{"id":32668,"date":"2019-02-13T07:55:10","date_gmt":"2019-02-13T07:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32668"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","slug":"y-pensaste-que-nunca-se-iria-pero-adivina-lo-que-hizo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/y-pensaste-que-nunca-se-iria-pero-adivina-lo-que-hizo\/","title":{"rendered":"Y pensaste que nunca se ir\u00eda, pero \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? Lo hizo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>She believed your every word with all of her heart because she thought you were honest with her. She believed that you would always be there for her. She gave you her heart because she thought you would take good care of it. But you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, le vendiste dulces mentiras aunque sab\u00edas que era sincera contigo. Nunca estuviste ah\u00ed cuando te necesit\u00f3. Le rompiste el coraz\u00f3n aunque sab\u00edas cu\u00e1nto le doler\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b>And you thought she\u2019d never leave but guess what? She did.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t leave because she wanted to. She left because you gave her no choice. She left because all that time she was waiting for you to change but you didn\u2019t. Don\u2019t think that she didn\u2019t know that you were taking her for granted. She knew it very well.<\/p>\n<p>But her heart was too strong and stubborn to give up without fighting. She is not a quitter. She fights hard for something she believes in. And she believed in you\u2014she believed that you would change and start treating her the way she deserved.<\/p>\n<p><b>But you didn\u2019t. You deliberately <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/letter-man-loves-next-dont-take-granted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>la dio por sentada<\/b><\/a><b> and you thought she\u2019d never leave. You gave her crumbs of your toxic love while she gave you all of herself and you thought she\u2019d never leave.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que te sonre\u00eda mientras sufr\u00eda, te daba la oportunidad de curarla. Cada vez que se callaba ante tus malos tratos, te daba la oportunidad de darte cuenta de tus propios errores. Y cada vez que te daba otra oportunidad, te hac\u00eda saber que esperar\u00eda a que cambiaras.<\/p>\n<p><b>But you didn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hiciste que se diera cuenta de que, por mucho esfuerzo que invirtiera en ti, nunca ser\u00eda suficiente. Le hiciste darse cuenta de que todo ese tiempo hab\u00eda estado descuidando su propia felicidad para centrarse \u00fanicamente en la tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Se dio cuenta de que se hab\u00eda endeudado consigo misma y que era hora de empezar un nuevo cap\u00edtulo en su vida. Era hora de dejar de luchar por los que no estaban destinados a quedarse. Era hora de encontrar el valor para dejar ir a aquellos que no pod\u00eda cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>Decidi\u00f3 que el nuevo cap\u00edtulo de su vida consistir\u00eda \u00fanicamente en felicidad, verdad, respeto y reciprocidad. Ya no se conformaba con la mediocridad porque se hab\u00eda cansado de ella.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se hab\u00eda cansado de ser la \u00fanica que luchaba. Se hab\u00eda cansado de ser la segunda opci\u00f3n para alguien a quien trataba como una prioridad. Se hab\u00eda cansado de fingir su felicidad s\u00f3lo para verte sonre\u00edr.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She left because she missed seeing herself smile. She didn\u2019t leave because she was too weak. She left because she had been too strong for too long. And she doesn\u2019t regret a single thing she did for you. She did what she had to because she had no choice.<\/p>\n<p>When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn\u2019t love at all. She never regrets anything. She is just sad that you don\u2019t see it the way she sees it. She is disappointed in you for thinking that she\u2019d never leave no matter how badly you treated her.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y en el momento en que decidi\u00f3 seguir adelante fue cuando se jur\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma que nunca volver\u00eda a mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Siempre te llevar\u00e1 en su coraz\u00f3n pero nunca volver\u00e1 a mirar atr\u00e1s. De ser su prioridad, has pasado a ser s\u00f3lo un recuerdo porque se dio cuenta de que la vida era demasiado corta para perder el tiempo en dulces mentiras, soledad y dolor.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to bury all of the pain deep down in her soul and never unravel it again. She decided to pursue happiness, to keep her head high and protect her heart. And you thought she\u2019d never leave but guess what? She did.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32670 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Y pensaste que nunca se ir\u00eda, pero \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? Lo hizo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She believed your every word with all of her heart because she thought you were honest with her. She believed that you would always be there for her. She gave you her heart because she thought you would take good care of it. But you didn\u2019t. Instead, you sold her sweet lies even though you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":32669,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/back-view-blur-blurred-background-1758144.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32668"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32668\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32669"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}