{"id":32677,"date":"2019-02-13T08:32:43","date_gmt":"2019-02-13T08:32:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32677"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:16:52","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:16:52","slug":"8-senales-alarmantes-de-que-tu-relacion-se-dirige-hacia-la-friendzone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-alarmantes-de-que-tu-relacion-se-dirige-hacia-la-friendzone\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que tu relaci\u00f3n se dirige hacia la friendzone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many people think that being in a relationship is pretty simple. You spend a lot of time together, you do crazy things, you laugh, you cry\u2026 you love each other. But did you know that there\u2019s a difference between loving someone and being in love with them?<\/p>\n<p>Loving your partner doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019re in love with them. Loving them means you have feelings for them and you care about them. But being in love means the constant building of your relationship and investing mutual efforts to maintain the romance and intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>When one partner skips this pattern (or both do), they instantly put their relationship in danger of heading toward the friendzone. When that happens, it\u2019s really hard to notice because many people mistake the friendzone for being too comfy with each other.<\/p>\n<p>If you suspect that this might be the case with you, do not miss the opportunity to do something about it (before it\u2019s too late)! Here are 8 alarming signs that they are more your friend than partner.<\/p>\n<h2>1. You can\u2019t remember that last time you did something romantic together<\/h2>\n<p>To the question about how you spend most of your time together, the first thing that comes to your mind is \u2018Netflix and chill\u2019. You would say something else but you simply can\u2019t remember the last time you did something (more) romantic together than lying next to each other on the couch with a bunch of food and your favorite TV shows.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You don\u2019t make each other feel special<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t bother making that much effort in surprising each other (as you might have used to do before). The biggest surprise you get is the one when you realize your partner has left you some of your favorite food leftovers in the fridge. You no longer make those sweet gestures like a forehead kiss, hugging sessions, etc. because they seem overrated to you.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Nunca besas apasionadamente<\/h2>\n<p>You can\u2019t remember the last time you kissed with real passion. When you kiss, it lasts approximately five seconds and most of the time it\u2019s in a rush when the two of you are parting.<\/p>\n<p>Besarse apasionadamente ayuda a establecer una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-eso-las-parejas-que-se-asan-son-las-mas-fuertes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s fuerte entre ellos<\/span><\/a>, so you should never neglect the power of a good, fiery kissing session (if you don\u2019t want your relationship to head toward the friendzone).<\/p>\n<h2>4. You don\u2019t make an effort to look your best for each other<\/h2>\n<p>Baggy clothes, walking around in your pajamas the whole day, granny panties, messy hair, no make-up, no dieting, no shaving. Does this sound familiar to you? Do you find it hard to recognize each other when you\u2019re in a more formal outfit than pajamas?<\/p>\n<p>You reached the point where you\u2019re way too comfortable around each other and you simply don\u2019t bother making an effort to look your best.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Nunca haces el amor<\/h2>\n<p>If it\u2019s been a long time since you made love to each other, you might have a problem. You obviously don\u2019t have the urge to be intimate with each other as you might have used to before. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/efectos-de-la-falta-de-intimidad-fisica-en-una-relacion\/\">La falta de intimidad<\/a> y la pasi\u00f3n es la mayor se\u00f1al de que tu relaci\u00f3n se dirige hacia la friendzone.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Sus conversaciones son pobres<\/h2>\n<p>Except for asking each other about your whereabouts, meals, bills and other necessities, you don\u2019t talk that much about anything else. Deep topics have become as rare as unicorns. Your conversations are just regular and you don\u2019t talk that much about yourself, your wishes, or some other abstract themes which require a little bit more effort.<\/p>\n<h2>7. You don\u2019t call each other honey or baby<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t have nicknames (or you did but for some reason you stopped calling each other them). Words like honey and baby don\u2019t exist in your dictionary or are pretty well hidden. Most of the time, you call each other by simply saying, \u201cHey!\u201d or when they do something bad, you even call them by their name. If you&#8217;re a guy reading this, pay close attention when she starts <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-una-chica-llama-la-atencion-de-un-hermano-buscando-amistad\/\">calling you &#8216;bro&#8217;<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>8. You don\u2019t spend that much time together<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t spend that much time together and when you do, it mainly revolves around chilling on the couch in front of the TV instead of having a nice, productive convo or doing something adventurous (and I don\u2019t mean going to the mall).<\/p>\n<p>Puede que os hay\u00e1is aburrido el uno del otro y por eso te gusta pasar m\u00e1s tiempo con tus amigos que con tu pareja. Pero si abandonas por completo la idea de pasar tiempo de calidad con tu pareja, puede que en el futuro tambi\u00e9n se convierta en uno de tus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>Si su relaci\u00f3n presenta la mayor\u00eda de los signos anteriores, quiz\u00e1 quiera hablar con su pareja y triplicar sus esfuerzos a la hora de reavivar la pasi\u00f3n y la intimidad. Es la \u00fanica forma de evitar que tu relaci\u00f3n se dirija hacia la friendzone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-32680 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que tu relaci\u00f3n se dirige hacia la friendzone\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/And-You-Thought-Shed-Never-Leave-But-Guess-What_-She-Did-3.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many people think that being in a relationship is pretty simple. You spend a lot of time together, you do crazy things, you laugh, you cry\u2026 you love each other. But did you know that there\u2019s a difference between loving someone and being in love with them? Loving your partner doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019re&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":32679,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/adult-bestfriends-blue-1019771.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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