{"id":31986,"date":"2020-01-23T08:30:10","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T08:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31986"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:07:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:07:02","slug":"6-cosas-que-pasaron-cuando-deje-mi-casi-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-pasaron-cuando-deje-mi-casi-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que me pasaron cuando dej\u00e9 mi casi relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando te encuentras en una relaci\u00f3n casi, no haces las cosas a medias. Quieres contenerte, pero inviertes por completo.<\/p>\n

Compartes todos tus pensamientos y sue\u00f1os. Te r\u00edes a carcajadas. Te besas tan fuerte como puedes porque nunca sabes cu\u00e1l de esos besos va a ser el \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t half love, even though you maybe would if you could. You are verdaderamente, locamente, profundamente enamorado<\/a> en tu casi persona, y no hay nada que puedas hacer para detenerte.<\/p>\n

At least I couldn\u2019t. No matter how many times I said to myself that what I had with him was going nowhere, that I shouldn\u2019t let him in, and that he was just going to hurt me, I allowed things to evolve.<\/p>\n

Por un breve pero largo momento, sent\u00ed que yo era la persona m\u00e1s especial para \u00e9l. Sent\u00ed que yo importaba, y que no hab\u00eda nadie en este mundo que pudiera hacerme sentir como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

I didn’t imagine things. I didn\u2019t misinterpret the signs. They were all there.<\/p>\n

He really liked me. He was really drawn to me. He really cared, but sadly, he didn\u2019t care as much as I did.<\/p>\n

He never cared enough to bridge the distance from \u2018almost\u2019 to \u2018real\u2019.<\/p>\n

So I used to live my life in the grey area of \u2018maybe\u2019. Maybe he will be ready for a relationship someday.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 me presente a sus amigos y a su familia. Quiz\u00e1 me trate como si le importara. Quiz\u00e1 se convierta en el hombre que merezco. Tal vez no haya lugar para los \"tal vez\".<\/p>\n

La lista de \"tal vez\" segu\u00eda acumul\u00e1ndose, pero nunca era suficiente para llenar todo el vac\u00edo que hab\u00eda en mi interior y que crec\u00eda cada vez m\u00e1s con mi insatisfacci\u00f3n ante toda la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know at which point my patience ceased to exist. I don\u2019t know what was the last drop that filled the cup and made me see that enough was enough, but I just knew I had to end it because with him, I would never have it all. I would never be truly happy.<\/p>\n

Result\u00f3 ser la mejor decisi\u00f3n que he tomado nunca, y esto es lo que pas\u00f3 cuando Me fui<\/a> mi casi relaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

1. Me rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n dejarlo, pero ten\u00eda que hacerlo...<\/h2>\n

Fue probablemente una de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles que he hecho. Todav\u00eda me gustaba.<\/p>\n

I still loved him. I still cared. But I couldn\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

Era hora de retomar el control de mi vida. Era hora de recordar lo que merec\u00eda y olvidar lo que sent\u00eda.<\/p>\n

2. Me di cuenta de que yo tambi\u00e9n me quiero<\/h2>\n

Me di cuenta de que merec\u00eda que me quisieran como yo le quer\u00eda a \u00e9l. Merec\u00eda la misma comprensi\u00f3n y las mismas inversiones que yo le daba a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Me merec\u00eda algo m\u00e1s que casi. Me merec\u00eda a alguien que est\u00e1 listo para una relaci\u00f3n o por lo menos alguien que estar\u00e1 listo para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tuvo mucho tiempo para llegar a ese punto, tal vez incluso demasiado. Me cans\u00e9 de esperar.<\/p>\n

3. Mi coraz\u00f3n necesitaba mucho tiempo para sanar<\/h2>\n

All the emotions were real, and this isn\u2019t something you can turn your back on that easily. Even when he was no longer a part of my life, I still wanted to know where he was and what he was up to.<\/p>\n

Me llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo dejar de acosarle en las redes sociales y de preguntar por \u00e9l. Me llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo dejar el h\u00e1bito de pensar en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Tuve que pasar por lo que cualquier persona pasa despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY adivina qu\u00e9? Sobreviv\u00ed. Hice m\u00e1s que eso. Empec\u00e9 a vivir mi vida de verdad para variar.<\/p>\n

4. Vi las ventajas<\/h2>\n

There were no more sleepless nights which I spend thinking about where he was at and with whom. Were all his female friends just friends or were they like me…more than a friend less than a girlfriend?<\/p>\n

The tears I spilled while I was still with him used to hurt more. It was devastatingly painful to have someone close and not to have him entirely at the same time. It\u2019s the loneliest feeling in the world.<\/p>\n

Se acabaron los quiz\u00e1s. Dej\u00e9 de pensar en cosas que podr\u00edan ser y me concentr\u00e9 en el aqu\u00ed y el ahora. Decid\u00ed reconstruir mi vida ladrillo a ladrillo.<\/p>\n

5. I discovered a part of me that I didn\u2019t even know was there<\/h2>\n

I had to do something to move on with my life. That\u2019s why I stopped feeling sorry for myself and everything that could’ve been but wasn\u2019t and started acting.<\/p>\n

Prob\u00e9 cosas nuevas. Emprend\u00ed nuevas aventuras. Aprend\u00ed cosas nuevas y trabaj\u00e9 para mejorar mi vida.<\/p>\n

Sometimes I failed. sometimes I triumphed, but I tried, and that\u2019s what\u2019s important.<\/p>\n

Hice mi vida m\u00e1s interesante. Conoc\u00ed a gente nueva y adquir\u00ed una nueva perspectiva de la vida.<\/p>\n

6. He descubierto lo que quiero y con lo que nunca debo conformarme<\/h2>\n

I know now that I want a relationship. I don\u2019t need one, and as sure as hell I don\u2019t need an almost relationship to be happy and complete.<\/p>\n

I was more miserable in my almost relationship than I could ever be on my own. That\u2019s why I will never settle for that again.<\/p>\n

Hasta que aparezca alguien que est\u00e9 preparado para una relaci\u00f3n y que est\u00e9 tan interesado en m\u00ed como yo en \u00e9l, voy a seguir soltera y sacar lo mejor de ello.<\/p>\n

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