{"id":32227,"date":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-06T08:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32227"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:42:28","slug":"lee-esto-si-te-han-rechazado-y-te-duele-mucho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-te-han-rechazado-y-te-duele-mucho\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si te han rechazado y te duele much\u00edsimo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that you are alone. Rejection does that to you. It fills you with loneliness. It makes you believe that the other person pushed you away because you are not good enough.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que sigues pensando que podr\u00edas haber hecho o dicho algo diferente para cambiar el resultado. Que si fueras un poco menos como eres, todo ser\u00eda diferente ahora.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t drown in your thoughts. You haven\u2019t made a mistake. You were always supposed to stay true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time you silence that negativity and see the real truth about rejection&#8230;someone failed to see what you are made of and all your potential, and them leaving you is an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-razones-por-las-que-estar-soltero-es-un-regalo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don absoluto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>La verdad es que la vida te tiene reservadas cosas mejores que la persona que decidi\u00f3 marcharse. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Y si eres totalmente sincera contigo misma, nunca fuiste realmente feliz con ellos. S\u00f3lo sent\u00edas que estabas cerca de la felicidad y te aferrabas a la idea de que era la persona adecuada para ti.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not the end of the world even if it feels like that. Your heart gets broken and every crack hurts like hell. You just can\u2019t make peace with what happened so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Eso est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que bien. Nada sucede de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. Necesitas tiempo, pero te armar\u00e1s de valor para enfrentarte a todo lo que te asusta y se interpone en tu camino.<\/p>\n<p><b>You will open your eyes and see that there was nothing wrong with you. The only wrong here is the person you invested in so selflessly who didn\u2019t know how to reciprocate.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The only wrong here is the person who underestimated you and took you for granted. The person who showed clearly that they don&#8217;t respect you, and they don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>The behavior of that person towards you burdened you with a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love and respect. That\u2019s why you started picking at your flaws and belittling yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Stop. Don\u2019t do that. Your self-worth has nothing to do with getting rejected, and it has everything to do with yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/validate-know-feel-real\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Val\u00eddese<\/span><\/a> because what matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Trust me\u2014half of the time they aren\u2019t really paying attention because all they care about is themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Respect who you are and what you\u2019ve accomplished so far in life. Love yourself. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tratate-como-a-alguien-a-quien-quieres\/\">Date un capricho<\/a>para que otra persona sepa c\u00f3mo tratarte.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, nosotros damos ejemplo. Solo nosotros determinamos lo que nos merecemos, as\u00ed que s\u00e9 amable contigo mismo y nunca permitas que nadie te trate mal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Rejection isn\u2019t something that determines your value<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>it&#8217;s just the sign that you deserve more. That you\u2019ve got options in life, so you can start writing a better story than you were in<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>una historia que nunca termina, sino que empieza y dura en la felicidad. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You see, you learn from your pain. We all do. It\u2019s what makes us grow and evolve. It\u2019s what makes us discover ourselves and what we are made of.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed pues, acepta el rechazo como una parte de la vida que te empuj\u00f3 a salir de tu zona de confort y empez\u00f3 a formar a la persona m\u00e1s fuerte, m\u00e1s sabia y que se ama a s\u00ed misma en la que a\u00fan est\u00e1s por convertirte.<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u00e9ptalo como una oportunidad para el amor verdadero, porque la persona con la que se supone que vas a acabar har\u00e1 todo lo posible por mantenerte en su vida, y se enamorar\u00e1 de cada peque\u00f1a virtud y defecto que hay en ti.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected\u2026Hi! Nice to meet you. I\u2019ve been there and please&#8230; join the club. There are a lot of us out there, and don\u2019t even for a second start to think that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":32228,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32227","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/samantha-sophia-363796-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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