{"id":32709,"date":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T09:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32709"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:59:58","slug":"5-formas-en-las-que-cambio-tras-una-relacion-emocionalmente-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-en-las-que-cambio-tras-una-relacion-emocionalmente-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"5 formas en las que cambi\u00f3 tras una relaci\u00f3n emocionalmente abusiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Abandonar una relaci\u00f3n abusiva es una de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles para cualquier v\u00edctima. Es un paso enorme que requiere mucho valor y fuerza.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser.<\/p>\n

Lo cierto es que una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica de este tipo suele dejar cicatrices en la persona que sufri\u00f3 los malos tratos.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to this girl\u2014her emotionally abusive relationship changed her in more ways than she could count.<\/p>\n

1. Tiene problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Every woman who has been through any type of abuse, including emotional, can\u2019t avoid having strong trust issues when she finally breaks free from an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n

However, something like this is completely normal\u2014the person she loved the most and the person she was ready to trust with her life was the one who made her life a living hell.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 puede esperar exactamente de los dem\u00e1s?<\/p>\n

This was the man who swore he loved her, the man she thought was the one she\u2019d spend the rest of her life with and he ended up betraying her like this.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, piensa que todos los dem\u00e1s son como \u00e9l. Est\u00e1 convencida de que todos los chicos que conoce tienen la intenci\u00f3n de hacerle da\u00f1o y romperle el coraz\u00f3n de nuevo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t just go for the men she meets\u2014she feels the same way about almost all people in her life.<\/p>\n

Everything this girl\u2019s been through made her think that there doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world she can count on.<\/p>\n

Besides, the worst part is that she doesn\u2019t believe herself anymore. She made the wrong choice once so that has to mean that her judgment-making skills are non-existent.<\/p>\n

Esta chica ya no cree en su intuici\u00f3n ni en su instinto y se cuestiona cada decisi\u00f3n que toma, pensando que es la equivocada.<\/p>\n

2. Su visi\u00f3n del amor est\u00e1 distorsionada<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After all that has happened, this girl isn\u2019t sure what true love is anymore. Everything she believed in and all the things she thought represented love turned out to be wrong.<\/p>\n

This girl is convinced that she wouldn\u2019t recognize the guy meant for her even if he showed up right in front of her.<\/p>\n

She is scared that she\u2019ll continue with these unhealthy relationship patterns forever and that she\u2019ll never manage to reprogram her brain into seeing love the right way again.<\/p>\n

3. Se volvi\u00f3 reservada<\/h2>\n

\"bussines<\/p>\n

Como todas las v\u00edctimas de malos tratos, esta chica tambi\u00e9n se volvi\u00f3 demasiado cuidadosa a la hora de dejar entrar a gente nueva en su vida.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been through hell and she knew that she had to find a way to protect her vulnerable heart from getting crushed all over again.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma de hacerlo era construir gruesos muros a su alrededor y actuar sin coraz\u00f3n con todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica manera de hacerlo era volverse reservado<\/a> y no dejar que nadie vea sus vulnerabilidades nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

And that was exactly what she did\u2014she became a closed person who didn\u2019t open her heart to love.<\/p>\n

Una chica que se conden\u00f3 a una vida de soledad por miedo a que le volvieran a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

4. She isn\u2019t sure if she\u2019ll find love ever again<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Otra cosa que cambi\u00f3 de esta chica es el hecho de que ella renunci\u00f3 al amor <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Antes de que este hombre t\u00f3xico entrara en su vida, pensaba en el amor como en un cuento de hadas y estaba firmemente convencida de que su felices para siempre llegar\u00eda tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, after all the insults and humiliations she\u2019s been through, deep down she began thinking that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de tantos a\u00f1os en los que su maltratador la convenci\u00f3 de que ella era la antip\u00e1tica, empez\u00f3 a creerle.<\/p>\n

This girl stopped believing in love and in soulmates. Instead, she became sarcastic about it, convinced that she\u2019d never find anyone who would treat her better than her ex did.<\/p>\n

5. But she is stronger than she\u2019s ever been<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

However, despite all the bad things her emotionally abusive relationship caused, there was also one good thing it brought her\u2014she became stronger than ever.<\/p>\n

She saw that there was nothing she couldn\u2019t take and that she would always survive, whatever life put in front of her.<\/p>\n

Esta chica se convirti\u00f3 en su propia hero\u00edna. Se dio cuenta de que pod\u00eda salir adelante sola y de que es una persona completa sin un hombre a su lado.<\/p>\n

And one thing is for sure\u2014this relationship made her become a girl who doesn\u2019t settle for less.<\/p>\n

Una chica que sabe lo que se merece y una chica que se quiere a s\u00ed misma m\u00e1s que a nadie en este mundo.<\/p>\n

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Walking away from an abusive relationship is one of the toughest things for every victim. It is a huge step which takes a lot of courage and strength. Nevertheless, sadly, your troubles usually don\u2019t end the moment you leave your abuser. The truth is that a toxic relationship like this often leaves scars on the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":93369,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/5-Ways-She-Changed-After-An-Emotionally-Abusive-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32709"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32709\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93369"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}