{"id":32100,"date":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T08:51:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32100"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:07:44","slug":"no-necesito-perfeccion-solo-un-hombre-adulto-con-su-mierda-junta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-necesito-perfeccion-solo-un-hombre-adulto-con-su-mierda-junta\/","title":{"rendered":"No necesito la perfecci\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo un hombre maduro con su mierda juntos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>All of this talking about the characteristics of a real man, things they should do or not do to make us happy, all of these guides and signs on how to find the real one or how you can change him to start treating you right\u2026<\/p>\n<p>All this time, I\u2019ve been in pursuit of finding the right one for me. To find someone who will exhibit certain traits that will fit my definition of a real man.<\/p>\n<p>After a few failures, I\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s no point in seeking perfection because it simply doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Me cost\u00f3 varios desenga\u00f1os, l\u00e1grimas a raudales y mucho dolor darme cuenta de que, por muy elevados que fueran mis niveles de exigencia, acabar\u00eda rota y decepcionada.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve become sick of all of those narcissistic boys, their selfishness and sweet nothings.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019ve realized that I don\u2019t need perfection, just a grown-ass man with his shit together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need a boy with a perfect body and face, flawless, with a perfect mind. All I need is a grown-ass man who will stick to his words and promises.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con traje\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-suit-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not looking for someone to take me to the moon or the stars. I\u2019m looking for someone who will be willing to gaze at them with me on long, hot, summer nights.<\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t think I\u2019m asking for much.<\/p>\n<p>My previous disappointments with men have actually taught me not to expect much of them and that is why I wholeheartedly and solemnly swear that I don\u2019t and will never look for perfection.<\/p>\n<p><b>Todo lo que necesito es un hombre que sepa lo que quiere, que luche por ello y que sepa apreciar lo que tiene.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need a boy who wants one thing today and a different thing the next. I don\u2019t need someone whose main priority is their self-centered, egotistical nature.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todo-lo-que-necesitas-es-un-hombre-de-gran-corazon\/\">Necesito un hombre<\/a> que sabe lo que quiere, que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-mucho-que-me-resista-te-sigo-queriendo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">luchar duro<\/a> y que sabr\u00e1 apreciar lo que tiene.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need someone who will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/esta-jugando-o-ha-perdido-el-interes-10-maneras-de-averiguarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jugar a juegos mentales<\/a> conmigo o me haga sentir menos digna.  Necesito un hombre que cuide de mi coraz\u00f3n y mi alma, igual que yo cuidar\u00e9 de los suyos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"hombre bebiendo caf\u00e9 y mirando por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-drinking-coffee-and-watching-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todo lo que quiero es reciprocidad mutua. Todo lo que quiero es la reciprocidad mutua de dar y recibir. Nada m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Necesito un hombre que no me d\u00e9 por sentada, que siga luchando por m\u00ed incluso despu\u00e9s de haberme ganado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Necesito un hombre que no se rinda ante el primer obst\u00e1culo. El amor no es un juego, como piensan los chicos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t go out of your way to fight hard to win someone only to take them for granted afterward. You fight hard to win their love and you keep fighting to maintain it.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s the kind of man I\u2019m looking for.<\/p>\n<p>I need a man who will understand the seriousness of other people\u2019s feelings and this complex thing called love.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need someone who will fight for me only to fulfill his egotistical purposes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108561\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre de traje tomando caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-in-suit-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I need honesty, respect, and selflessness. I need to know that I\u2019m not just another brick in the wall that will be replaced with another one when it becomes worn.<\/p>\n<p><b>I don\u2019t need to be treated like a queen. I just need a man who will be there for me no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t expect to be showered with honey, milk and gold. I don\u2019t expect any of the luxuries that we\u2019re bombarded with today.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need them because I believe in modesty and the beauty of little things. I don\u2019t need someone who will buy me three hundred roses to persuade me of his love.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito un hombre que lo diga como realmente lo siente. Y que me demuestre su amor simplemente estando a mi lado pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need any of those expensive gifts from shops.<\/p>\n<p>All I need is a grown-ass man who is devoted to the core because that\u2019s the biggest gift you could give to someone you really love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108543\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No necesito la perfecci\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo un hombre maduro con su mierda juntos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of this talking about the characteristics of a real man, things they should do or not do to make us happy, all of these guides and signs on how to find the real one or how you can change him to start treating you right\u2026 All this time, I\u2019ve been in pursuit of finding&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":108558,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Dont-Need-Perfection-Just-A-Grown-Ass-Man-With-His-Shit-Together-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32100"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32100\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108558"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}