{"id":32145,"date":"2020-05-04T10:03:35","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T10:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32145"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:31:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:31:01","slug":"al-tipo-que-nunca-se-convertira-en-el-hombre-que-ella-necesita-que-sea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-tipo-que-nunca-se-convertira-en-el-hombre-que-ella-necesita-que-sea\/","title":{"rendered":"Para el chico que nunca se convertir\u00e1 en el hombre que ella necesita que sea"},"content":{"rendered":"

The truth is that this girl didn\u2019t actually fall for you when she first met you\u2014 se enamor\u00f3 de tu potencial <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ella cay\u00f3 por todas tus mentiras y enga\u00f1os y por todo lo que juraste que podr\u00edas llegar a ser.<\/p>\n

She fell for the guy she\u2019d hoped you\u2019d grow into, for the man she needed you to be.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean that she wanted to change the essence of who you were.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo estaba ah\u00ed para empujarte hacia adelante, para creer en ti y para inspirarte a convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que maduraras y te convirtieras en un hombre maduro que supiera lo que quer\u00eda de la vida.<\/p>\n

A man who didn\u2019t play games, a man who didn\u2019t keep on wasting years living as if there was no tomorrow and a man who knew what he was doing with his life.<\/p>\n

Esta chica lo \u00fanico que quer\u00eda era que te pusieras las pilas. Que tomaras las riendas de tu vida y que por fin entraras en raz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Necesitaba que fueras el hombre que merec\u00eda tener a su lado.<\/b><\/p>\n

A man who wouldn\u2019t be intimidated by her, a man who would have what it took to go through life shoulder to shoulder with her and a man who wouldn\u2019t hold her back.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she needed you to be her hero or rescuer. She never needed you to guide her through life or to fix her in any way.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, esta chica es fuerte e independiente y s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda una pareja igualitaria.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Alguien que pusiera el mismo empe\u00f1o que ella, alguien que supiera apreciarla y alguien que le correspondiera, del mismo modo que ella le amaba a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca podr\u00edas convertirte en ese hombre, a pesar de todos sus sue\u00f1os, esperanzas y esfuerzos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca podr\u00edas convertirte en un hombre de verdad que conociera sus prioridades, que estaba dispuesto a comprometerse con una sola mujer<\/a> y que pudiera entregarse por completo a esa mujer.<\/b><\/p>\n

Es m\u00e1s que obvio que todo este tiempo, ella se minti\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma dici\u00e9ndose que eras mucho mejor de lo que realmente eras.<\/p>\n

Se minti\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma dici\u00e9ndose que eras el elegido porque quer\u00eda ver lo mejor de ti y porque cre\u00eda que pod\u00edas mejorar.<\/p>\n

All of these years, she waited for a change that would never come. She prayed that one day, you\u2019d wake up, see your mistakes and take responsibility for your life.<\/p>\n

That one day, you\u2019d understand that she deserved much more than someone who wasn\u2019t loyal or reliable.<\/p>\n

Que se merec\u00eda algo m\u00e1s que estar en una relaci\u00f3n en la que se sent\u00eda sola y siempre como tu segunda opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Que se merec\u00eda que por fin la pusieras en primer lugar, que por fin le dieras el amor y la atenci\u00f3n que necesitaba.<\/p>\n

She prayed that one day, you\u2019d snap out of it and that you\u2019d grow into su potencial<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that day never came. You remained the same jerk you\u2019d always been without any sign of personal progress.<\/p>\n

Y finalmente, se hart\u00f3. Se alej\u00f3 de ti, renunciando a la idea de que alguna vez podr\u00eda salvarte.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ella te dej\u00f3, d\u00e1ndose cuenta de que estabas da\u00f1ado sin remedio y que s\u00f3lo se hac\u00eda da\u00f1o a s\u00ed misma permaneciendo a tu lado.<\/p>\n

She realized that she wasn\u2019t this superwoman who had the capacity to open your eyes and make you see the reality.<\/p>\n

Que her love couldn\u2019t change you <\/a> a menos que lo hayas hecho t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

Por fin se dio cuenta de que estaba malgastando su energ\u00eda con alguien que, en realidad, la estaba arrastrando consigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Que ya era hora de que se centrara en s\u00ed misma y que ten\u00eda que seguir adelante con su vida, sin ti en ella.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, por una vez, s\u00e9 el hombre m\u00e1s grande y d\u00e9jala ir. Sabes muy bien que ella hizo m\u00e1s que suficiente por ti y que hizo todo lo posible para que vuestra relaci\u00f3n funcionara.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give her all those false promises that things will be better soon enough when you know very well that these are all lies.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get her hopes up that you\u2019ll eventually change when you are very well aware that you\u2019ll forever remain the same.<\/p>\n

Deja que se vaya y encuentre a un hombre que merezca su amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

A man who will give her everything you couldn\u2019t or didn\u2019t want to give her. <\/b><\/p>\n

A man who will make her happy in all of the ways you couldn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The truth is that this girl didn\u2019t actually fall for you when she first met you\u2014 she fell for your potential . She fell for all of your lies and deceptions and for everything you swore you could become. She fell for the guy she\u2019d hoped you\u2019d grow into, for the man she needed you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":92968,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/To-The-Guy-Wholl-Never-Become-The-Man-She-Needs-Him-To-Be.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32145\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}