{"id":31982,"date":"2019-01-30T08:16:58","date_gmt":"2019-01-30T08:16:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31982"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:42:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:42:41","slug":"4-senales-de-que-siempre-haces-de-salvador-en-tus-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-senales-de-que-siempre-haces-de-salvador-en-tus-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"4 se\u00f1ales de que siempre juegas a ser el salvador en tus relaciones"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfHas estado alguna vez en una relaci\u00f3n en la que a menudo sent\u00edas que ten\u00edas que arreglar a tu pareja?<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you often find yourself falling for a person in need of rescue, offering to be their \u2018\u2019knight in shining armor\u2019\u2019 and help change their bad ways?<\/em><\/p>\n

If so\u2026 did you ever stop and wonder what it does to you, and how much it drains you unnecessarily?<\/p>\n

There is absolutely nothing wrong in feeling compassion towards a person you\u2019ve come to care about and wanting to help and rescue them but never to the extent of harming yourself in any way.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re always focused on helping others and putting that burden on yourself, you risk putting your welfare in danger and neglect making sure that YOU are okay.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to estar all\u00ed<\/span><\/a> for your partner when he needs you, but it\u2019s a whole other story when you\u2019re in the business of saving their ass on a daily basis and taking that responsibility upon yourself day after day.<\/p>\n

Detente un segundo y preg\u00fantate por qu\u00e9 sigues encontrando personas que necesitan ser rescatadas y c\u00f3mo eso te impide, en \u00faltima instancia, llevar una vida m\u00e1s despreocupada.<\/p>\n

If you exhibit these 4 signs that prove you are the constant rescuer in your relationships, it\u2019s time to reevaluate your amar la vida<\/span><\/a> y haz los ajustes necesarios por tu propio bien.<\/p>\n

1. Your self-worth is contingent upon your ability to \u2018\u2019fix\u2019\u2019 your partner<\/h2>\n

Te enorgulleces de tu capacidad para arreglar y ayudar a tu pareja, lo cual es un componente clave de tu personalidad relacional.<\/p>\n

En lugar de encontrar un socio que emocionalmente estable<\/a> y realizado, buscas a los que necesitan ser rescatados para satisfacer tu necesidad saciante de ser su salvador.<\/p>\n

Te sientes atra\u00eddo por quienes tienen pesadas cargas emocionales, lo que te dificulta centrarte en tu propio bienestar y curaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

2. Tienes problemas de abandono no resueltos que ahora proyectas en tu pareja<\/h2>\n

Vienes de un hogar donde tuviste que asumir demasiadas responsabilidades a una edad demasiado temprana.<\/p>\n

You took on a parental role because one (or both) of your parents struggled with addiction or a similar issue, so now you\u2019ve projected their needs onto your partner. Since no one came to rescue your parents, you now feel it\u2019s your obligation to rescue others.<\/p>\n

This signifies a slightly unhealthy obsession with other people\u2019s problems that gives you a sense of fulfillment, and it could end up harming you in the long run.<\/p>\n

3. Idealizas a los que parecen necesitados y atribulados<\/h2>\n

De este modo, se les infantiliza, haci\u00e9ndoles parecer delicados e incapaces de valerse por s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

Al hacerlo, animas a tu pareja a confiar constantemente en ti para los problemas m\u00e1s insignificantes, convirti\u00e9ndote en el responsable de su felicidad.<\/p>\n

Te cargas a ti mismo con comportamientos destructivos que inevitablemente te drenar\u00e1n de tu energ\u00eda y mente sana, hasta que te des cuenta de que cada individuo es responsable de su propia felicidad. Ponerla enteramente en tus manos no es sano, es injusto y, francamente, es demasiado.<\/p>\n

4. You end up controlling your partner\u2019s life under the pretenses of helping them<\/h2>\n

Te centras demasiado en lo que tu pareja debe y no debe hacer, y acabas microgestionando su modo de vida.<\/p>\n

What this shows is the lack of control you have of your own life which you compensate for by trying to \u2018help\u2019 your partner, even when they don\u2019t ask for help.<\/p>\n

Te enga\u00f1as a ti mismo creyendo que los est\u00e1s rescatando y mejorando su calidad de vida, lo que te permite escapar de tus propias dificultades y problemas, que no est\u00e1s preparado para afrontar.<\/p>\n

If you feel like any of these signs relate to you, it\u2019s important that you evaluate your relationship, yourself as an individual, and any issues that may stem from earlier stages of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

Date cuenta de que est\u00e1s proyectando tus propias inseguridades\/cuestiones\/heridas no resueltas en tu pareja, y que al hacerlo, s\u00f3lo est\u00e1s prolongando tus propios problemas internos que necesitan salir a la superficie y ser tratados.<\/p>\n

Stop trying to save people, regardless of them asking it from you or not. It is not your job to be anybody\u2019s rescuer. That is on them.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re so busy trying to save everybody else, you easily forget the one person who needs to be saved the most \u2013 YOU.<\/p>\n

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Have you ever been in a relationship where you often felt you needed to fix your partner? Do you often find yourself falling for a person in need of rescue, offering to be their \u2018\u2019knight in shining armor\u2019\u2019 and help change their bad ways? If so\u2026 did you ever stop and wonder what it does…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31983,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/priscilla.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}