{"id":32177,"date":"2020-06-05T09:21:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T09:21:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32177"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:15:15","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:15:15","slug":"a-menos-que-se-esfuerce-de-verdad-en-quererte-estaras-mejor-soltera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-menos-que-se-esfuerce-de-verdad-en-quererte-estaras-mejor-soltera\/","title":{"rendered":"A menos que se esfuerce de verdad en quererte, est\u00e1s mejor soltera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si est\u00e1s haciendo esfuerzos, es natural que los quieras y necesites de vuelta del hombre con el que est\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you find yourself with somebody who is not prepared to pull up his sleeves and invest in the relationship as much as you do, you are in the wrong relationship and trust me when I say that\u2019s not where you want to be. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nothing ever grows from wrong relationships, they only worsen with time. That\u2019s why you are better off making yourself happy instead of staying with someone who makes you miserable. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que sea lo suficientemente maduro para manejar una relaci\u00f3n real, est\u00e1s mejor soltera. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need someone who is ready. Someone who won\u2019t run for the hills at the first sign that you might be getting serious. Someone who is mature enough not to play games and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ensartando-a-lo-largo-de-9-maneras-dicen\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enga\u00f1arte.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alguien que est\u00e1 dispuesto a trabajar en sus inseguridades o cualquier tipo de problemas que pueda tener porque quiere estar contigo y ese sentimiento supera todo lo dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que poner una sonrisa en tu cara est\u00e9 en su lista de tareas pendientes, est\u00e1s mejor soltera. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A man willing to put an effort into making you happy is a man worth keeping. You don\u2019t need another douchebag who doesn\u2019t care how you feel and all he is interested in is himself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t waste your energy on someone who doesn\u2019t understand the depth of your emotions. Save those emotions for the right one. For the one who will appreciate them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que \u00e9l est\u00e9 dispuesto a hacerte parte de su vida, est\u00e1s mejor soltera. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure, for starters, it\u2019s quite normal that it\u2019s just the two of you and that you are getting to know each other gradually. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero al cabo de un tiempo, a medida que la relaci\u00f3n avanza, deber\u00edas conocer a las personas importantes de su vida. Deber\u00edas sentir que est\u00e1 lo bastante seguro de ti y de vuestra relaci\u00f3n como para invitarte a reuniones familiares o a salir con sus amigos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que \u00e9l tome la iniciativa y haga planes para verte, est\u00e1s mejor soltera. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It should go without saying but sadly, most men today are used to getting everything and giving nothing in return. You shouldn\u2019t always be the first one to call and make plans for you guys to see each other. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deber\u00eda preguntarte el lunes qu\u00e9 planes tienes para el fin de semana. Deber\u00eda esforzarse por verte. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deber\u00eda dedicarte su tiempo sin que tengas que ped\u00edrselo todo el tiempo. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando un hombre se preocupa, hace que las cosas sucedan; todo lo dem\u00e1s son excusas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que comprenda que una relaci\u00f3n es cosa de dos, estar\u00e1s mejor soltera.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not just about making plans to see you, it\u2019s about meeting you halfway. It\u2019s about investing as much as you do. You will never feel like you are taken for granted or unappreciated when you are with a real man. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t settle for someone who wouldn\u2019t move his ass from the couch for you while you move mountains for him. If he doesn\u2019t value you, if he doesn\u2019t at least try to match your efforts, he is definitely not the right man for you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A menos que se asegure de que sepas que te quieren, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tu-fuiste-quien-le-enseno-que-esta-mejor-sola\/\">est\u00e1s mejor solo<\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn\u2019t have to wonder if he cares about you as much as you do for him because it should be visible in everything he does. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simply saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d after treating you poorly isn\u2019t enough to make all the wrongs right. A real man will put his words into actions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estar\u00e1 a tu lado en tus d\u00edas soleados y cuando te sientas mal. Estar\u00e1 hasta arriba de trabajo, pero encontrar\u00e1 cinco minutos para ver c\u00f3mo est\u00e1s y decirte que piensa en ti. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9l cumplir\u00e1 sus promesas. \u00c9l aparecer\u00e1 y estar\u00e1 presente en tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Har\u00e1 todas esas <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-pequenas-grandes-cosas-que-solo-tu-persona-de-siempre-hara\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">peque\u00f1as grandes cosas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that show just how close to his heart you actually are. And it will all come naturally to him, he won\u2019t feel burdened or pressured, he will be ready to make you feel his love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32179\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/her-way-20-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"A menos que se esfuerce de verdad en quererte, est\u00e1s mejor soltera\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/her-way-20-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/her-way-20-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/her-way-20.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you are making efforts, it\u2019s only natural to want and need them back from the man you are with. So if you find yourself with somebody who is not prepared to pull up his sleeves and invest in the relationship as much as you do, you are in the wrong relationship and trust me&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":32178,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/yoann-boyer-651147-unsplash-1.jpg",800,524,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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