{"id":32070,"date":"2020-10-31T14:02:23","date_gmt":"2020-10-31T14:02:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32070"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:22:19","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:22:19","slug":"querido-hombre-en-el-momento-en-que-se-da-cuenta-de-su-valor-estas-jodido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/querido-hombre-en-el-momento-en-que-se-da-cuenta-de-su-valor-estas-jodido\/","title":{"rendered":"Querido hombre, en el momento en que ella se da cuenta de su valor est\u00e1s jodido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Esto es para ti.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Al hombre que la mantiene esperando junto a su tel\u00e9fono durante d\u00edas y d\u00edas. Al que sabe c\u00f3mo mantenerla enganchada sin ofrecerle nada a cambio. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>El que consigue colarse de nuevo en su mundo justo cuando ella empezaba a olvidarte. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>T\u00fa, con tus palabras inteligentes y tu sonrisa t\u00edmida, siempre encuentras el camino de vuelta a ella porque sabes que se tragar\u00e1 su orgullo y te buscar\u00e1 por milmillon\u00e9sima vez.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa eres la raz\u00f3n por la que llora hasta dormirse casi todos los d\u00edas de la semana. La menosprecias, la menosprecias y la tratas como si fuera una ciudadana de segunda clase.<\/p>\n<p>Te complace saber que caer\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s bajo por ti.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00bfTe hace sentir importante saber que hay alguien ah\u00ed fuera que coge el tel\u00e9fono a las 3 de la ma\u00f1ana cuando tu culo borracho la llama por tercera noche consecutiva esa semana?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122189\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk.jpg\" alt=\"hombre tumbado en una pasarela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-lying-on-a-catwalk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe sube el ego saber que te quiere m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed misma?<\/p>\n<p>Even though it\u2019s killing her on the inside, but she can\u2019t help it\u2026 you make her weak, and drain every atom of kindness she has inside her.<\/p>\n<p><i>Just you wait. One day\u2026 she will look at you and just laugh. It will be beyond her how she once did everything in the world for you, not caring at all how degrading it was for her.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Only now, she won\u2019t care anymore. She will finally see what kind of man she settled for, and she will never stoop so low again.<\/p>\n<p>You will text her like you normally do at ungodly hours\u2026 and there won\u2019t be a reply.<\/p>\n<p>Te fastidiar\u00e1 que ya no te preste la atenci\u00f3n que ans\u00edas y esperas de ella.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You will finally ask her on an actual date, and she\u2019ll say no. And then\u2026 it will finally hit you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando la hermosa vista en el lago\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-looking-at-the-beautiful-view-at-the-lake-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tuviste tu oportunidad con esta chica, y la desperdiciaste jugando a tus juegos machistas y aprovech\u00e1ndote de la chica m\u00e1s guapa del interior.<\/p>\n<p>You could\u2019ve had it all with her, and until now, you didn\u2019t see it. And now that it\u2019s too late, you\u2019ll wish you could take it all back and apologize for your shitty behavior.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa con esta chica es que, una vez que se libere del control que ten\u00edas sobre ella, te har\u00e1 darte cuenta del cambio que necesitas desesperadamente.<\/p>\n<p>Esta chica que una vez fue tan insegura y vulnerable cuando se trataba de ti, pero ahora, despu\u00e9s de desperdiciar tantas oportunidades de ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/a-real-man-will-let-you-in-without-you-having-to-ask\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">un hombre de verdad<\/a> para ella, se ha elevado por encima de todo eso y ve a trav\u00e9s de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Y ella te cambiar\u00e1. Ella te har\u00e1 consciente de las cosas que hiciste mal, las formas en que perturbaste su vida, y todas esas veces que te aprovechaste completamente de su bondad y disfrutaste tom\u00e1ndola por tonta.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando llegue ese d\u00eda, ver\u00e1 el error de su forma de actuar y se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que tiene que cambiar porque ya nadie tolerar\u00e1 esa mierda.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin ser\u00e1s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/letter-man-shouldve\/\">the man you know you should\u2019ve been to her<\/a> hace tantos a\u00f1os. <b><i>Usted <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-no-puedes-amarla-la-concha-te-hace-extranarla\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b><i>echarla de menos<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34.jpg\" alt=\"hombre guapo de pie junto al lago\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/handsome-man-standing-by-the-lake34-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>You will miss her touch, her sweet voice, her kind heart and gentle nature\u2026 you will miss how she made you feel when you were next to her, and her dry sense of humor that not many get (but you do).<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>La ver\u00e1s por la ciudad, paseando felizmente con su nuevo hombre... viendo el brillo de su cara y su sonrisa tan contagiosa, y por fin ver\u00e1s que ahora es realmente feliz.<\/p>\n<p>It will kill you that you\u2019re not the man holding her hand. It will kill you that you had your chance to make her that happy, and you did the exact opposite.<\/p>\n<p>And now, all you have are the memories of what could\u2019ve been but never was. Her new man will be there for her at all hours of the day because he adores her.<\/p>\n<p>He will wipe away her tears and soothe her cries&#8230; but he will never be the one to cause her to cry. And you will finally see the difference between you and him.<\/p>\n<p><i>Unlike you, he didn\u2019t need to treat her like crap to realize how much she means to him. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>And when that happens \u2013 she wins.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122185\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dear-Man-The-Moment-She-Realizes-Her-Worth-Youre-Screwed-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Querido hombre, en el momento en que ella se da cuenta de su valor est\u00e1s jodido\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dear-Man-The-Moment-She-Realizes-Her-Worth-Youre-Screwed-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dear-Man-The-Moment-She-Realizes-Her-Worth-Youre-Screwed-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dear-Man-The-Moment-She-Realizes-Her-Worth-Youre-Screwed-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is for you. To the man who keeps her waiting by her phone for days on end. The one who knows just how to keep her hooked, without offering her anything in return. The one who manages to weasel his way back into her world just as she was starting to get over you&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":122187,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dear-Man-The-Moment-She-Realizes-Her-Worth-Youre-Screwed-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}