{"id":32261,"date":"2019-02-06T12:19:08","date_gmt":"2019-02-06T12:19:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32261"},"modified":"2022-02-05T16:20:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-05T16:20:53","slug":"los-retos-de-enamorarte-de-tu-mejor-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-retos-de-enamorarte-de-tu-mejor-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Los retos de enamorarse de tu mejor amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una de las cosas m\u00e1s tranquilizadoras que puedo decirte ahora mismo es que algunas de las historias de amor m\u00e1s hermosas nacieron de una amistad \u00edntima y cercana.<\/span><\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re currently struggling with feelings you think you probably shouldn\u2019t be feeling for your <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span><\/a>, don\u2019t be so hard on yourself. Chances are this could be the beginning of a love story for the ages! If you don\u2019t give it a go, you\u2019ll never know what you could be missing out on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, I understand that summoning up the courage to let your friend know how you truly feel about them is one of the most difficult things you\u2019ve been faced with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Firstly, you risk losing one of the most important and closest people in your life\u2026 and you\u2019re just not sure if it\u2019s worth taking that huge risk. And secondly, the inevitable fear of rejection\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let this stop you. If your friend is that important to you, no matter what their reaction will be, they will never compromise having you in their life. Your best friend will always be your best friend. And however they take it, just know that they love you no matter what happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

The first thing you need to do is acknowledge how you feel. Give it time and don\u2019t rush anything. Make sure that this is not just a phase but an actual, real connection you\u2019re feeling that has surpassed the friend stage and is of a purely romantic nature.<\/span><\/p>\n

Las relaciones pueden ser un trabajo duro. Piensa un segundo y reeval\u00faa si merece la pena perder lo que tienes ahora por algo que quiz\u00e1 no tenga lo que hay que tener para durar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto es dif\u00edcil de escuchar, pero es de suma importancia si quieres hacer esto de la manera correcta. Tienes una relaci\u00f3n incre\u00edble y estrecha con tu amigo. Probablemente significan el mundo para ti y vuestra amistad es sagrada para ti. \u00bfDe verdad quieres ponerla en peligro?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you do, then okay. That means you must really be <\/span>enamorarse<\/span><\/a> with your best friend. What\u2019s important now is that you observe their signals and behavior around you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDisfruta claramente pasando tiempo contigo? \u00bfSientes que podr\u00eda estar sintiendo lo mismo pero tiene miedo de decirlo en voz alta debido a esos mismos temores que te preocupan?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez tu amigo ha estado luchando con los mismos sentimientos hacia ti y por miedo a arruinar vuestra incre\u00edble amistad, ha dudado en actuar al respecto al igual que t\u00fa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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This is uncharted territory for the both of you. There are no rules as to what you should and shouldn\u2019t do\u2026 In this type of situation, you are the only one who can determine whether you should pursue this or not. There is no wrong answer here, only what your gut feeling is telling you.<\/span><\/p>\n

My advice is to try to engage in some innocent flirting. See how they take it. Be a little cheeky and put on some moves, just to see how they will respond. In case it doesn\u2019t go down well, you can always say that you were just joking around and playfully dismiss it.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it could also go down well! Your friend could be very receiving toward your playful flirtation and it could be your sign that you\u2019ve been waiting for!<\/span><\/p>\n

Be cautious about this. Honesty is your best policy. If your flirty test has gone well, then find an excuse to be alone with them and just be genuine with them. Don\u2019t expect anything in return, otherwise it could be hurtful for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Understand that your friend could be really surprised by your admission. Even if they do feel the same way, they might not be ready to admit it at that moment and you could be taking them by surprise, so don\u2019t be surprised if your friend reacts a little worse than you\u2019d like.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it\u2019s the worst case scenario and the feelings are not reciprocated\u2026 it\u2019s not the end of the world. Your friendship might simply be too valuable for your friend to let go of just like that and you have to respect that.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are true friends, you will find your way around this. I know it\u2019s such a struggle being <\/i><\/b>enamorado<\/i><\/b><\/a> with your best friend and being torn all the time\u2026 but look at it this way; you didn\u2019t lose them and you most probably never will. The love between you two is just too strong.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y si has encontrado la fuerza para ser sincero con tus sentimientos y has descubierto que son rec\u00edprocos, \u00a1enhorabuena! Ahora ves que sin honestidad, transparencia y un poco de lucha inevitable, no se consigue nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

A veces hay que ir a por todas, \u00a1porque hay cosas que merecen la pena!<\/span><\/p>\n

Being in love with your best friend is a truly unique feeling\u2026 This is the person who knows all of your secrets. This is the person who knows all of you, good sides and bad. And they stick by your side come hell or high water!<\/span><\/p>\n

They are the first person to comfort you when you\u2019re down and the first one to know your happy news. There\u2019s no one you\u2019d rather share all of your glorious moments with and no one you\u2019d rather have by your side in the most difficult times.<\/span><\/p>\n

And you should never take a friendship like that for granted. This is a rarity in this corrupt world and even when those feelings you didn\u2019t expect appear\u2026 sometimes, you just have to take that with your head held high and just know that no matter what happens, that bond is unbreakable.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The most important thing is to be honest with yourself. Don\u2019t try to fool your mind into feeling something that isn\u2019t there. Your conscience is clear and your intentions are pure. And when you know you\u2019re coming from a good, genuine place, never regret it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those who don\u2019t try will forever be haunted by what could\u2019ve been but never was. So whatever pasa con tu amigo<\/a>, know that the bond you share is too strong to be broken. Find solace in that, because some people don\u2019t even have that.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

One of the most reassuring things I can tell you right now is that some of the most beautiful love stories were born out of a close, intimate friendship. So if you\u2019re currently struggling with feelings you think you probably shouldn\u2019t be feeling for your best friend, don\u2019t be so hard on yourself. Chances are…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":32264,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/tamara-bellis-379246-unsplash-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32261"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32261\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}