{"id":32139,"date":"2020-02-04T09:34:03","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T09:34:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32139"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:00","slug":"6-replicas-eficaces-para-callar-a-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-replicas-eficaces-para-callar-a-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 r\u00e9plicas eficaces para acallar a un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acabar con un narcisista <\/a> suele parecer misi\u00f3n imposible.<\/p>\n

No obstante, cr\u00e9ame que puede hacerse eficazmente.<\/p>\n

Todos los narcisistas tienen un patr\u00f3n de comportamiento similar y, en consecuencia, hay algunas r\u00e9plicas que funcionan a las mil maravillas con casi todos los narcisistas. Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n 6 de los m\u00e1s eficaces.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are the one who is wrong\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Uno de los rasgos que comparten todos los narcisistas es que est\u00e1n convencidos de que siempre tienen raz\u00f3n, a pesar de la verdad evidente y sin importar las circunstancias.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando un narcisista es consciente de que no tiene raz\u00f3n, siempre se esforzar\u00e1 por persuadir a su v\u00edctima <\/a> a ver las cosas a su manera.<\/p>\n

However, this is when you have to tell your abuser that he can\u2019t change your mind about things and that he might as well stop trying.<\/p>\n

Ustedes tienen sus propias visiones del mundo y actitudes y \u00e9l nunca podr\u00e1 hacerles creer en algo que no es cierto.<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que hay diferentes puntos de vista sobre todas las situaciones posibles, que t\u00fa simplemente no est\u00e1s de acuerdo con el suyo y que no hay nada que \u00e9l pueda hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not to blame\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Un narcisista siempre intentar\u00e1 que su v\u00edctima parezca la mala.<\/p>\n

He will do his best to convince you that you are responsible for everything going wrong in your relationship; even when he admits that he is guilty, he\u2019ll twist reality by telling you that you made him do or say something he shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n

De cualquier forma, quiere que pienses que siempre tienes la culpa, de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n

Por eso tienes que demostrarle a tu narcisista que no est\u00e1s dispuesta a asumir toda la responsabilidad de todo lo malo de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You have to be brave enough to call him out on his actions and let him know that he didn\u2019t manage to get inside your head and make you feel guilty.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am not crazy\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todo narcisista intentar\u00e1 jugar con su v\u00edctima, tratando de hacerle creer que su visi\u00f3n de la realidad no es correcta.<\/p>\n

He will try to make you question your own sanity, telling you that things are not the way you see them, that something didn\u2019t go down the way it did, that you are imagining things or that you are not sane for feeling something.<\/p>\n

Eres t\u00fa quien tiene que decirle a tu maltratador que est\u00e1s sobre \u00e9l; ves lo que intenta hacer pero no lo conseguir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You are not the crazy one and he\u2019ll never manage to make you believe that.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am not overly emotional\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando discutes con una persona narcisista, siempre intentar\u00e1 jugar la carta de las emociones.<\/p>\n

Eres t\u00fa quien exagera y exagera y quien se deja llevar por sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Even though there isn\u2019t anything bad about this, a narcissist is telling you these things to prove to you that you are the weak one and the one who doesn\u2019t see things clearly.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tienes que decirle que no eres demasiado emocional, que eres firme y que no tiene derecho a hablar de tu estado emocional.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou can\u2019t control me\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Every narcissist\u2019s final goal when it comes to his victims is to have complete control sobre ellos <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quiere controlar todos los aspectos de tu vida, incluidos tus pensamientos y sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando sientas que tu narcisista est\u00e1 tratando de ganar control sobre ti, debes detenerlo ah\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

You need to remind him that you are a strong individual with your own thoughts, desires and feelings and that he can\u2019t cage you in any way.<\/p>\n

Tienes que demostrarle que nunca podr\u00e1 cambiar la esencia de lo que eres, as\u00ed que mejor que deje de intentarlo.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve had enough\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando discutas con alguien o te encuentres en medio de una situaci\u00f3n inc\u00f3moda, recuerda que siempre tienes derecho a darle la espalda y marcharte con dignidad.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow anyone to drag you into a fight you don\u2019t want to partake in.<\/p>\n

Leaving the situation doesn\u2019t make you weak or a loser and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that the other person is right.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo significa que eliges tu paz mental antes que demostrar que alguien se equivoca.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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