{"id":32700,"date":"2019-02-13T08:55:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-13T08:55:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32700"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:18:48","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:18:48","slug":"asi-es-como-aprendi-a-amar-mi-soledad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-aprendi-a-amar-mi-soledad\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como aprend\u00ed a amar mi soledad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre he odiado pasar tiempo sola despu\u00e9s de las rupturas. El invierno fue especialmente duro para m\u00ed porque los d\u00edas eran fr\u00edos y sombr\u00edos y no pod\u00eda salir mucho. Me daba miedo quedarme sola con mis propios pensamientos. Siempre manten\u00eda la mente ocupada para no pensar en la angustia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda dejarme claro que la soledad no era necesariamente aterradora. Estaba sola y me sent\u00eda sola, pero ten\u00eda tiempo para pensar en todo. Tuve tiempo para conocerme mejor. Tuve tiempo para darme cuenta de lo que realmente quer\u00eda de mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fue una oportunidad para utilizar mi tiempo sabiamente y perdonarme por las malas decisiones que hab\u00eda tomado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Estos son los consejos que utilic\u00e9 para aprender a amar mi soledad: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Aprende algo nuevo<\/h2>\n

I tried going to dance lessons. I even tried writing my own blog. It was a super fun experience. As soon as I learned new things, I automatically became a more interesting person because I had more things to share with other people. I used this opportunity to focus on my goals and all the things I had always wanted to do but never had the courage to. I did not want to grow old and gray wishing God had given me another chance to live. I wanted to use all my potential and transform all my dreams into reality. I could not let my dreams die away with me. All those \u201cI could\u2019ve\u201d and I \u201cshould\u2019ve\u201d were replaced with \u201cI can\u201d and \u201cI will\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Reaviva tus viejas amistades.<\/h2>\n

He perdido contacto con mis viejos amigos<\/a> porque estaba muy centrada en mi relaci\u00f3n. Pero ahora era el momento perfecto para llamarlos. Empec\u00e9 a quedar con ellos de vez en cuando y me alegr\u00e9 de que me recordaran lo bien que lo pas\u00e1bamos juntos. Decid\u00ed que los quer\u00eda de nuevo en mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Inter\u00e9sate por los dem\u00e1s.<\/h2>\n

I was too distracted with my own problems that I forgot to notice other people\u2019s needs and worries. I started taking genuine interest in other people and I used my time to help them. I was surprised that many people were actually having the same problems as I was. And I helped them. And they helped me as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Cambia de actitud.<\/h2>\n

Cuando estaba sola, ten\u00eda m\u00e1s tiempo para apreciar las peque\u00f1as cosas y agradecer todo lo bueno que me pasaba en la vida. Empec\u00e9 a disfrutar del c\u00e1lido sol en la cara y del simple hecho de estar viva. Empec\u00e9 a ver las cosas de otra manera. <\/span>Me rodeaban pensamientos positivos y el mundo parec\u00eda mucho mejor.<\/b><\/p>\n

5. 5. \u00a1Perd\u00f3nate a ti mismo!<\/h2>\n

Yo estaba, como todas las personas, hecha con defectos. Comet\u00ed errores. Eleg\u00ed relaciones malas y malsanas. Dej\u00e9 que la gente me mintiera, me enga\u00f1ara y se aprovechara de m\u00ed. Eleg\u00ed malas opciones de salud. Me menospreciaba a m\u00ed misma. Era un c\u00edrculo vicioso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estaba enfadada con otras personas por aprovecharse de m\u00ed y enfadada conmigo misma por dejar que se aprovecharan de m\u00ed. Estaba enfadada por haber dejado que gente mala entrara en mi vida. Pero me di cuenta de que no pod\u00eda soportar toda esa amargura causada por las decisiones que yo misma tomaba.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda llegado el momento de dejarlo todo atr\u00e1s. No pod\u00eda avanzar hacia el futuro si me arrepent\u00eda de mi pasado. Ten\u00eda que dejarme ir y perdonarme. Y lo hice. Me perdon\u00e9 y fue liberador.<\/b><\/p>\n

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