{"id":31937,"date":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31937"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","slug":"si-es-el-tipo-de-chico-que-solo-se-preocupa-cuando-no-te-vas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-es-el-tipo-de-chico-que-solo-se-preocupa-cuando-no-te-vas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si es el tipo de chico que s\u00f3lo se preocupa cuando t\u00fa no lo haces, d\u00e9jalo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando dejas de preocuparte, a \u00e9l de repente empieza a importarle m\u00e1s. Cuando te alejas un poco, \u00e9l intenta acercarte de nuevo. Cuando ignoras sus mensajes, te env\u00eda el triple.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y cuando por fin cedes y le prestas la atenci\u00f3n que tanto ans\u00eda, de repente se aleja por completo y se vuelve distante y desinteresado.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe suena?<\/p>\n

Este es un tipo que muchos de nosotros hemos tenido el disgusto de conocer en alg\u00fan momento de nuestra vida. Un tipo que trata el amor como si fuera un juego de a qui\u00e9n le importa m\u00e1s y qui\u00e9n puede ser m\u00e1s gilipollas.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 claro que \u00e9l gana, porque t\u00fa caes siempre en la trampa. (No es culpa tuya, por cierto.)<\/p>\n

Cada vez que te da un rayo de esperanza de que te tratar\u00e1 mejor y no s\u00f3lo se preocupar\u00e1 cuando tema perderte, acabas decepcionada.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que le das el beneficio de la duda y decides ir en contra de tu buen juicio, te demuestra lo inmaduro y ego\u00edsta que es.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all just a game to him. He desperately seeks attention that he is unable to reciprocate and all just to feel better about himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Usually, he\u2019ll pop up in your life at the worst moment imaginable.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think you\u2019re finally over him and that he\u2019s out of your head and he\u2019ll start texting you out of the blue.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re finally in a good place and you\u2019re doing so well, he\u2019ll re-appear to remind you of the lingering feelings you still have for him.<\/p>\n

Tiene ese superpoder por el que aparece de la nada cuando menos lo necesitas y trastorna tu vida, tu mente y la paz interior que estabas empezando a recuperar.<\/p>\n

He knows you have a soft spot for him and that no matter how hard you try\u2026 you won\u2019t be able to resist him.<\/p>\n

Cuando hace algo realmente de mierda, lo compensa con alg\u00fan gran gesto que se supone que te hace olvidarlo.<\/p>\n

Cuando se da cuenta de que por fin <\/i><\/b>listo para seguir adelante<\/i><\/b><\/a> with your life (without him in it) he\u2019ll suddenly start telling you everything you\u2019ve been wanting to hear for so long.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you tell him how much he hurt you, he\u2019ll shift the blame onto you, making you appear somehow responsible for his actions.<\/p>\n

Este hombre siempre te dar\u00e1 migajas y te pedir\u00e1 el mundo a cambio. Nunca ser\u00e1 lo que necesitas y sobre todo no lo que te mereces.<\/p>\n

You are worth so much more than bits and pieces of his affection at times when it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Siempre te tender\u00e1 la mano, pero nunca podr\u00e1 atraparte del todo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

With him, you\u2019ll always have half of everything. Just enough to feel like you\u2019re going somewhere\u2026 but nowhere near enough to actually feel fulfilled and content.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re dealing with this guy, it\u2019s important to show him that when you say you\u2019re leaving, you mean it. He won\u2019t believe you and he\u2019ll test you, be sure of that. Don\u2019t fall for it.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never going to be enough. He is not what you need.<\/p>\n

When he suddenly tells you all the things that you want to hear, make sure there are actions to substantiate these claims. Don\u2019t let him fool you with his charming, boyish smile and those puppy dog eyes.<\/p>\n

Lo conoces mejor que eso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow an insecure boy to dictate your life. You know better than to give in to this child\u2019s play.<\/p>\n

Un hombre de verdad<\/i><\/b><\/a> te respeta a ti y a tu tiempo. Te dice que te quiere y te lo demuestra. Te dice lo que quieres o\u00edr y lo corrobora con sus actos. Te aprecia por lo que eres y nunca intenta cambiarte.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That is what a real man does. Anything else, don\u2019t bother wasting your time on.<\/p>\n

Si tienes que preguntarte por el estado de tu relaci\u00f3n, no hay relaci\u00f3n; simplemente un hombre que elige los d\u00edas en que le apetece aprovecharse de tu amable amor.<\/p>\n

Learn to see through this and don\u2019t indulge him ever again. It will crush his ego and feed your soul.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you stop caring, he suddenly starts to care more. When you pull back a little, he tries to pull you back in. When you ignore his texts, he triple texts you. And when you finally give in and give him the attention he craves so badly, he suddenly pulls all the way back and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/jonathan-borba-1323102-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}