{"id":32329,"date":"2020-02-07T13:02:02","date_gmt":"2020-02-07T13:02:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32329"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:28:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:28:21","slug":"como-manipular-a-los-hombres-para-tenerlos-justo-donde-quieres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-manipular-a-los-hombres-para-tenerlos-justo-donde-quieres\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo manipular a los hombres para tenerlos justo donde quieres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde el principio de los tiempos, las mujeres han luchado contra esta falsa narrativa de ser vistas y tratadas como el sexo d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n

Pocas veces se ha retratado a una mujer como el g\u00e9nero m\u00e1s competente, asertivo y ambicioso y se le han dado oportunidades de las que tan a menudo han disfrutado los hombres.<\/p>\n

We as women have been taught to let \u2018the man\u2019 do his thing and let us focus on the homemaking aspect, without worrying about real stuff.<\/p>\n

And for so long, that has been the case. The voice for women hasn\u2019t been that loud and men have enjoyed the perks of living in a world that bows in front of them and treats them as superior beings.<\/b><\/p>\n

Afortunadamente, eso ha empezado a cambiar recientemente y las mujeres por fin han hecho o\u00edr su voz y no han sido ignoradas.<\/p>\n

Las cosas han dado un vuelco y hac\u00eda tiempo que era necesario. Por fin empezamos a ser consideradas iguales a los hombres, las oportunidades aumentan y el respeto hacia nosotras crece, y merecidamente.<\/p>\n

Pero de lo que la mayor\u00eda de la gente no es consciente, y con la mayor\u00eda de la gente me refiero a los hombres, es de que a pesar de ese trato de mierda, siempre hemos conseguido salirnos con la nuestra, al menos en algunos departamentos.<\/p>\n

Men think they are so tough and sneaky, being the breadwinners and whatnot but what they don\u2019t see is the way we can subtly and intelligently get them to do exactly as we want, without breaking a sweat, and to their complete obliviousness.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n tan cegados por su falso sentido del derecho y la superioridad que no se han dado cuenta de lo inteligentes y capaces que somos en realidad.<\/p>\n

Algo en lo que siempre hemos sido soberbias es en nuestra capacidad innata de manipular a los hombres para llevarlos exactamente adonde queremos.<\/p>\n

No digo que \u00e9sta sea la mejor manera de hacer las cosas, pero como nos han tratado tan mal a lo largo de los a\u00f1os, \u00bfalguien puede culparnos por utilizar esto en nuestro beneficio?<\/p>\n

We have accepted the weaker tag for so long, that there really isn\u2019t a woman out there who should feel guilty for being able to get her way, one way or another.<\/p>\n

In relationships, there is always compromise and joint decision-making but men don\u2019t understand that we often get our way by engaging in some innocent manipulation that doesn\u2019t hurt them in any way, it simply makes them more susceptible to our ways.<\/p>\n

Sure, we can act like we do things for them out of pure love and adoration but we all know that isn\u2019t always entirely the case, and so what! <\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no shame in being able to manipulate men to our advantage, as long as it isn\u2019t hurting anyone.<\/b><\/p>\n

There may be women out there who would disagree with this and claim never to have manipulated their way into anything but honestly\u2026 who are we kidding?<\/p>\n

We have so many strengths that we\u2019re born with and sometimes we even use them without even thinking about it, it\u2019s like second nature to us. And that\u2019s something to feel good about.<\/p>\n

We can make them think that doing a certain thing is something that THEY want but is in fact totally for our own benefit and we just know how to make it seem as if it\u2019s their decision.<\/p>\n

Manipulation is a really great tool to use when you want to nudge your man into doing something he might not be the biggest fan of but in a sneaky way, that doesn\u2019t put too much pressure on him.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering what exactly it is that women do that can get them almost anything they wish for, here\u2019s a list of the 10 best techniques we use so smoothly and proudly to get our way.<\/p>\n

10 maneras astutas de manipular a los hombres<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Llorando<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

This is a clich\u00e9, I know\u2026 but if it works, why not?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably seen it in more movies that you can count. A girl gets stopped while speeding, an officer approaches, reprimands her, and as he\u2019s about to ask for her driving license, she lets out the waterworks.<\/p>\n

And before you know it, the officer falls for the sneaky trap and genuinely believes the girl is so sorry for speeding that she just can\u2019t stop crying.<\/p>\n

Es una locura, pero cumple su funci\u00f3n; y, al parecer, te libra de una multa por exceso de velocidad.<\/p>\n

La versi\u00f3n real de esto es tratar de conseguir tu hombre<\/a> para hacer algo, o ir a alg\u00fan sitio contigo, para hacer algo que \u00e9l no tiene absolutamente ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en hacer, as\u00ed que dejas caer una lagrimita o dos y dices algo que le haga sentirse realmente mal por ello y, en \u00faltima instancia, ceder.<\/p>\n

Men have a weakness in seeing women cry. They just feel uncomfortable and uneasy seeing a girl in tears and don\u2019t really know what the best way to react is, so they just give in and basically do anything that would get them to stop.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s kind of engraved in them to help a girl who\u2019s crying and since it\u2019s the ultimate sign of defeat, they don\u2019t feel the need to confront them further and worsen the situation, they just want to do the right thing and protect them.<\/p>\n

So, we just use this primal urge that\u2019s instilled in us to manipulate them into doing what we\u2019ve set our mind to, by crying over something we would normally never really cry about.<\/p>\n

Aparecer indefenso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the one thing men enjoy doing in relationships? Helping their girl with something she can\u2019t do herself.<\/p>\n

Les encanta que les necesiten, les sube el ego y les hace sentirse bien consigo mismos.<\/p>\n

It makes them feel accomplished and important, so it\u2019s no wonder girls have learned to use this to their advantage.<\/p>\n

Most of the time, we\u2019re perfectly capable of doing something but when we just don\u2019t feel like it, it\u2019s so easy appearing helpless and to pretend to be struggling with, let\u2019s say, fixing the garbage disposal, so that he\u2019d step in and take over from us.<\/p>\n

It makes the man feel like he\u2019s really needed and it saves us the trouble of having to deal with something we just don\u2019t really feel like doing.<\/p>\n

Whenever we don\u2019t want to do something, we can pretend to be a damsel in distress in desperate need of assistance and our knight in shining armor will come running to our aid.<\/p>\n

Kind of perfect, yes? The guy gets to be the man of the hour and we don\u2019t have to deal with boring stuff around the house.<\/p>\n

Sexo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja <\/p>\n

I know, I know, with feminism really hitting its stride and with us refusing to be objectified and seen as nothing but homemakers and child bearers, this sounds wrong\u2026 but is it really?<\/p>\n

We were born with what we\u2019ve got and if men are so weak and easily manipulated by the mere insinuation that there may be sex, how on earth is that our fault?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s wrong to be seen as one-dimensional beings way by the world but it\u2019s a completely different thing using our sexuality to our advantage, when it has been our gender tag since forever! We deserve to use it for our needs as well and nobody has the right to take that away from us.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s say you really don\u2019t feel like doing the dishes. You can slip into something really comfortable, barely there and revealing, and just strut around the house with those flirty eyes, literally not having to even say anything, he\u2019ll get the picture.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see those dishes, understand your insinuation and he\u2019ll do them in an instant, knowing there\u2019s something in it for him afterward.<\/p>\n

And why would we not use this when it\u2019s really so simple and innocent?<\/p>\n

We both get what we want, with a little something extra in it for us. I think it\u2019s kind of brilliant.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all sexual beings and using your sex-appeal to your advantage is your God-given right and there is absolutely no shame in it. I say do your thing and never ever question it.<\/p>\n

Llen\u00e1ndole de cumplidos<\/h2>\n

\"silueta <\/p>\n

We\u2019ve all tried to get our guy to do those little things around the house that should be a routine for them but they just don\u2019t care much.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about leaving food all around the house, not doing the dishes, constantly leaving his socks on the floor instead of putting them in the laundry basket and the list could go on and on\u2026<\/p>\n

So, when it finally happens that he actually does one of those things, even better if it\u2019s without your nagging, you make sure to compliment him like crazy for it, so that it\u2019s instilled in his mind how happy that made us and how well they did.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s kind of childish when you think about it\u2026 but it\u2019s necessary to get it done.<\/p>\n

When a guy hears you raving about him doing the dishes and putting his dirty laundry IN the laundry basket, as opposed to next to it\u2026 he\u2019s going to remember that and do it in the future.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t even know that you got him to do it and without even having to get annoyed and raising your voice. I don\u2019t know about you but I call that a success.<\/p>\n

Guys love being complimented just as much as girls do and if you can manipulate your guy into doing something by making them feel good and capable, why the hell not? It\u2019s really kind of amazing. So simple and easy and they\u2019d never guess it.<\/p>\n

Ponerles apodos bonitos<\/h2>\n

\"\" <\/p>\n

We all have certain pet names for our significant others and it\u2019s a really cute little way of letting a person know how special they are to you. But it can also be used in a different way.<\/p>\n

Guys call us all kinds of pet names that come to them at that moment and it really doesn\u2019t have any alternative meaning other than just being cute toward us and letting us know they really care about us.<\/p>\n

Pero se sabe que las mujeres utilizan ciertos nombres bonitos para manipular disimuladamente a sus hombres.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say there\u2019s a certain thing you call your guy under the sheets on a regular basis and he clearly loves it as he associates it with sex, so he\u2019ll definitely grow to appreciate it.<\/p>\n

And when you don\u2019t feel like doing something and want to get your man to help you out, you\u2019ll use that certain sexy pet name that you call him while you\u2019re getting frisky, while asking him to help you out.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll hear that name and immediately be reminded of the most frequent place he gets called that and do that thing in a jiffy.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably think he might get lucky that night and he doesn\u2019t have to be wrong\u2026 but that\u2019s totally up to you.<\/p>\n

El poder de tu tacto suave<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Es innegable el poder del tacto. Puede decirte m\u00e1s de lo que crees.<\/p>\n

You can sense if a person is happy, sad, uneasy or anxious. And as much as it can tell you about a person, it can also be used in a more manipulative way\u2026<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t even mean in a naughty way (necessarily).<\/p>\n

Touch signifies intimacy, closeness\u2026 especially if it is by someone you are in a relationship with.<\/p>\n

Esa persona sabe exactamente c\u00f3mo te gusta que te toquen, d\u00f3nde y qu\u00e9 hace que te tiemble la piel.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you really wish you didn\u2019t have to fold the laundry today, you give your man a nice, gentle back rub and subtly mention how nice it would be if he would help you out with that, he\u2019d be much more likely to do it.<\/p>\n

Being touched in just the right places is the best stimulus for him to be more open to helping you in any way and it doesn\u2019t even seem as if you\u2019re manipulating him at all.<\/p>\n

A todo el mundo le gusta que le toquen en los lugares adecuados (de nuevo, no necesariamente de forma sexual) porque les hace sentirse bien, conectados y seguros, y les hace m\u00e1s propensos a hacer algo que en realidad no querr\u00edan hacer.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1ndole la espalda<\/h2>\n

\"mujer <\/p>\n

We all know how this works. A girl gets annoyed at her guy for doing something stupid and murmurs that she\u2019s fine, when they both know she\u2019s most definitely NOT fine.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one of the oldest tricks in the book but it always gets us what we want.<\/p>\n

Guys don\u2019t like it when their girl is unhappy, because it always reflects on them.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t really be happy if their girl is clearly upset about something, as it makes them look like an ass.<\/p>\n

And it totally works for us. We act okay but distant and conveniently forget to answer texts and calls\u2026 and it irks them so much that they\u2019ll cave and either apologize for what they did or do what we need them to do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a really effective method to manipulate a guy and get him right where you want him and it\u2019s been used for so long without fail. So why stop using it now?<\/p>\n

persistente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

El rega\u00f1o es algo que se ha asociado mucho a las mujeres, ya que a menudo se nos considera como las que rega\u00f1an a sus parejas hasta conseguir lo que queremos.<\/p>\n

Some may even say that this isn\u2019t a manipulation tactic but they are wildly mistaken.<\/p>\n

See, we KNOW that if we nag enough times and annoy the shit out of our men, they\u2019ll eventually do what we want.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the best or most appealing quality but screw it, who cares! It gets the job done and we have mastered it perfectly.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ll just go on, and on, and on about something until the guy gets so tired of hearing it that he\u2019ll actually do that thing, just so that we\u2019d stop talking about it. And that was exactly the plan all along.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d say it\u2019s a pretty smart way to go about things. And men can be so stubborn and set in their ways sometimes, that it\u2019s really no surprise we need to resort to nagging to get them to do something.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a very commonly used tactic in long-term relationships, as sometimes it\u2019s the only way to get him to do stuff. So nag away and get yours!<\/p>\n

Falsamente de acuerdo con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Think about this. Surely you have fights with your boyfriend where he annoys you so much by constantly claiming he is right, when you know he really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de continuar la pelea, te limitas a decir sarc\u00e1sticamente que tiene raz\u00f3n, para term\u00ednalo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But your tone of voice and calm demeanor clearly indicate that you know he\u2019s in the wrong but you just don\u2019t have the strength to fight him on this any longer.<\/p>\n

Hearing and seeing you so calm and collected, he\u2019ll know that he\u2019s wrong and that you don\u2019t even care anymore, because there\u2019s no point in fighting anymore and it will bug him so much.<\/p>\n

You not wanting to confront him anymore and clearly but peacefully letting him know that he can have his way even though he is not right will make him upset and he\u2019ll admit to his wrongdoing and do whatever you want him to do.<\/p>\n

Esta es una forma elegante pero inteligente de afirmar la dominaci\u00f3n y todos sabemos la importancia que tiene a veces la dominaci\u00f3n en las relaciones.<\/p>\n

Manipular los argumentos para que el resultado acabe siendo favorable para ti, sin sudar la gota gorda y fingiendo estar sarc\u00e1sticamente de acuerdo con \u00e9l le volver\u00e1 loco y conseguir\u00e1 que lo que quieres<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Fingir ser sumiso<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Lo bueno de la sumisi\u00f3n es que se puede fingir. \u00bfY por qu\u00e9 no utilizarla para manipular a tu hombre cuando todo lo dem\u00e1s falla?<\/p>\n

Puedes fingir sumisi\u00f3n hablando con suavidad y dulzura, sin que parezca que quieres empezar una discusi\u00f3n y sin levantar la voz.<\/p>\n

When you want something but the guy isn\u2019t budging, appearing submissive can make him do it by making him feel like the decision was his all along.<\/p>\n

You tell him that he\u2019s right and that you really don\u2019t want to fight about it and he\u2019ll assert the dominant role and make the decision that you were secretly hoping for but have managed to manipulate him into doing.<\/p>\n

When you pretend to be submissive about the little things that you don\u2019t really even care about that much, it makes it easier to get your way when something you want comes along; it\u2019s just always worked that way.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll feel that since he always gets what he wants, he\u2019ll budge on that one thing, unknowingly doing exactly what you want and you getting your way so easily.<\/p>\n

So when you act submissive, you\u2019re actually being very smart and manipulative but it\u2019s so good that he\u2019d never guess it in a million years.<\/p>\n

The roles are completely reversed and he\u2019s none the wiser. It\u2019s the best way to manipulate your way into something and it doesn\u2019t require much effort or thinking. The best part is making it seem as if it was his decision and you win.<\/p>\n

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