{"id":32360,"date":"2020-07-07T19:10:09","date_gmt":"2020-07-07T19:10:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32360"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:58:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:58:56","slug":"6-cosas-con-las-que-te-sentiras-identificado-si-estas-aprendiendo-a-amar-de-nuevo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-con-las-que-te-sentiras-identificado-si-estas-aprendiendo-a-amar-de-nuevo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas con las que se sentir\u00e1 identificado si est\u00e1 aprendiendo a amar de nuevo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando te rompe el coraz\u00f3n alguien que cre\u00edas que estar\u00eda a tu lado para siempre, todo tu mundo se derrumba.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de sentir ese enorme dolor que te est\u00e1 destrozando por dentro, tambi\u00e9n pierdes la fe en que puedas volver a encontrar la felicidad.<\/p>\n

Te cierras en banda y renuncias a la posibilidad de volver a encontrar el amor.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, empiezas a curarte. Al cabo de un tiempo, entra en tu vida un hombre que merece tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Antes de que te des cuenta, te encuentras aprendiendo a amar de nuevo y aqu\u00ed tienes 6 cosas que suelen ocurrir en el proceso.<\/p>\n

1. Tienes miedo<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve been hurt in the past, the last thing you want to allow is to get your heart broken all over again. So obviously, you are terrified of going through the same shit once more.<\/p>\n

Tienes miedo de permitirte dejar entrar a alguien nuevo en tu vida, tienes miedo de abrirte de nuevo al amor y miedo de repetir el mismo error.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost faith in your judgment-making skills and you overthink your every move, trying to protect yourself.<\/p>\n

Aunque veas que ese chico nuevo que ha entrado en tu vida es nada como tu ex<\/span><\/a>, you keep doubting his intentions. It is more than clear that you have strong trust issues and you can\u2019t start believing men overnight, after everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

You want to prevent all of this from happening and you don\u2019t want to let your fear control you but somehow, it keeps blocking your emotions and it keeps preventing you from relaxing completely.<\/p>\n

2. Pero poco a poco vas dejando atr\u00e1s el pasado<\/h2>\n

Sin embargo, a pesar de que el mero hecho de pensar en un nuevo amor te asusta, con cada nuevo d\u00eda, en realidad est\u00e1s dejando atr\u00e1s el pasado.<\/p>\n

You might not even be aware of this but the truth is that you are slowly getting rid of your emotional baggage that\u2019s been burdening you for so long.<\/p>\n

Te sorprendes a ti misma no pensando en el hombre que te ha hecho da\u00f1o durante d\u00edas. En su lugar, todos tus pensamientos se redirigen a esta nueva persona en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Ya no est\u00e1s amargado ni eres negativo cuando se trata del amor y, poco a poco, empiezas a creer de nuevo en \u00e9l, aunque te niegues a admitirlo.<\/p>\n

3. Te cuesta bajar la guardia<\/h2>\n

Todas las mujeres que han pasado por situaciones dif\u00edciles en el pasado han tenido que encontrar una forma de proteger su vulnerable coraz\u00f3n para que no vuelva a ser aplastado. Y t\u00fa no eres diferente.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve put on your face the mask of this tough girl. You\u2019ve become vigilado<\/span><\/a>, you\u2019ve built thick walls around your heart which kept everyone out because you thought that it was the only way to keep yourself emotionally safe.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, eres perfectamente consciente de que hay que derribar esos muros si quieres tener una nueva relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tienes que bajar la guardia si quieres que el amor vuelva a encontrar su camino en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo esto es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decirlo que hacerlo. Por mucho que lo intentes, volver a ser el de antes no es nada f\u00e1cil y bajar la guardia no es algo que se consiga de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

4. Por fin te das cuenta de que eres adorable<\/h2>\n

Cuando la persona a la que m\u00e1s quer\u00edas te da la espalda, es natural que te sientas desolado.<\/p>\n

You wonder why you couldn\u2019t be enough for him and with time, you start thinking that you are obviously no destinado a ser amado<\/span><\/a>, if this man couldn\u2019t love you for real.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando empiezas a aprender a amar de nuevo, todo esto cambia.<\/p>\n

You realize that you are not so hard to love after all and that you deserve a man\u2019s love, despite what your ex tried to make you think.<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e1s dando pasos de beb\u00e9<\/h2>\n

Otra cosa con la que se identifican todas las chicas que est\u00e1n aprendiendo a amar de nuevo es que no quieren precipitarse. En lugar de eso, vas dando pasitos de beb\u00e9, de uno en uno.<\/p>\n

It is not that you are playing hard to get\u2014you are just not ready to give yourself entirely to someone until he proves that he deserves you. And there is nothing wrong with that, no matter what anyone might tell you.<\/p>\n

Remember that you are not a coward for wanting to take things slowly because this is exactly what you should be doing after all the devastating pain you\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo eres una chica que aprendi\u00f3 de sus errores y una chica lo suficientemente inteligente como para no repetirlos.<\/p>\n

6. Empiezas a quererte de nuevo<\/h2>\n

You know what the best part of letting love enter your life after a heartbreak is? It is not loving someone else the way you thought you weren\u2019t capable of\u2014it is the liberating feeling that allows you to qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/span><\/a> otra vez.<\/p>\n

It is seeing all of your virtues and seeing how amazing and beautiful you are. It is the fact that you\u2019ve finally stopped seeing yourself through the eyes of the man who mistreated you, the fact that you finally see your worth and the fact that you no longer allow one asshole to define it.<\/p>\n

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