{"id":32609,"date":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T09:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32609"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:46:21","slug":"en-el-momento-en-que-me-vaya-y-deje-de-luchar-considera-que-me-he-ido-para-siempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/en-el-momento-en-que-me-vaya-y-deje-de-luchar-considera-que-me-he-ido-para-siempre\/","title":{"rendered":"En el momento en que me vaya y deje de luchar, considera que me he ido para siempre."},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre he sido yo quien ha luchado por nosotros. Siempre fui la que compraba la paz en nuestro hogar, pag\u00e1ndola con mis l\u00e1grimas. La que siempre dec\u00eda que no val\u00eda la pena pelear por peque\u00f1eces.<\/p>\n

But when a lot of small things happen often, they become a really big problem you can\u2019t solve just like that. When you put up with something for such a long time, in one moment you decide dejar ir<\/a> of everything. And it doesn\u2019t happen because you get tired of fighting but because the other side doesn\u2019t fight at all.<\/p>\n

Y eso es exactamente lo que me est\u00e1 matando lentamente. Me est\u00e1 matando ver que soy la \u00fanica que lucha, la \u00fanica que intenta mejorar las cosas. Aunque tenga una relaci\u00f3n contigo, me siento la mujer m\u00e1s sola del mundo.<\/p>\n

I feel like I am the only one who is actually doing something to save what we have and that you don\u2019t give a damn what will happen. You are so indifferent and it hurts more than anything.<\/p>\n

It hurts so much telling someone about your dreams and hopes while that person doesn\u2019t even listen to you. It hurts to give your love to a man who doesn\u2019t reciprocate in the same way. It hurts to sleep next to him, asking God to make him hug you, but the only thing he does is make more space between the two of you.<\/p>\n

Duele estar en una relaci\u00f3n pero no pasar por lo que otras mujeres enamoradas est\u00e1n pasando. Ya sabes, duele.<\/p>\n

And I just want you to know that I won\u2019t be able to continue doing this for much longer. Because this is not love anymore, it is just a bad compromise. The one in which you get all you want and where I only get the crumbs from your table.<\/p>\n

And that is not fair. That is not love. That is abuse. And I can\u2019t take it anymore. No matter how much I love you and how much I care about you, I won\u2019t be the one fighting for us.<\/p>\n

Juro que me rendir\u00e9 contigo igual que t\u00fa te rendiste con nosotros hace mucho tiempo. Me ir\u00e9 y la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que mirar\u00e9 atr\u00e1s ser\u00e1 para ver lo lejos que he llegado.<\/p>\n

And that will happen sooner than you think. I will leave you when you least expect it. And I will never look back. You will be shocked, I know. You still don\u2019t think that I am strong enough to leave you and that you are the only man for me.<\/p>\n

Listen, even if you were the only one left standing on this earth, I wouldn\u2019t be with you. What you are giving me is not what I need. If you think that it takes so little for love, then be satisfied with someone who will take you for granted, who will neglect you and gaslight you.<\/p>\n

Because that is what you have been doing to me for all these years. And it is time to let go of everything that has been breaking me. It is finally time to accept that staying with you would hurt me more than leaving. It is time to say, \u201cGoodbye,\u201d once and for all. So, when you see me dejar de luchar<\/a>considera que me he ido.<\/p>\n

And once I leave, there won\u2019t be a way for you to bring me back. Once I leave you, you won\u2019t be able to tell me your sweet lies that you love me and that you want us to work.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have a chance to blind me with your kisses and hugs. Once I leave, I will burn all the bridges between us.<\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e9 con tanta satisfacci\u00f3n porque sufr\u00ed durante mucho tiempo, ansiando el amor que nunca me diste. Y esta vez, quiero que sientas lo que yo he sentido durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

Esta vez, quiero que pruebes tu propia medicina. Tal vez, pero tal vez, s\u00f3lo entonces ver\u00e1s lo que me has hecho.<\/p>\n

Y si eres la mitad de hombre de lo que te presentas, me dejar\u00e1s en paz y no volver\u00e1s a meterte en mi vida.<\/p>\n

Vamos, hasta t\u00fa sabes que merezco un hombre mejor que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

\"En<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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