{"id":32004,"date":"2020-06-30T10:55:19","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T10:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32004"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:19:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:19:10","slug":"deberias-haberla-amado-mientras-aun-le-importaba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deberias-haberla-amado-mientras-aun-le-importaba\/","title":{"rendered":"Deber\u00edas haberla amado mientras a\u00fan le importaba"},"content":{"rendered":"

A veces, necesitas perder a una persona <\/b>para ver su verdadero valor<\/b><\/a>. Necesitas sentir su ausencia para empezar a ver el verdadero valor de su presencia.<\/b><\/p>\n

A veces, necesitas que algunas personas te abandonen s\u00f3lo para que puedas entender que se merec\u00edan que las quisieras mucho m\u00e1s y que las trataras de forma diferente a como lo hac\u00edas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que se alejen de ti solo para que veas que dejarlos ir fue el peor error de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eso es exactamente lo que pas\u00f3 contigo y esta chica. Con la chica que te quer\u00eda m\u00e1s de lo que se quer\u00eda a s\u00ed misma y que estaba dispuesta a hacer lo que hiciera falta con tal de verte feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con la chica que siempre estuvo a tu lado como tu mayor aliada y compa\u00f1era de equipo. Que era la \u00fanica persona a la que siempre pod\u00edas llamar y con la que pod\u00edas contar, pasara lo que pasara.<\/span><\/p>\n

La chica que te quiso en lo mejor y en lo peor. Que cre\u00eda en ti y que estaba dispuesta a enfrentarse al mundo solo para defenderte.<\/span><\/p>\n

The girl who took care of you, even when you didn\u2019t take care of yourself and the girl who tried to save you from everyone, including yourself. The girl who was ready to move mountains just to see you smile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you never appreciated her or the sacrifices she was making. You took her love for granted, thinking that she\u2019d forever remain a fool who would love you unconditionally despite everything you were doing to her.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que ella seguir\u00eda siempre intent\u00e1ndolo a tu alrededor, mientras t\u00fa ni siquiera pensabas en poner el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo esfuerzo en vuestra relaci\u00f3n. Que desperdiciar\u00eda toda su vida intentando que te convirtieras en el hombre que deber\u00edas haber sido desde el principio.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that was where you were wrong. After years, you\u2019ve finally done it<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019ve chased her away.<\/span><\/p>\n

And now that you see that she isn\u2019t coming back, you regret it more than anything. Now you see that you should have been different, that you should have been grateful for having her, that you should have seen that she was one of a kind in time and that <\/b>nunca debiste dejarla ir<\/b><\/a>. Now that you\u2019ve chased her away, you see that you should have loved her more.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? You really should have. But you should have done it in time, while she still cared because now she has opened her eyes, now the roles have switched and now she couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You see, she doesn\u2019t need your love now. You should have given your entire self to this girl while she desperately waited for you to give her the place she deserved in your life for you to commit to her. While she waited for you to get your shit together and show her that you cared.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que <\/b>la echas de menos<\/b><\/a> because you finally understand some things but it\u2019s too late for it now. <\/b>Deber\u00edas haberla elegido a ella antes que a tus amigos de mierda y a todas esas otras mujeres de tu vida mientras ella te daba prioridad y ansiaba que la pusieras en primer lugar. Mientras mendigaba migajas de tu amor y mientras lo \u00fanico que quer\u00eda era toda tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Es in\u00fatil que intentes desesperadamente localizarla ahora. De nada sirve llamar a sus amigos, pedirles que te den su nuevo n\u00famero, de nada sirve pasar por su casa, esperando verla y de nada sirve presentarte en los lugares donde crees que podr\u00edas encontrarla.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas haberla llamado todas esas veces que se qued\u00f3 dormida con un vestido elegante, esperando a que la recogieras, como le prometiste, mientras estabas demasiado ocupado bebiendo con tus colegas que ahora no aparecen por ninguna parte. Deber\u00edas haber respondido a todas sus llamadas nocturnas cuando estaba preocupada y mientras te tirabas a una chica cualquiera que hab\u00edas conocido en un bar.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is too late for you to remember all the important dates now and to send flowers to her home address. You should have done it all those birthdays ago when she just wanted a midnight kiss from you, all those Valentines ago, when she just wanted you to at least pick a rose for her and all those anniversaries ago, when she just hoped that you\u2019d remember.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de perseguir a esta chica ahora, deber\u00edas haber sabido mejor no ahuyentarla en primer lugar. En lugar de pedirle que vuelva, deber\u00edas haber sabido que no deb\u00edas hacer que se alejara.<\/b><\/p>\n

En vez de intentar volver a su vida, se lo suficientemente hombre y dejala ser. D\u00e9jala ser feliz lejos de ti porque obviamente nunca pudiste darle la felicidad que se merec\u00eda y d\u00e9jala sanar el coraz\u00f3n que le rompiste.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo una cosa m\u00e1s<\/span>\u2014<\/span>don\u2019t ever hope that you\u2019ll find someone like her. Don\u2019t bother <\/span>busc\u00e1ndola en cada mujer<\/span><\/a> que se cruza en tu camino porque cr\u00e9eme<\/span>\u2014<\/span>no se la encuentra por ninguna parte.<\/span><\/p>\n

You had your one-time chance for happiness with this girl and you blew it. And this is something you\u2019ll have to spend the rest of your life regretting.  <\/b><\/p>\n

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