{"id":32473,"date":"2019-02-11T08:11:52","date_gmt":"2019-02-11T08:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32473"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:05:08","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:05:08","slug":"asi-es-como-vas-a-poner-las-piezas-de-tu-corazon-de-nuevo-juntos-sin-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-vas-a-poner-las-piezas-de-tu-corazon-de-nuevo-juntos-sin-el\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como recompondr\u00e1s las piezas de tu coraz\u00f3n sin \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

When someone you love more than anything in this world vanishes from your life, you feel like you\u2019ll never recover. You feel like you want to die because your existence has no meaning anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed es exactamente como te sentiste cuando tu ex se alej\u00f3 de ti. Este era el hombre con el que quer\u00edas envejecer, alguien con quien planeaste tu futuro y el hombre que pensabas que era tu persona para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

When he left you hanging, all of your dreams and hopes collapsed. You couldn\u2019t believe what was happening to you or if you\u2019d ever manage to get over this guy. The worst part is that you still don\u2019t have a clue how you\u2019ll continue living your life without him<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este hombre aplast\u00f3 tu coraz\u00f3n, pero hizo algo a\u00fan peor que eso.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>te rompi\u00f3 en miles de pedazos. Desde que te abandon\u00f3, te sientes incompleta y como si faltara una parte de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ll never recover and as if your wounded heart will never heal. Well, let me tell you it will.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know this sounds like mission impossible right now but trust me on this one; before you know it, you\u2019ll find a way to put the pieces of your broken heart back together. Before you know it, you will <\/span>aprende a vivir sin este hombre<\/span><\/a> by your side and you will find a way to repair all the damage he\u2019s caused.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this won\u2019t happen overnight. Glueing yourself back together after a devastating heartbreak and going back to being your old self is a process which takes time, patience and devotion.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, your path to recovery can\u2019t start unless you embrace your pain, without allowing it to define you. <\/span>Para reconstruirte, tienes que dejarte derrumbar por completo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que entender que pasaste por un doloroso trauma emocional y que <\/span>reprimir tus sentimientos<\/span><\/a> s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 las cosas. As\u00ed que en lugar de hacer eso, perm\u00edtete llorar.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, you are not weak for feeling like this. You are just a human being who\u2019s been through a lot and who needs time to heal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t act like you don\u2019t miss this guy because missing someone who was a huge part of your life is completely natural. Don\u2019t act like he never existed and don\u2019t lie to yourself that you are completely over him because pretending that you don\u2019t feel something won\u2019t make it disappear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nonetheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that it is OK to contact him in any way because that would be desperate. Miss him as much as you want but don\u2019t even think of going back to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

After the initial grieving phase is over, it is time to keep your mind busy so it doesn\u2019t have the energy to think about your heartbreak. Time to focus all of your efforts on yourself and on making yourself happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is the time in which you need to remind yourself about the things you enjoy doing that are not connected to your asshole ex. To do everything you\u2019ve wanted to do for a while but never had a chance to, to completely embrace your single life and to start enjoying the fact that you no longer have to compromise on anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019ll still suffer over this man. But with each day that passes, your suffering will slowly disappear.<\/span><\/p>\n

With each day, without even being aware of it, you\u2019ll think of him less and less and he\u2019ll keep on fading in your memory more and more. With each day that comes, you\u2019ll be picking up your broken self step by step, without even knowing it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then one morning, you\u2019ll see that he isn\u2019t the first thought that comes to your mind. You\u2019ll see that you haven\u2019t cried over this man for ages and that feeling like you are dying from the inside is gone.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed de f\u00e1cil<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019ll see everything more clearly. You\u2019ll stop romanticizing your past with this man and you\u2019ll stop idealizing him. <\/span>For the first time ever, you\u2019ll see this guy for who he really is. You\u2019ll see that him leaving you was actually a blessing and the best thing that could have happened to you. Most importantly, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019ve managed to <\/b>desamarlo<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

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When someone you love more than anything in this world vanishes from your life, you feel like you\u2019ll never recover. You feel like you want to die because your existence has no meaning anymore. This is exactly how you felt when your ex walked away from you. This was the man you wanted to grow…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":32476,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/jhomar-alessandro-566667-unsplash55.jpg",800,538,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32473\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}