{"id":32057,"date":"2019-10-31T12:55:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T12:55:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32057"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:11:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:11:03","slug":"deja-de-mentirte-si-no-te-trata-bien-ahora-nunca-lo-hara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-mentirte-si-no-te-trata-bien-ahora-nunca-lo-hara\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de mentirte a ti misma: Si no te trata bien ahora, nunca lo har\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eres alguien que cree en el bien de las personas. Una chica que tiene fe en que su amor es esa fuerza omnipotente que puede cambiar y arreglar a los que necesitan ser salvados.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are an optimistic girl who believes in a better tomorrow, even if it\u2019s against all odds. A girl who believes that things always find a way of sorting themselves out, one way or another.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto es especialmente cierto cuando se trata de una relaci\u00f3n sentimental. Aunque todo el mundo te diga que <\/span>your boyfriend isn\u2019t good enough<\/span><\/a> para ti, eliges ignorarlas. <\/span><\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo eso<\/span>\u2014<\/span>tambi\u00e9n eliges ignorar tu intuici\u00f3n y esa vocecita en el fondo de tu cabeza que te dice que \u00e9l nunca te mereci\u00f3 y nunca te merecer\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, despite the way he\u2019s been treating you, you keep on hoping that eventually he\u2019ll change. <\/b><\/p>\n

You keep on hoping that one of these days, things will magically fall into place and that he\u2019ll turn into the man you hope for him to become.<\/b><\/p>\n

That one of these days, he\u2019ll realize how much you mean to him, that he\u2019ll realize how much pain he\u2019s been causing you all along and just like that<\/span>\u2014<\/span>he\u2019ll start treating you differently. <\/span><\/p>\n

That he\u2019ll start regretting the way he keeps on breaking your heart and that he\u2019ll finally take responsibility for his actions. That one of these days, he\u2019ll understand all of his mistakes and that he\u2019ll do everything in his power to change his ways.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que quieres que las cosas con este hombre funcionen de la mejor manera posible. S\u00e9 que quieres que esta relaci\u00f3n tenga \u00e9xito y s\u00e9 que realmente esperas que as\u00ed sea.<\/span><\/p>\n

No obstante, <\/span>all of this doesn\u2019t give you the right to lie to yourself. It doesn\u2019t give you the right to close your eyes to the obvious truth and to keep looking for excuses for this guy\u2019s behavior. <\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t justify the fact that you keep lying to yourself just so you could continue being with him.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, this is exactly what you\u2019ve been doing. You\u2019ve been living a lie and you\u2019ve been deceiving yourself, believing that this man will eventually change.<\/span><\/p>\n

You refuse to look the truth in the eye and see him for who he really is. You refuse to accept the fact that things won\u2019t be different and that he won\u2019t miraculously become your dream guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, he isn\u2019t going through a rough patch<\/b>\u2014<\/b>este es el verdadero \u00e9l. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, no es una fase<\/b>\u2014<\/b>as\u00ed es como se ver\u00e1n las cosas entre ustedes dos para siempre a menos que pongan fin a esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, deja de mentirte a ti mismo. Deja de esperar un cambio que nunca se producir\u00e1 y acepta la realidad, por dura o dolorosa que sea.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please, take your rose-tinted glasses off and see this man\u2019s true colors. See that he will never treat you the way you deserve and that he will never give you the love you need.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it<\/span>\u2014<\/span>most of the time, this man acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

He treats you like his second choice, he doesn\u2019t give you the place you deserve in his life and he doesn\u2019t respect you the way he should.<\/span><\/p>\n

La mayor parte del tiempo, este hombre <\/span>treats you like he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/span><\/a>. So, why exactly don\u2019t you start believing him?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo dejar\u00e1s de hacerte ilusiones? \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo dejar\u00e1s de esperar que se ponga las pilas y empiece a darte el amor y la atenci\u00f3n que necesitas? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hace falta que haga para que dejes de darle infinitas segundas oportunidades, para que dejes de creer en sus promesas vac\u00edas y para que dejes de poner tu vida en suspenso, a la espera de que \u00e9l cambie?<\/span><\/p>\n

What does it take for you to understand that if he doesn\u2019t treat you the way he should now, chances are that he never will? <\/b><\/p>\n

If he isn\u2019t putting any effort into your relationship now, he probably never will. If he doesn\u2019t love you enough now, that won\u2019t change in the future.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, stop thinking that one of these days, he\u2019ll wake up and suddenly come to his senses. Stop waiting for him to <\/span>descubre tu verdadero valor and for him to start appreciating everything you\u2019ve been giving him because that will never happen.<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste any more of your time or efforts on someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. Instead, pack your bags and leave his sorry ass in the past, where he belongs. <\/b><\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed<\/b>\u2014<\/b>ser\u00e1 la mejor decisi\u00f3n de tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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