izquierda para encontrarte...<\/p>\n

15. Necesito saber m\u00e1s sobre tus defectos antes de aceptar nada. Exponlo todo.<\/p>\n

16. I think you are really attractive. \u2013Thank you. \u2013So you agree, you think you are really attractive?<\/p>\n

17. As\u00ed que coincidimos. El siguiente paso es empezar a elegir la fecha de la boda, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

18. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hace un joven inteligente y atractivo como yo sin tu n\u00famero?<\/p>\n

19. En una escala del uno a Am\u00e9rica, \u00bfc\u00f3mo de libre se siente esta noche?<\/p>\n

20. Te dejar\u00eda totalmente que me llevaras a una cita<\/p>\n

21. Hello, I\u2019d like to take a minute of your time to talk to you about myself<\/p>\n

22. Is this the best opening line you\u2019ve got on Tinder?<\/p>\n

23. Hey, what\u2019s up? (they don\u2019t respond) Is this our first fight as a Tinder couple?<\/p>\n

24. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto pesa un oso polar? Lo suficiente para romper el hielo<\/p>\n

25. Since you\u2019ve asked, yes, I like you too<\/p>\n

26. Te aconsejo que borres Tinder porque est\u00e1s haciendo quedar mal al resto de chicas\/chicos<\/p>\n

27. \u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona esto? \u00bfTenemos ahora una relaci\u00f3n seria?<\/p>\n

28. Pareces un golpe de derecha<\/p>\n

29. \u00bfQuieres que te golpee con un frase cursi para ligar <\/a> \u00bfo podemos saltarnos eso?<\/p>\n

30. Todas mis amigas se pondr\u00edan celosas si tuvieras una cita conmigo.<\/p>\n

31. Coincidimos, as\u00ed que supongo que ambos tenemos buen gusto.<\/p>\n

32. \u00bfPuedes dejar de mirar mi perfil y enviarme un mensaje de una vez?<\/p>\n

33. N\u00famero. T\u00fa. Ahora.<\/p>\n

34. I don\u2019t know who you are. I don\u2019t know what you want. If you are looking for a hook-up, I can tell you that I don\u2019t do that. But what I do have is a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a delight for people like you. If you hate my opening line, that will be the end of it. I will not look for you. I will not pursue you. But if you do, I may ask you out on a date<\/p>\n

35. I usually go for 8\u2019s but I guess I\u2019ll make an exception and settle for a 10 this time<\/p>\n

36. We\u2019re still on for tonight?<\/p>\n

37. Lo siento, mi aplicaci\u00f3n sigue fallando. \u00bfPor casualidad tienes WhatsApp?<\/p>\n

38. Coincidimos, as\u00ed que aqu\u00ed estoy<\/p>\n

39. Ya que somos compatibles, \u00bfsignifica que ahora estamos saliendo? Espera a que cambie mi Facebook situaci\u00f3n sentimental <\/a><\/p>\n

40. \u00bfPuedo ser tu Cenicienta?\/\u00bfQuieres ser mi Cenicienta?<\/p>\n

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