{"id":32350,"date":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T08:39:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32350"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:56:31","slug":"12-senales-de-una-mujer-controladora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-senales-de-una-mujer-controladora\/","title":{"rendered":"12 se\u00f1ales de una mujer controladora"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTu mujer intenta controlarte? \u00bfEres o te has convertido en una mujer controladora?<\/em><\/p>\n

Cada mujer es diferente. Algunas tenemos personalidad de ser demasiado emocionales, testarudas, imprudentes, confusas, amables, etc\u00e9tera. Pero tambi\u00e9n hay mujeres que muestran un comportamiento controlador.<\/p>\n

Controlar el comportamiento significa tener constantemente la necesidad de tenerlo todo bajo control; asegurarse de que todo sale como se imagina.<\/p>\n

Las personas que ejercen el control tienen sus propios m\u00e9todos para hacer que los dem\u00e1s obedezcan y hagan lo que ellos quieren.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really difficult to get along with them, and that is why conflicts become inevitable.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s one thing we should all be aware off:El comportamiento controlador es un trastorno. No es un comportamiento adquirido. Se denomina Trastorno Obsesivo Compulsivo de la Personalidad (TOCP), y el tratamiento suele consistir en una terapia de conversaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si crees que tu mujer ha empezado a controlarte, no la culpes.<\/p>\n

No lo hace porque quiera hacerte sentir miserable.<\/p>\n

She is doing it because she\u2019s going through the stages of a personality disorder, and here are 12 signs confirming it.<\/p>\n

12 se\u00f1ales de una mujer controladora<\/b><\/p>\n

Te a\u00edsla de tus amigos y familia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puede que se queje del tiempo que pasa con alguien de su familia o con sus amigos (sobre todo si son mujeres).<\/p>\n

Lo hace porque inconscientemente est\u00e1 intentando borrar todo tu apoyo para que te debilites.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re not that much surrounded by others, you become distant with them, and that way, it is easier to control your behavior.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, cuando te diga que debes comportarte de una determinada manera o cambiar algunas cosas, no tendr\u00e1s a nadie con quien hablarlo para ver sus opiniones respecto a lo que te ha dicho.<\/p>\n

Te critica constantemente<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

No importa lo que hagas, ella siempre encuentra algo que hiciste mal.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you will always miss something that she will use against you. But, don\u2019t get me wrong. Criticizing is good but to a certain degree.<\/p>\n

En este contexto, criticar se considera una poderosa arma de manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Hace que la otra persona se sienta infravalorada e inaceptada. As\u00ed que, si tu mujer te critica constantemente por las cosas m\u00e1s insignificantes, debes saber que no es sano.<\/p>\n

Conduce a una enorme brecha entre dos personas, y es un destructor seguro de una buena relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te amenaza<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

She threatens that she will leave you if you don\u2019t change some things regarding your behavior.<\/p>\n

Also, she might threaten that she will harm herself if you leave her. It\u2019s a double-edged sword, and it is hard to think clearly in a situation like this.<\/p>\n

Threatening is another powerful weapon when it comes to controlling other people\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n

It works on the principle: \u201cIf you don\u2019t do this, I will make you feel bad for not doing it.\u201d This also includes emotional manipulation like tears, playing the victim, etc.<\/p>\n

She makes you feel like you\u2019re not good enough<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

She is constantly pointing out your flaws, making you feel like you\u2019re not good enough, and you\u2019ll never be no matter what you do. No matter how hard you try to make things better, there will be another reason why you\u2019ll never be able to improve yourself.<\/p>\n

No apoya tus sue\u00f1os y deseos porque eso significar\u00eda que tienes otros intereses, excepto ella.<\/p>\n

Lo hace porque quiere toda tu atenci\u00f3n y moldearte seg\u00fan sus preferencias.<\/p>\n

And that is only doable if you\u2019re constantly reminded that you need to work on yourself in order to be accepted.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t reciprocate<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time she did something for you. It is always about her desires and wishes, and it is always about you doing something for her.<\/p>\n

Lo espera todo de ti, pero no est\u00e1 dispuesta a darte el mismo trato.<\/p>\n

Reciprocity is the key to a happy relationship, and if your woman is depriving you of your right to receive what you\u2019ve given, know that you\u2019re in a controlling, unhealthy environment in which she forces you to think that you don\u2019t deserve the same treatment you\u2019re giving others.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir culpable de todo<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

When something bad happens, you\u2019re guilty. She accuses you of being guilty for every major and minor occurrence without any valid proof.<\/p>\n

Una mujer controladora hace esto para mantener el poder sobre ti porque si te sientes culpable, siempre estar\u00e1s en un estado de alerta que te empujar\u00e1 a mejorar.<\/p>\n

La culpa se utiliza como una herramienta que te obligar\u00e1 a hacer cualquier cosa para librarte de ese sentimiento.<\/p>\n

The feeling of guilt entraps you, and it forces you to become a completely different person, doing things you normally wouldn\u2019t only to wash away your sins.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir en deuda con ella<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Al darte algunas cosas o hacer algo por ti, una mujer controladora a veces crea la sensaci\u00f3n de que esperas algo.<\/p>\n

Puede que te compre algo que siempre has querido o que te alimente con su cari\u00f1o y afecto s\u00f3lo para usarlo despu\u00e9s en tu contra.<\/p>\n

She might make you feel in debt to her for everything she\u2019s done for you because her ulterior motives were related to controlling or this just becomes her weapon when she starts craving your attention.<\/p>\n

Exige conocer hasta el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo detalle de todo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Siempre exige que le digas ad\u00f3nde vas y cu\u00e1nto tiempo vas a estar all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n exige hasta el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo detalle sobre el lugar al que fuiste o la gente con la que te acompa\u00f1aste.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, she even spies on you by checking your social networks when you leave your phone in the vicinity or demands that you show her what you\u2019ve been posting. And if you refuse to do so, she will start doubting even more.<\/p>\n

She does this because she feels insecure and doesn\u2019t trust anyone around you.<\/p>\n

Por eso le urge saberlo todo y tenerlo todo bajo control.<\/p>\n

Te priva de tu libertad porque ella misma se siente atrapada.<\/p>\n

Es demasiado celosa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve exchanged a few messages with your female colleague at work or with your female friend.<\/p>\n

Al instante se convierte en demasiado celoso<\/a> for no apparent reason, and she demands that you convince her you are not hiding anything, and you\u2019ve got nothing with these women.<\/p>\n

Her jealousy makes her go crazy. You also might have witnessed the act of her jealousy in public where she was pushing you to admit to her you did something that you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Cada interacci\u00f3n que tienes con la especie femenina es una amenaza potencial a sus ojos, e inmediatamente empieza a reaccionar ante ella.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions and the need for alone time<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Whatever you say to her, you are simply not right. She doesn\u2019t respect your opinions on certain matters because she believes only in herself and needs to have everything under control.<\/p>\n

You try to convince her that sometimes she\u2019s just not right about something, but all of your efforts always end up in vain.<\/p>\n

Also, you are never \u201callowed\u201d to have alone time because she sees it as you being unwilling to spend time with her (even if you\u2019ve spent a lot of time with her beforehand).<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t respect your necesidad de tiempo a solas<\/a>, and when you tell her that you need to be alone, she starts suspecting that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Se burla de ti s\u00f3lo para re\u00edrse de ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A veces se burla de ti<\/a> about your appearance or about something you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t do it in a playful way. Her teasing is directed to making you mad and guilty of doing something.<\/p>\n

The aim of this is to trigger your brain to think that you\u2019re not good enough and to start looking for solutions.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt yourself<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sue\u00f1as con una carrera de cantante o algo que no sea tan corriente, y ella nunca se esfuerza por apoyarte.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s making you doubt your skills again, reminding you that you\u2019re not qualified for a certain position or activity.<\/p>\n

Al hacerlo, controla tus deseos y anhelos, con lo que tambi\u00e9n controla tu futuro.<\/p>\n

\"12<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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