{"id":32197,"date":"2020-04-05T14:17:20","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T14:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32197"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:18:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:18:29","slug":"7-senales-de-que-no-se-hace-el-duro-y-solo-juega-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-no-se-hace-el-duro-y-solo-juega-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que no se est\u00e1 haciendo el duro, sino que est\u00e1 jugando contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La mayor\u00eda de nosotros nos mostramos bastante cautelosos al principio de una nueva relaci\u00f3n y eso es algo completamente natural tanto para hombres como para mujeres.<\/p>\n<p>No es raro que un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-adorable-signs-hes-afraid-to-fall-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> chico para tener miedo <\/a> de ser herido o que un chico sea demasiado cuidadoso con la chica que le gusta hasta que est\u00e9 seguro de que ella es digna de que \u00e9l la deje entrar por completo.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, hay una gran diferencia entre un chico que est\u00e1 realmente loco por ti pero tiene miedo de mostrar sus verdaderas emociones para que no le rompan el coraz\u00f3n y un chico que s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque esta diferencia a veces es imprecisa y dif\u00edcil de determinar, hay algunas se\u00f1ales que pueden ayudarte a ver que un chico no se est\u00e1 haciendo el duro, sino jugando contigo, y aqu\u00ed tienes 7 de ellas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te trata como si fueras su segunda opci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85545\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada separada de su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nOr even worse\u2014like his last resort. Whether you like to admit it or not, the truth is that you are nowhere near this guy\u2019s priority list.<\/p>\n<p>Everything is more important than you\u2014his job, his hobbies and his friends.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that he should forget all about his old life just because he\u2019s started seeing you but if a guy only calls you when everyone else backs out on him or when he needs something from you, he is definitely playing you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn&#8217;t consistent<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85546\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio mirando a una mujer en el parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/serious-man-looking-at-woman-in-the-park-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are days when this man acts like a real Mr. Perfect\u2014days when he constantly calls you and when he is around all the time.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are also some periods when he simply vanishes; times when you can\u2019t get a text back, let alone something more from him.<\/p>\n<p>Es m\u00e1s que evidente que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/if-he-cant-be-consistent-he-is-not-worth-your-commitment\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">this man isn\u2019t consistent<\/a> sobre la forma en que te trata. Est\u00e1 jugando a estos juegos fr\u00edos y calientes y eso es lo \u00faltimo que necesitas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Siempre te adaptas a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85547\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-arguing-in-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los dos s\u00f3lo sal\u00eds cuando a \u00e9l le apetece.<\/p>\n<p>Eres t\u00fa la que siempre tiene que adaptarse a su apretada agenda y poner tu vida en espera, esperando a que este chico est\u00e9 disponible.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca cancela sus planes para estar contigo, mientras que espera que t\u00fa lo hagas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00f3lo te llama por la noche<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85548\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"joven hablando por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-man-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando te pones a pensarlo, este hombre nunca te invita a dar un paseo o a salir a comer.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, parece que s\u00f3lo piensa en ti a altas horas de la noche y, de alguna manera, los dos siempre acab\u00e1is en su casa o en la tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Odio ser quien te lo diga, pero si esto es algo con lo que te sientes identificada, es evidente que no eres m\u00e1s que su bot\u00edn.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85549\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to understand one thing\u2014when a man cares for you enough, he will treat you seriously from the start.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t have trouble committing to you or giving your relationship a title.<\/p>\n<p>Este hombre estar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que orgulloso de llamarte novia y de cogerte de la mano delante del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Todo lo dem\u00e1s son excusas vac\u00edas. Sin embargo, est\u00e1s atrapado en este <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/antes-de-meterte-en-una-relacion-sin-laboratorio-conoce-estas-5-cosas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> relaci\u00f3n sin etiquetas <\/a> con este tipo y \u00e9l es el que se niega a definir las cosas entre los dos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t involve you in his life<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada separada de su novio que teclea\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-boyfriend-who-is-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you know very little about this man we\u2019re talking about, except for some basic information.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know anything about his dreams, hopes and fears and you\u2019ve never met his friends or family.<\/p>\n<p>I know you think he is mysterious and closed but the harsh truth is that this guy doesn\u2019t want to build any other intimacy besides sexual.<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t interested in forming a meaningful connection with you and that is the cause of his behavior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ni est\u00e1 interesado en el tuyo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enfadado no quiere hablar con mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/angry-man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No s\u00f3lo eso, sino que el tipo del que estamos hablando tampoco muestra nunca inter\u00e9s por tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care how your day was nor is he ever in the mood for hanging out with the people around you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85544\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales de que no se est\u00e1 haciendo el duro, sino que est\u00e1 jugando contigo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most of us are pretty much guarded at the beginning of a new relationship and that is something completely natural for both men and women. It is not unusual for a guy to be afraid of being hurt or for a guy to be too careful around the girl he likes until he is sure&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":85552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32197","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/7-Signs-He-Isn\u2019t-Playing-Hard-To-Get-He-Is-Just-Playing-With-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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