{"id":32643,"date":"2020-05-12T13:48:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-12T13:48:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32643"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:42:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:42:54","slug":"odio-a-mi-novia-15-razones-por-las-que-deberias-plantearte-dejarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/odio-a-mi-novia-15-razones-por-las-que-deberias-plantearte-dejarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Odio a mi novia: 15 razones para seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you have the feeling that you\u2019ve started hating everything your girlfriend does? You have that sense of hatred that overwhelms you every time you look at her or talk to her?<\/i><\/p>\n

Hate is a strong word, and if you\u2019re going through it, there\u2019s must be a valid reason behind it. You see, not every relationship is meant to last.<\/p>\n

Algunas personas captura tu coraz\u00f3n<\/a> en el momento en que los ves, y nunca cambia.<\/p>\n

Pero tambi\u00e9n hay personas que te cautivan al principio y, cuando aprendes m\u00e1s sobre ellas, te das cuenta de que no son el tipo de persona con la que te gustar\u00eda estar. Y es entonces cuando se produce el odio.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, a veces puedes tener expectativas muy altas de tus posibles parejas y, cuando te das cuenta de que nunca podr\u00e1n cumplirlas, empiezas a odiar la idea de estar con alguien as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

No pierdas el tiempo en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica.<\/b><\/p>\n

Whatever the reason be, if you find yourself in a relationship with a girlfriend whom you thought you could love and now you\u2019ve realized is the exact opposite, do not waste your time or nerves on this type of toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Summarized, if the sentence \u201cI hate my girlfriend\u201d has occupied your brain lately, you should end things.<\/p>\n

I know, I know\u2026Now you\u2019re probably thinking: Pero, \u00bfy si esto s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 en mi cabeza, y ella no es tan mala despu\u00e9s de todo? \u00bfY si estoy pasando por una fase extra\u00f1a en la que he empezado a odiar a todos los que me rodean? \u00bfY si me arrepiento de haberla dejado?<\/i><\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s a solution for that, too. To be a hundred percent sure that you shouldn\u2019t doubt for a second leaving her, there are some things you should pay attention to.<\/p>\n

If any of these 15 things applies to you, know that it\u2019s time to let her go.<\/p>\n

Odio a mi novia 15 razones por las que deber\u00edas plantearte dejarlo<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

La odias<\/h2>\n

\"Imagen<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que esto se explica por s\u00ed solo, pero a veces hay que recordarlo.<\/p>\n

Si odias a tu novia con cada cent\u00edmetro de tu cuerpo, deber\u00edas salir de tal relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

El odio es totalmente opuesto al amor, y si te encuentras en ese otro lado, debes saber que es hora de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

How will you know that you hate your girlfriend? You will know that you hate your girlfriend when you\u2019re not happy about seeing her. You\u2019re not enjoying spending time with her.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly imagining how it would be to be with someone else. You\u2019re frustrated.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que siempre es mejor poner fin a las cosas que empeorarlas.<\/p>\n

Enga\u00f1arla es lo \u00faltimo que querr\u00edas hacer, y por eso tu mejor opci\u00f3n es aceptar la verdad de que la odias y marcharte a tiempo.<\/p>\n

Ya no disfrutas del sexo<\/h2>\n

\"Las<\/p>\n

Sex is an important aspect of every happy and healthy relationship. If you\u2019ve noticed that you no longer enjoy having sex with her, it\u2019s time to cut her loose.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, cuando empiezas a odiar a alguien a quien sol\u00edas amar, todo cambia, as\u00ed como tu vida sexual.<\/p>\n

You can never enjoy being intimate with someone you hate. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

Y cuando eso ocurre, sabes que ha llegado el momento. Piensa en c\u00f3mo eran tus relaciones sexuales al principio de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa cambiado? \u00bfCrees que ser\u00edas m\u00e1s feliz teniendo relaciones sexuales con otra persona?<\/p>\n

Do you often think about having sex with someone else? If yes, chances are that your sex life will never improve, not until you decide to move on (before it\u2019s too late).<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve got nothing to talk about<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otro aspecto importante de toda relaci\u00f3n sana es la comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you feel like you\u2019ve got nothing to talk about with your girlfriend, you know the situation is alarming.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal for people when they just start dating to have flawed conversation patterns because they are still exploring each other.<\/p>\n

But, if this doesn\u2019t change even after your beginning phase, you have a communication problem, and I\u2019m sorry to tell you, but you will start hating her more and more if you don\u2019t quit things.<\/p>\n

A estas alturas, ya deber\u00edais haber aprendido mucho el uno del otro y la conversaci\u00f3n deber\u00eda haber prosperado.<\/p>\n

Y si no lo es, deber\u00edais haceros un favor a los dos e iniciar caminos separados.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1 controlando<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Do you feel she has entrapped you? Do you feel like she is depriving you of your freedom and making choices for you by herself? If yes, she might have become a \u201ccontrol freak\u201d.<\/p>\n

Controlling behavior is a serious disorder which is known as Obsessive – Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD), and such people are really hard to get along with.<\/p>\n

Y esa podr\u00eda ser la raz\u00f3n por la que empezaste a odiarla en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Otros signos de comportamiento controlador son el cuestionamiento constante de todo lo que haces y la imposici\u00f3n de sus opiniones sobre cualquier asunto.<\/p>\n

Poner ultim\u00e1tums y condiciones seguidas de consecuencias (si no se cumplen), etc.<\/p>\n

Pero, el mayor signo de estar controlado es la sensaci\u00f3n de atrapamiento, que te vuelve loco.<\/p>\n

Odias lo que eres con ella<\/h2>\n

\"enfoque<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n requiere reciprocidad. Si odias quien eres al estar con ella, esto es una gran se\u00f1al de odio. Probablemente la odias por odiarte a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

It is a vicious, never-ending cycle that you need to destroy ASAP. We all change when we enter a relationship, but if you hate those changes, then you know you\u2019re not with the right person.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been constantly changing because of her, and you don\u2019t like these changes (you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself), it\u2019s a gran bandera roja<\/a> that something\u2019s utterly wrong, and it\u2019s time to move on.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es hablarlo con ella y hacerle saber tus opiniones y sentimientos al respecto.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s probable es que ella sienta lo mismo, pero se resisti\u00f3 a dec\u00edrtelo (igual que t\u00fa).<\/p>\n

Y \u00a1voil\u00e1! Lo mejor que puedes hacer es ponerle fin de mutuo acuerdo para que nadie salga herido.<\/p>\n

No es la misma persona que conociste<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You expected a reasonable and caring girlfriend, and she turned out to be the complete opposite. Don\u2019t worry. It happens to everyone.<\/p>\n

It is normal to be \u201cblind\u201d when you just start dating someone because you tend to create a picture of that person in your head which is the main reason of disappointments in future.<\/p>\n

Es dif\u00edcil estar 100% seguros de que la persona es exactamente quien creemos que es.<\/p>\n

And when you realize that all this time you\u2019ve been fooling yourself, you start hating her (and yourself as well).<\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que ya no es la misma persona que conociste quiz\u00e1s porque nunca lo ha sido, pero simplemente estabas ciego para verlo (como el resto de nosotros ah\u00ed fuera).<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t care about her looks around you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque no es justo esperar que parezca un \u00e1ngel de Victoria Secret todos los d\u00edas, tampoco lo es que no se preocupe en absoluto por su aspecto.<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas los tiempos en que se esforzaba por impresionarte en cada cita con un maquillaje y un atuendo perfectos? Y ahora esos d\u00edas se han ido.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9? <\/strong>There are two reasons actually. Reason number one is because you\u2019ve been together for some time, and she\u2019s got totally relaxed about how she looks, so that she\u2019s become too lazy to care about her appearance.<\/p>\n

Reason number two is because she is no longer interested in impressing you, but she\u2019s interested in impressing others. (E.g. when she goes out she spends a lot of time on her appearance).<\/p>\n

Y esto es un gran problema. Te mereces estar con una novia que siempre se esfuerce por estar decente y guapa para ti y tambi\u00e9n para ella misma.<\/p>\n

So, if she no longer gives a damn about her looks when being around you, it\u2019s time to stop giving a damn about it, and let her go.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t give you space<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Nunca te deja tener tiempo para ti aunque pas\u00e9is mucho tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

A veces tienes que rogarle que te deje en paz, para poder ordenar tus pensamientos.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do or say, she simply doesn\u2019t understand. You feel frustrated about it, but you simply don\u2019t have any proper solution for it.<\/p>\n

Ella ve el tener tiempo a solas como si estuvieras enfadado con ella o la ignoraras.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t understand that giving space to each other is necessary, and it is a normal process in every single (healthy) relationship.<\/p>\n

So, if she\u2019s depriving you of your freedom, you know what you\u2019re supposed to do.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1 poniendo celosa<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Jealousy is a serious issue, and if you\u2019re experiencing it with your girlfriend, you should never doubt for a second whether or not to give up on her.<\/p>\n

Puede que te est\u00e9 poniendo celoso porque ella misma es insegura y quiere que le valides constantemente tu afecto.<\/p>\n

O podr\u00eda ser d\u00e1ndote celos<\/a> because she genuinely doesn\u2019t care how you will feel about it. However, none of these reasons is valid.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be with a girlfriend who makes you jealous for no apparent reason.<\/p>\n

Mereces estar en una relaci\u00f3n sana y rec\u00edproca en la que no te cuestiones nada.<\/p>\n

Te mereces ser feliz. As\u00ed que, \u00a1que le den a los celos! Si est\u00e1 flirteando deliberadamente con otros s\u00f3lo para molestarte o por alguna otra raz\u00f3n malsana, tienes todo el derecho a odiarla y abandonarla.<\/p>\n

Tus amigos y tu familia tambi\u00e9n la odian<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you (who are in a relationship with her) hate her, but it\u2019s completely another if your friends and family hate her, too.<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de esto, tus amigos son diez veces m\u00e1s fiables que t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

Es posible que a\u00fan est\u00e9s emocionalmente unido a ella y que veas vuestra relaci\u00f3n de forma diferente a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

So, if your friends tell her that they don\u2019t approve of her, believe them.<\/p>\n

Te lo dicen porque est\u00e1n hartos de escucharte quejarte de ella y se han dado cuenta de que, sencillamente, no es buena para ti.<\/p>\n

They would never say this if they think you\u2019re happy with her.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si tu familia tambi\u00e9n la odia, puedes estar seguro de que s\u00f3lo quieren lo mejor para ti.<\/p>\n

Ella es molesta<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si ya no te invita a volver a casa del trabajo porque sabes que ella estar\u00e1 all\u00ed, es que la odias.<\/p>\n

Si ya no sientes la emoci\u00f3n de pasar tiempo juntos, la odias.<\/p>\n

Or to be exact, you hate her because she is annoying. When you\u2019re in a relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>, you\u2019re supposed to be willing to spend as much as time together as possible.<\/p>\n

Pero, cuando te enfadas con tu novia, la situaci\u00f3n cambia.<\/p>\n

Ya no la ves como alguien con quien te gustar\u00eda estar sentado en el sof\u00e1, viendo pel\u00edculas o cenando juntos.<\/p>\n

And you might also have considered cheating on her because you feel miserable, but you don\u2019t know how to end things.<\/p>\n

Now is the time for you to shine, and do what\u2019s best for you and that is \u2013 ending it.<\/p>\n

You genuinely don\u2019t care about what she\u2019s doing<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Le enviabas mensajes de texto con frecuencia porque te interesaba lo que hac\u00eda y lo que ocurr\u00eda en su vida en general. Te preocupabas por lo que hac\u00eda porque ella te importaba.<\/p>\n

And now you simply couldn\u2019t give less of a fuck about it. She could tell you that she is going on a drink with her ex, and you will stay indifferent to it because you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Y que no te importe es una seria se\u00f1al de alarma ante la que deber\u00edas hacer algo.<\/p>\n

Es un indicador de que debes arreglar las cosas o abandonar (si ves que no tiene sentido).<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a little help: If you don\u2019t care what she\u2019s doing now, you certainly won\u2019t care in the future as well.<\/p>\n

Conociste a alguien nuevo<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

You met someone new, and you have no idea what to do next. But, you know for a fact that you would want to be with that new person you\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

If there\u2019s any type of doubting your current relationship and longing to be with another person, you should end it immediately.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in hurting your girlfriend just because you were too weak to end it in time.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met someone new, you hate your girlfriend, and you\u2019re suspicious of the direction in which your relationship will go, it\u2019s time to move on.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t imagine the future with her in it<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otro fuerte indicio de que debes salir de tu relaci\u00f3n es si no puedes imaginar el futuro con ella en ella.<\/p>\n

Just think about it for a second. Imagine your future and think about whether you see her in it. If she\u2019s not in it, it means she\u2019s standing in your way to happiness.<\/p>\n

It means you\u2019re not happy with what you have, and you will neither be happy in future with her because you don\u2019t enjoy spending time with her (as you might used to do).<\/p>\n

It means it\u2019s time to stop wasting your time on thinking about it, and let her know how you feel.<\/p>\n

Ella te enga\u00f1\u00f3<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto no es negociable. Si ella te enga\u00f1\u00f3<\/a>, you have every right to call her now and end it with her no matter how many times she tries to say she\u2019s sorry.<\/p>\n

If all this time you were treating her with respect and admiration and in return you get her cheating on you, she doesn\u2019t deserve you, and she\u2019s not the kind of a girlfriend you should to be with.<\/p>\n

You deserve reciprocity, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll find it once you decide to let her go.<\/p>\n

\"Odio<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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