{"id":32164,"date":"2020-04-04T11:11:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T11:11:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32164"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:59:41","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:59:41","slug":"la-dura-realidad-de-amar-a-alguien-con-quien-no-tienes-futuro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-dura-realidad-de-amar-a-alguien-con-quien-no-tienes-futuro\/","title":{"rendered":"La dura realidad de amar a alguien con quien no tienes futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Te enamoraste de \u00e9l. <\/i><\/b><b><i>Duro. <\/i><\/b><b><i>La forma en que s\u00f3lo te enamoras de uno. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You got blinded with his kisses and hugs, and you couldn\u2019t see they were never given to you because of real love but because of lust.<\/p>\n<p>Ignoraste cada <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-senales-de-alarma-de-que-esta-emocionalmente-desequilibrado\/\"> bandera roja <\/a> that he doesn\u2019t love you. Even if you saw things you didn\u2019t like, you decided to ignore them.<\/p>\n<p>Because you became so damn addicted to him. He was the air you couldn\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n<p>Era la \u00fanica persona que pod\u00eda alegrarte el d\u00eda con s\u00f3lo sonre\u00edrte. Era un hombre que ten\u00eda tanto control sobre ti, pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chico-figura-tarde\/\">te diste cuenta demasiado tarde.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Todo el tiempo viviendo con \u00e9l, pensaste que lo ten\u00edas todo. Pensaste que ten\u00edas todo bajo control.<\/p>\n<p>Pero estabas muy equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 es lo peor? Que aunque sepas todo eso ahora, sigues sin darte por vencida.<\/p>\n<p>Sigues convencida de que \u00e9l es tu \"felices para siempre\" y de que est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00fan tienes esperanzas y sue\u00f1os para los dos. Sigues imaginando que te pedir\u00e1 matrimonio con el anillo gigante que viste el otro d\u00eda en la tienda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75853\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-dreaming.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste so\u00f1ando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-dreaming.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-dreaming-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-dreaming-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You want to think that he just doesn\u2019t know to show love. You believe he loves you but that it is sometimes hard for him to express his emotions.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes con qu\u00e9 sue\u00f1as t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n? Esa casita de la esquina que te gusta. Sue\u00f1as que alg\u00fan d\u00eda ser\u00e1 tu casa.<\/p>\n<p>Ya puedes o\u00edr las voces de tus hijos corriendo en el patio. Tienes toda la imagen en la cabeza. Todo est\u00e1 preparado para un cuento de hadas.<\/p>\n<p>There is only one ingredient missing. Him. But unfortunately, he doesn\u2019t feel the way you do.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca se comprometer\u00e1 contigo de la forma que t\u00fa quieres. Nunca te tom\u00f3 en serio.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre fuiste la chica divertida para \u00e9l, la que le daba todo lo que necesitaba. Buen sexo.<\/p>\n<p>Alta adrenalina. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-esta-usando-el-ego\/\"> Una inyecci\u00f3n de ego<\/a> . Pero nunca ese sentimiento de pertenecer a alguien.<\/p>\n<p>He never saw you as the one he will marry eventually. He only saw you as someone who he will have fun with. He doesn\u2019t see the sorrow in your eyes when he mistreats you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t see that you are sad because you are waiting for him to get his shit together.<\/p>\n<p>Hell, there are days when he doesn\u2019t see you at all. He doesn\u2019t pay attention to what you have to say.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75855\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste sentada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t pay attention to your needs and your wishes. And you know it all.<\/p>\n<p>You know it all too damn well. But for some reason that you can\u2019t explain, you are still there, crawling in front of him, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cansado-de-mendigar-atencion-2\/\">rog\u00e1ndole un poco de atenci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You are still there to tell him it is okay if he couldn\u2019t call you the whole day.<\/p>\n<p>Sigues ah\u00ed para decirle que comprendes que est\u00e9 ocupado y que hablar contigo cabrear\u00eda a su jefe mientras est\u00e1 en el trabajo.<\/p>\n<p>Sigues estando ah\u00ed para consolarlo porque no es lo suficientemente capaz de mejorar en el trabajo. As\u00ed que acabas siendo t\u00fa a quien gritar\u00e1 porque tiene problemas en el trabajo.<\/p>\n<p>You are there to tell him that it will all pass and that you are proud of him in case that means something to him. But it doesn\u2019t. And it will never will.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre como \u00e9l nunca tuvo la intenci\u00f3n de hacerte feliz. No es alguien que te pondr\u00e1 un anillo y te har\u00e1 su esposa.<\/p>\n<p>No. He is not that type of a man. He is a coward because he is not letting you go but isn\u2019t making any progress in your relationship either.<\/p>\n<p>Y en cuanto te des cuenta de ello, podr\u00e1s liberarte de las cadenas que ha puesto alrededor de tus piernas.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene tantas ganas de tenerte cerca porque le haces sentir bien. Pero no lo suficiente como para comprometerse de verdad contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Es el hombre con el que no tienes futuro. Y lo sabes demasiado bien.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo intentas ver si algo cambia porque en el fondo a\u00fan hay alguna esperanza de que se d\u00e9 cuenta de la clase de mujer que tiene al lado.<\/p>\n<p>But he won\u2019t. He will never see how amazing you are. He will never give you credit for all the good things you did.<\/p>\n<p>He will give it to someone else. Maybe to the one who won\u2019t love him half as much as you love him. But for some reason, it will be enough for him.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca ser\u00e1 el hombre que te despierte por la ma\u00f1ana, tray\u00e9ndote donuts calientes y caf\u00e9 a la cama. Nunca ser\u00e1 el hombre que te abrace cuando est\u00e9s enferma.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75858\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama mientras el hombre mira hacia otro lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No es el hombre que cuidar\u00e1 de ti ni el que te defender\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Es el tipo de hombre que te abandonar\u00e1 tan f\u00e1cilmente como si nunca hubierais compartido una qu\u00edmica incre\u00edble juntos. \u00c9l es el que va a enga\u00f1ar a usted tan pronto como \u00e9l tiene la oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>Es el tipo de hombre que te volver\u00e1 loca y que despu\u00e9s te har\u00e1 creer que la loca eres t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l es quien te destruir\u00e1 totalmente si se lo permites.<\/p>\n<p>He is the one who doesn\u2019t know anything about you but who still wants you to make him the most important person in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Es \u00e9l quien lo quiere todo sin intenci\u00f3n de corresponder de la misma manera.<\/p>\n<p>Pero s\u00e9 que llegar\u00e1 un momento en que abrir\u00e1 los ojos y ver\u00e1 las cosas con claridad. S\u00e9 que llegar\u00e1 un momento en que ver\u00e1s lo poco que significas para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00e9 que en ese momento decidir\u00e1s dar todo el amor que llevas dentro a la persona m\u00e1s importante de tu vida. S\u00e9 que te lo dar\u00e1s a ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00bfY el amor?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Love will come when you think that you are not ready for it. It will hit you, and you won\u2019t even be aware of it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9? Ser\u00e1 lo mejor que te haya pasado. Por fin ser\u00e1 real.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75851\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Harsh-Reality-Of-Loving-Someone-You-Have-No-Future-With-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La dura realidad de amar a alguien con quien no tienes futuro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Harsh-Reality-Of-Loving-Someone-You-Have-No-Future-With-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Harsh-Reality-Of-Loving-Someone-You-Have-No-Future-With-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You fell in love with him. Hard. The way you only fall for the one. You got blinded with his kisses and hugs, and you couldn\u2019t see they were never given to you because of real love but because of lust. You ignored every red flag that he doesn\u2019t love you. Even if you saw&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":75860,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Harsh-Reality-Of-Loving-Someone-You-Have-No-Future-With.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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