{"id":32544,"date":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32544"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:57","slug":"que-hacer-cuando-no-puedes-dejar-de-pensar-en-ella","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-hacer-cuando-no-puedes-dejar-de-pensar-en-ella\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 hacer cuando no puedes dejar de pensar en ella"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A veces, conoces a una chica y te deja sin aliento al instante.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different.<\/p>\n<p>La ver\u00e1s, la conocer\u00e1s, te acercar\u00e1s a ella, y ser\u00e1 especial. Habr\u00e1 algo en ella que simplemente irradiar\u00e1 positividad y belleza, y te encontrar\u00e1s a ti mismo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/11-cosas-subconscientes-que-hacen-los-hombres-cuando-se-enamoran-perdidamente-de-una-mujer\/\">de cabeza <\/a>para ella.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Cada vez que hable, ser\u00e1s todo o\u00eddos, ya que cada palabra que sale de su boca suena como una melod\u00eda hecha s\u00f3lo para tus o\u00eddos. Cuando entra en una habitaci\u00f3n, parece un \u00e1ngel que ha sido puesto en esta tierra para hacer tu vida m\u00e1s significativa y encantadora.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>La forma en que su pelo fluye con una suave brisa es hipnotizante, y su mirada es de puro amor y bondad.<\/p>\n<p>She is one in a million. And you\u2019re a lucky son of a gun who gets to call her yours.<\/p>\n<p>You will spend an incredible amount of time together, and you won\u2019t be able to believe how you get to be so damn lucky\u2026 Until it stops.<\/p>\n<p>One day, things just won\u2019t work anymore between you two. You won\u2019t even know what hit you, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-chica-que-aprenderas-a-apreciar-solo-despues-de-que-se-vaya\/\">cuando esta chica te deja<\/a>, it\u2019s like a punch in your gut that takes a hell of a long time to recover from.<\/p>\n<p>You will suddenly be left without this person who has been making your life so much more meaningful, and you won\u2019t know how to recover from this. She was your \u2018one\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you\u2019re left with nothing but memories of your time together, and you can\u2019t get her out of your head.<\/p>\n<p>You just can\u2019t stop <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/alguien-piensa-en-ti\/\">pensando en ella<\/a> y rebobinar el tiempo, tratando de averiguar qu\u00e9 demonios sali\u00f3 mal.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>To other people, she may seem like just a regular girl who looks really cute and has a charming personality, but to you, she was the most special girl you\u2019ve ever encountered\u2026 and no one really gets it. Not like you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>She has left such a profound impact on your life, and it\u2019s not like any other break-up you\u2019ve dealt with before. You know that this one will be much more difficult to overcome.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, how much you try, you can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and worse off\u2026 you know you can\u2019t win her back.<\/p>\n<p>Tu coraz\u00f3n est\u00e1 completamente destrozado y s\u00f3lo quieres poder dejar de pensar en ello durante al menos un d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>This is a challenging time in your life, and nobody can take this away from you. You\u2019re going through a horrible loss, and you deserve to grieve properly. But before you do, it\u2019s important that you take the right steps while trying to heal from it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Necesitas aceptar esta nueva realidad como lo que es, e intentar, realmente intentar superarla, porque cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo la mantengas en tu cabeza, m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil ser\u00e1 superar esto.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que aqu\u00ed tienes algunas cosas que espero que te faciliten esta transici\u00f3n, que te ayuden a superarlo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-estas-pasando-por-una-ruptura-dolorosa\/\">ruptura dolorosa<\/a>y te devolver\u00e1 las ganas de vivir.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sal de sus redes sociales<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78342 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"foto oscura de un hombre escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dark-photo-of-man-typing-on-his-phone-at-home-1-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re trying to get this girl out of your head, and you\u2019re creeping on her social media? If so, you need to stop with that, like yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica forma de dejar de pensar en ella es elimin\u00e1ndola de tus cuentas online porque ver su cara por todas tus redes sociales va a hacer que sea mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil olvidarla.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never get over someone you see every single day. So do yourself a favor, and if you\u2019re not going to delete her from your friends list (which is okay) than stop following her, and hide her activity. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first healthy step toward regaining your normal routine and getting your mind off of this painful journey to healing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">En cuanto su cara aparezca en tu cabeza, ap\u00e1gala con otros pensamientos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78335 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sujet\u00e1ndose la cabeza al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-holding-his-head-outdoors-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This takes a lot of self-control and willpower, but it\u2019s imperative if you truly want to stop thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que te venga a la cabeza, decide pensar en algo completamente distinto.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta pensar qu\u00e9 vas a preparar para cenar ese d\u00eda o planea en tu cabeza ir a visitar a tus padres ese fin de semana.<\/p>\n<p>Try to think of some fun activity you could preoccupy yourself with, and without even realizing it, you\u2019ll actually be planning a weekend hangout, and your mind will be free of her.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s no easy task, and it\u2019s even more difficult when you have all of these feelings for her\u2026 but if you give it a real go, it could help you for real.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t think about the exact same thing every time she pops into your mind.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you\u2019ll instantly be reminded of her again. Instead, think of a different thing that can in no way be associated with her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mant\u00e9ngase ocupado en su vida social<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78334 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos riendo al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-laughing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting over someone when you\u2019re cooped up all alone in your apartment, with just your thoughts and memories.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not making it any easier on yourself by ostracizing yourself from the world.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, haz planes con tus amigos para pasar una noche divertida. Planifica una actividad que sea divertida, f\u00edsica y que lo abarque todo, lo que te dejar\u00e1 poco tiempo para pensar en otra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>When your friends invite you somewhere, don\u2019t think about it, and just go.<\/p>\n<p>Anhelarla solo en casa no te llevar\u00e1 a ninguna parte, as\u00ed que lev\u00e1ntate de ese sof\u00e1 y pasa tiempo de calidad con tus amigos, que seguro que quieren ayudarte en este proceso.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard getting yourself to do it, but once you do, you\u2019ll be so happy you did.<\/p>\n<p>Promise! It\u2019s always hardest at the beginning, but once you start getting your groove back, you\u2019ll see that you have a pretty good life, pretty amazing friends, and things will start to look up.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">B\u00fascate a alguien nuevo en quien pensar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78339 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos animando copas en el bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/group-of-friends-cheering-drinks-at-bar-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re out there, getting your groove back with your friends out on the town, you will inevitably meet a bunch of new girls who might draw some interest from you.<\/p>\n<p>No hay nada malo en pasar un buen rato coqueteando con una chica atractiva a la que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n pareces gustarle.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just innocent fun, and you have every right and reason to indulge yourself!<\/p>\n<p>So if it happens that you\u2019ve come across someone you\u2019re a least a little attracted to\u2026 give it a shot, and see where it goes.<\/p>\n<p>A lo mejor esta chica tambi\u00e9n quiere pasar una noche divertida y puedes dejar que te ayude a sacarte a tu ex de la cabeza.<\/p>\n<p>Who knows, you just might meet someone new who will captivate you and truly get you to stop thinking about the ex, but even if that\u2019s not the case, you\u2019ll get some fun in the sun with a cute girl, and it will most definitely help improve your mood\u2026 if you catch my drift.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00e9ntrate en tus otros intereses<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78340 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre pone sus manos sobre un barbo en el gimnasio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-puts-hands-on-barbel-in-the-gym-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Seguro que tienes aficiones u otras cosas que haces en tu tiempo libre, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you go to the gym, play in a band or even volunteer at a children\u2019s shelter!<\/p>\n<p>Sea lo que sea, \u00a1ded\u00edcale a\u00fan m\u00e1s tiempo! Centrarte en otras cosas de tu vida que te aporten alegr\u00eda te ayudar\u00e1 a salir de esa depresi\u00f3n y a volver a ver la belleza en el mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let the thought of her take away other things that make you happy in life! The more time you spend doing positive things that you\u2019re passionate about, the less time you\u2019ll have to think about her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">F\u00edjese nuevos objetivos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78332 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con chaqueta mirando alrededor\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/man-with-jacket-looking-around-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is really about keeping your mind busy at all times, so that you don\u2019t have any time to dedicate to anything negative or discouraging.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que quiz\u00e1 sea el mejor momento para pensar en tu futuro y en qu\u00e9 es lo que todav\u00eda quieres conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be anything big. Just a little project that will occupy your time and leave as little time as possible to be thinking about her.<\/p>\n<p>It can be fitness-related, work-related or even a project around the house that you\u2019ve been wanting to do for a while now.<\/p>\n<p>Pinte las paredes de otro color, estrene dormitorio o renueve el jard\u00edn.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, make sure it\u2019s something that will bring a positive change into your life and make it better one way or another.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Desah\u00f3gate con tus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78331 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"amigos hombres riendo y sentados en la colina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/male-friends-laughing-and-sitting-on-the-hill-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1les son <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/si-no-sabes-quienes-son-tus-verdaderos-amigos-lee-esto\/\">amigos de verdad<\/a> for, if not for being your support system when you\u2019re going through a difficult time?<\/p>\n<p>Be honest with them. Admit that you just can\u2019t stop thinking about her, and you desperately need help in ridding your mind of the painful memories of your time together.<\/p>\n<p>Tus compa\u00f1eros se alegrar\u00e1n de que te sientas lo suficientemente c\u00f3modo como para confiarles este tema tan delicado y delicado, y se volcar\u00e1n para ayudarte a superarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, el mero hecho de hablar de ello ser\u00e1 un gran alivio. Cuando tienes amigos de verdad que realmente quieren <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-la-quieres-estate-a-su-lado\/\">estar a tu lado<\/a>, it\u2019s such a reassuring feeling being able to confide in them and let them help you carry this burden.<\/p>\n<p>Let it all out, and until it feels better, don\u2019t stop. You\u2019re only human, and never feel weak about having feelings and going through dark periods.<\/p>\n<p>We all go through this; there\u2019s no shame in it. Only a real man is capable of bearing his soul and keeping it real with himself. So be proud of yourself, and let your friends be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Acabar\u00e1s siendo mucho m\u00e1s feliz por tener a tu alrededor un sistema de apoyo tan aut\u00e9ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Seguramente te ayudar\u00e1 a dejar de pensar en ella y tambi\u00e9n, a conectar con tus amigos a un nivel a\u00fan m\u00e1s profundo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78329 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Qu\u00e9 hacer cuando no puedes dejar de pensar en ella \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you will meet a girl and she will instantly take your breath away. She won\u2019t be like any other girl you\u2019ve ever met\u2026 This one will be different. You will see her, meet her, get close to her, and she will be special. There will be something about her that simply radiates positivity and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":78330,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/What-To-Do-When-You-Just-Can\u2019t-Stop-Thinking-About-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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