{"id":32245,"date":"2020-04-06T11:28:11","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32245"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:41:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:41:59","slug":"8-senales-de-que-tu-miedo-pistanthrophobia-a-confiar-en-los-demas-esta-arruinando-tus-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-de-que-tu-miedo-pistanthrophobia-a-confiar-en-los-demas-esta-arruinando-tus-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales de que tu pistantrofobia (miedo a confiar en los dem\u00e1s) est\u00e1 arruinando tus relaciones"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es exactamente la pistantrofobia? Es el miedo a confiar en otras personas, y s\u00ed, es una fobia real.<\/p>\n

La siguiente pregunta l\u00f3gica es: \u00bfc\u00f3mo se desarrolla este tipo de fobia? Pues bien, las principales causas para desarrollar pistantrofobia son las malas experiencias anteriores en las que otras personas te han hecho da\u00f1o de un modo u otro.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, si alguien te hizo da\u00f1o en el pasado, tu mente va a recordarlo, y subconscientemente empezar\u00e1 a tener un miedo constante a que te vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Tus malas experiencias funcionan como un detonante a la hora de conocer gente nueva, y por eso te ves incapaz de abrirte a alguien nuevo.<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de relaciones, esto es un gran problema porque te impide ser quien eres con alguien que acabas de conocer, mostrar tus verdaderos colores y ser vulnerable delante de ellos.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Trust is the core of every relationship, and if you\u2019re having troubles relaxing and trusting others, you will never be able to set the foundation for your relationship to function properly.<\/p>\n

Summarized, if you want to be in a happy relationship, you need to let down your walls and face your fears because you don\u2019t want to ruin every potential date and opportunity to find the one.<\/p>\n

Pero, el primer paso es establecer la existencia de la pistantrofobia, y aqu\u00ed hay 8 se\u00f1ales de que podr\u00edas ser uno de los que tienen miedo a confiar en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

8 se\u00f1ales de que tu pistantrofobia (miedo a confiar en los dem\u00e1s) est\u00e1 arruinando tus relaciones<\/b><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Eres esc\u00e9ptico con cada persona que conoces<\/h2>\n

\"mujer       <\/p>\n

Te cuesta etiquetar a alguien como digno de confianza aunque sea adorado y querido por todos los que te rodean.<\/p>\n

You simply cannot help yourself being skeptical about every single person you meet because you can\u2019t believe that such a person exists.<\/p>\n

You are convinced that everyone will hurt you, and it is just a matter of time even though they haven\u2019t given you any single reason not to trust them.<\/p>\n

Pero, esta fuerza es m\u00e1s fuerte que t\u00fa, y sientes que no puedes luchar contra el impulso de ser esc\u00e9ptico con todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n feliz te parece estar a kil\u00f3metros de distancia<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Cuando piensas en tu vida amorosa, lo \u00fanico que ves es su lado negativo.<\/p>\n

Simplemente no puedes imaginar el tipo de relaci\u00f3n o la persona con la que ser\u00edas feliz. Lo sientes como un territorio desconocido con el que nunca estar\u00e1s familiarizado.<\/p>\n

You keep repeating to everyone around you that you\u2019ll forever be single, and you believe it with all of your heart.<\/p>\n

To you, just the mention of a happy relationship sounds irritating and incomprehensible because you don\u2019t believe that such a thing even exists.<\/p>\n

And even if it does, you\u2019re convinced that it will certainly never happen to you.<\/p>\n

Eres un pensador constante<\/h2>\n

\"8<\/p>\n

You always think that there has to be more to every person you meet because you don\u2019t believe that they are being genuine with you.<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019re constantly reading between the lines and trying to figure out their hidden, ulterior motives.<\/p>\n

You simply cannot be satisfied with things being as they are. You always dig for more because you\u2019re convinced that it is just a matter of time until you\u2019ll find out that all this time, they\u2019ve been nothing but liars and manipulators.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you find yourself being unable to listen to their words because you\u2019re too busy developing the whole schema regarding their suspicious personality.<\/p>\n

Dudas de todo lo que oyes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tratas a todos como mentirosos o mentirosos potenciales disfrazados<\/a>. Te digan lo que te digan, nunca, nunca te f\u00edes de ellos.<\/p>\n

You doubt every single word you hear because you\u2019re kind of programmed to do so.<\/p>\n

Tu cerebro ya no es capaz de distinguir las verdades de las mentiras.<\/p>\n

En su mente, todo lo que oye es mentira, y s\u00f3lo es cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que se confirme.<\/p>\n

Crees que cuanto m\u00e1s amable es la persona, m\u00e1s mentirosa es, y esa es la \u00fanica verdad cuando se trata de tu percepci\u00f3n de la gente que te rodea. Cuanto m\u00e1s agradables hablen, menos les creer\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You wholeheartedly believe in Murphy\u2019s law (\u201cEverything that can possibly go wrong will go wrong\u201d)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Eres un firme pesimista con respecto a todo. Crees que todo lo que puede salir mal, saldr\u00e1 mal, y nadie puede decirte lo contrario.<\/p>\n

Siempre asumes que ciertas cosas saldr\u00e1n mal porque est\u00e1n destinadas a ser as\u00ed aunque no tengas pruebas de ello.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time you thought positively about the outcome of a certain situation\u2014most probably you didn\u2019t due to being occupied with the negative side of it.<\/p>\n

Pensar en positivo es un requisito indispensable para atraer la felicidad y las cosas buenas de la vida.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re constantly negatively oriented, you will attract such things as well.<\/p>\n

Te pones celoso con demasiada facilidad<\/h2>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Usted es muy inseguro respecto a su lugar en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>y esta inseguridad desencadena celos constantes incluso ante las cosas m\u00e1s sencillas.<\/p>\n

You get jealous too easily because you\u2019re constantly on the edge, thinking what\u2019s going to happen next or that your partner or potential partner is doing something bad.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared of the new things that come into your life because you see them as potential threats to your relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always assuming the worst, and you\u2019re suspicious of your partner\u2019s friends, work colleagues, and others with whom you\u2019re not familiar.<\/p>\n

Jealousy is the biggest enemy of every relationship, and if you\u2019re constantly blaming your partner for something they didn\u2019t do, it is a recipe for a true disaster.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve made a choice that you\u2019ll never trust anyone again<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You have solemnly and wholeheartedly sworn that you\u2019ll never trust anyone again because of some bad experiences in your past.<\/p>\n

Tomaste esta decisi\u00f3n para prot\u00e9gete<\/a> from any possible harm in future, and that is why you\u2019re simply unable to stop overthinking and unable to break the vow of never trusting anyone again.<\/p>\n

Esta determinaci\u00f3n de mantenerte fiel a tu creencia de que las personas son tramposas, mentirosas y manipuladoras t\u00f3xicas es tu mayor obst\u00e1culo a la hora de alcanzar la verdadera felicidad.<\/p>\n

Mientras te niegues a pensar de forma diferente o a ver el panorama general, ser\u00e1s incapaz de ver que no hay necesidad de tener prejuicios hacia todo el mundo sin una raz\u00f3n v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\n

You need constant reassurance of your partner\u2019s affection<\/h2>\n

\"adorable<\/p>\n

Siempre necesitas que te reafirmen su afecto y lo mucho que te quieren.<\/p>\n

Lo haces porque necesitas una validaci\u00f3n constante de que no van a hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Only if they say it as they really mean it, you will get rid of your suspicions. But, even this reassurance doesn\u2019t last for long.<\/p>\n

Pronto encuentras otra raz\u00f3n para desconfiar de ellos, y as\u00ed, te encuentras a ti mismo y a tu pareja dando vueltas en c\u00edrculos.<\/p>\n

A veces, les exiges demasiado, y si no son capaces de cumplirlo, te sentir\u00e1s decepcionado con ellos.<\/p>\n

You see, your fear of trusting others is constantly forcing you to do things you wouldn\u2019t do normally, and it is preventing you from enjoying la felicidad que te mereces<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer en esta situaci\u00f3n es dar pasos de beb\u00e9, y poco a poco empezar a abrirte a los dem\u00e1s porque es la \u00fanica manera de salir de este confuso laberinto.<\/p>\n

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So, what is exactly pistanthrophobia? It is a fear of trusting other people, and yes, it\u2019s an actual phobia. The next logical question is how do people get this kind of phobia? Well, the main causes for developing pistanthrophobia are previous heartbreaking and bad experiences during which you got hurt one way or another by…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":83823,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Signs-Your-Pistanthrophobia-Fear-Of-Trusting-Others-Is-Ruining-Your-Relationships.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32245\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}