{"id":32366,"date":"2020-06-07T20:32:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T20:32:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32366"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:07:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:07:34","slug":"tuve-que-alejarme-porque-sabia-que-quedarme-me-haria-mas-dano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tuve-que-alejarme-porque-sabia-que-quedarme-me-haria-mas-dano\/","title":{"rendered":"Tuve que alejarme porque sab\u00eda que quedarme me har\u00eda m\u00e1s da\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t leave you because I stopped loving you. I didn\u2019t do it because I\u2019d met someone else or because I thought I could do better.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t do it to teach you a lesson or to make you chase me either.<\/p>\n<p><b>I walked away from you because I couldn\u2019t take it anymore. Because it was the only option I had and because it was my last attempt to save myself from your toxicity.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I did it because I\u2019d had enough. Because I\u2019d reached my breaking point and because I knew that staying by your side for just one moment longer would be the end of me.<\/p>\n<p>Que permanecer en esa relaci\u00f3n un solo d\u00eda m\u00e1s me destruir\u00eda por completo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo hice porque no ten\u00eda otra opci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98531\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada sola en el autob\u00fas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-bus-alone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because I finally looked the painful truth in the eye and saw that you\u2019d never become the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/al-tipo-que-nunca-se-convertira-en-el-hombre-que-ella-necesita-que-sea\/\"> hombre que necesitaba que fueras <\/a> , that my love couldn\u2019t change you and that sadly, I couldn\u2019t fix you, as much as I\u2019d tried.<\/p>\n<p>Lo hice porque vi que en realidad t\u00fa y yo nunca estuvimos hechos el uno para el otro y que nunca podr\u00edamos tener un futuro juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Que nuestra relaci\u00f3n nunca ser\u00eda sana y que estaba condenada al fracaso desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b>I walked away because you didn\u2019t give me a reason to stay.<\/b> Porque estabas haciendo de mi vida un infierno y porque me estabas haciendo miserable.<\/p>\n<p>Y as\u00ed no es como la persona que amas deber\u00eda hacerte sentir.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-me-fui\/\">Te dej\u00e9 porque<\/a> Finalmente me di cuenta de que nunca me pondr\u00edas en primer lugar, que nunca me elegir\u00edas de verdad y que nunca cumplir\u00edas tus promesas de ser diferente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste de pie junto a un lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-standing-at-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Que nunca me amar\u00edas como yo te amaba y como merec\u00eda ser amada.<\/p>\n<p>Me alej\u00e9 porque me cans\u00e9 de perseguirte. Cansado de ser el \u00fanico que luchaba y el \u00fanico que lo intentaba.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of all the arguments and tired of trying to make something out of the relationship, while you couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n<p>Cansado de todos los <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-cosas-con-las-que-se-identifican-todas-las-chicas-que-dieron-demasiadas-oportunidades\/\"> segundas oportunidades <\/a> y de todas las falsas promesas. Cansado de creer en algo que obviamente nunca fue real y cansado de esperar algo que nunca llegar\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Cansada de justificar que me maltrataras y de buscar excusas para tu comportamiento de mierda. Cansada de mentirme a m\u00ed misma s\u00f3lo para poder seguir queri\u00e9ndote.<\/p>\n<p>Cansado de ser tu segunda opci\u00f3n, cansado de cuestionar tus emociones, cansado de que no fueras coherente y cansado de que no me dieras lo que necesitaba.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Me alej\u00e9 de ti porque ten\u00eda que hacerlo aunque fue la decisi\u00f3n m\u00e1s dura de mi vida. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque ten\u00eda que encontrar una salida de un modo u otro, aunque me estuviera destrozando y aunque significara que ten\u00eda que romperme el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te dej\u00e9 porque quedarme a tu lado habr\u00eda dolido a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Because I couldn\u2019t stand being trapped in a one-sided, loveless relationship which never had the potential of becoming real.<\/p>\n<p>Porque finalmente vi que nunca me mereciste. Porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/she-left-you-because-she-finally-saw-her-worth\/\"> Por fin vi mi propio valor <\/a> y porque ya era hora de que dejara de conformarme con menos.<\/p>\n<p>Me alej\u00e9 porque me di cuenta de que necesitaba a alguien mejor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98535\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mujer que deja a su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-her-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque me di cuenta de que estaba mucho mejor soltera que atrapada en esa relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y porque estoy segura de que puedo salir adelante sin ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te dej\u00e9 porque a\u00fan tengo fe en que alg\u00fan d\u00eda llegar\u00e1 un hombre que se entregar\u00e1 completamente a m\u00ed, un hombre que me amar\u00e1 de todas las formas en que debo ser amada y un hombre que ser\u00e1 digno de m\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So please, don\u2019t try looking for me once you start regretting the fact that you lost me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try coming back into my life once you see that no other woman will love you like I did and once you understand what you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3lo por una vez, s\u00e9 justo y d\u00e9jame ir. D\u00e9jame ser feliz lejos de ti porque es lo menos que merezco.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98530\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Had-To-Walk-Away-Because-I-Knew-That-Staying-Would-Hurt-Me-More-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tuve que alejarme porque sab\u00eda que quedarme me har\u00eda m\u00e1s da\u00f1o\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Had-To-Walk-Away-Because-I-Knew-That-Staying-Would-Hurt-Me-More-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Had-To-Walk-Away-Because-I-Knew-That-Staying-Would-Hurt-Me-More-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Had-To-Walk-Away-Because-I-Knew-That-Staying-Would-Hurt-Me-More-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t leave you because I stopped loving you. I didn\u2019t do it because I\u2019d met someone else or because I thought I could do better. I didn\u2019t do it to teach you a lesson or to make you chase me either. I walked away from you because I couldn\u2019t take it anymore. Because it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":98536,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Had-To-Walk-Away-Because-I-Knew-That-Staying-Would-Hurt-Me-More.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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