{"id":32719,"date":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","date_gmt":"2020-02-13T09:38:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32719"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:59:06","slug":"9-malos-habitos-de-mensajeria-que-le-haran-perder-el-interes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-malos-habitos-de-mensajeria-que-le-haran-perder-el-interes\/","title":{"rendered":"9 malos h\u00e1bitos en los mensajes de texto que le har\u00e1n perder el inter\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le env\u00edas m\u00e1s mensajes que \u00e9l a ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80637\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg\" alt=\"\/relacion\/9-h\u00e1bitos-de-textos-malos-que-har\u00e1n-que-\u00e9l-perda-el-inter\u00e9s\/\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-girl-texting-in-jaccuzzi-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los mensajes de texto son como una relaci\u00f3n. Exigen reciprocidad. Cuando uno se desvive y el otro apenas participa, es muy mala se\u00f1al.<\/p>\n<p>Mandarle m\u00e1s mensajes de los que deber\u00edas apestar\u00e1 a desesperaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>He will see that you are already crazy about him, and he will think that he can have you whenever he wants\u2014which will naturally make him less interested.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e1jalo un poco. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-echara-de-menos-si-le-dejo-solo-es-algo-que-merece-la-pena-averiguar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dale espacio para que te eche de menos<\/a> e ir a por ti. Siempre es una opci\u00f3n mejor.<\/p>\n<p>You should meet each other halfway. If he can\u2019t do that with text, imagine how lousy he would be in a relationship?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No tienes buenos temas de conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"joven atractiva mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/attractive-young-woman-looking-at-phone-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si empiezas una conversaci\u00f3n con mal pie, todo ir\u00e1 cuesta abajo.<\/p>\n<p>Hablar del tiempo, de tus rutinas diarias y de lo que has desayunado apesta a aburrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>During the initial phases of a relationship, it\u2019s important not to fall into a web of boring conversations that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Think outside the box. Comment on something you previously talked about, mention some shared interests or start by saying how much fun you had at the concert (or anywhere else), and that it\u2019s too bad he missed it. Be creative.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sus respuestas ponen fin a los mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80639\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer escribiendo un mensaje en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-a-message-on-the-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are giving short effortless replies like an emoji or a one-word answer such as \u201cYeah.\u201d, \u201cSure\u201d, \u201cMaybe.\u201d, \u201cAha\u201d, don\u2019t expect to get a text back and be prepared that your conversation will not last long.<\/p>\n<p>He probably feels like you really don\u2019t want to participate in this conversation and that you are brushing him off.<\/p>\n<p>Ev\u00edtalos y esfu\u00e9rzate si quieres que tu sesi\u00f3n de mensajes dure m\u00e1s tiempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Env\u00eda un mensaje de seguimiento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto nunca es una buena idea. En primer lugar, te hace parecer desesperada y necesitada de su atenci\u00f3n, lo que ya de por s\u00ed te desanima.<\/p>\n<p>En segundo lugar, est\u00e1s reduciendo tus posibilidades de obtener una respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que est\u00e9 en el trabajo, durmiendo o ocupado, y si ve que le has enviado un mensaje de seguimiento, puede que decida no contestar porque est\u00e1s siendo insistente, mientras que si s\u00f3lo fuera un mensaje, responder\u00eda en cuanto lo viera.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly and most importantly, if a man doesn\u2019t want to reply there is nothing you can do. If for some reason he hasn\u2019t replied to the first text, he won\u2019t reply to a follow-up text either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t take compliments very well<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven y preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he tells you you are beautiful, smart, cute, interesting, funny, attractive and you go into debates of why that isn\u2019t true and that you are far from it&#8230; you are sending the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>Right from the start, you are telling him that you don\u2019t think too highly of yourself and that you lack confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that old saying: \u201cLove yourself so somebody else could love you too\u201d? Well, it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>So the next time he calls you \u2018sweet\u2019 or \u2018super smart\u2019 just say \u201cThank you.\u201d You can also return the compliment and say what you like about him. Trust me\u2014you will have much better results.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Compartes demasiado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz enviando mensajes de texto en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/happy-woman-texting-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Enviar mensajes de texto a alguien que acabas de conocer sobre cosas malas e hirientes que te ocurrieron en el pasado o problemas que tienes ahora mismo no es algo bueno.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t burden somebody you hardly know with all of your life issues. There will be time for serious stuff. Start off with casual topics.<\/p>\n<p>Divi\u00e9rtete conoci\u00e9ndote.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te pasas con el lenguaje de texto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada al aire libre y enviando mensajes de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando empiezas a salir con alguien, la forma m\u00e1s r\u00e1pida de que te conozcan son los mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them think that you are stuck in your teens or even uninterested in continuing your communication by not sending.<\/p>\n<p>Watch your grammar\u2014at least the basic stuff. You don\u2019t want to give an impression that you are less intelligent than you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n a punto tus mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le env\u00edas mensajes de texto aunque sabes que est\u00e1 ocupado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"joven hombre de negocios mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-bussines-man-looking-at-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por lo general, los hombres y las mujeres tienen h\u00e1bitos diferentes a la hora de enviar mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n<p>For the average man, it\u2019s ok if he hears from his girlfriend or potential girlfriend once or twice a day while most women need more texts through the same time period.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he doesn\u2019t text you every 5 seconds doesn\u2019t mean that he lost interest.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo significa que es un hombre y que tiene una vida propia..<\/p>\n<p>Si te ha dicho que est\u00e1 en el trabajo, saliendo con los amigos, comiendo, durmiendo o haciendo lo que sea, d\u00e9jale en paz.<\/p>\n<p>Dale un poco de espacio para que te eche de menos y deja que sea \u00e9l quien se ponga en contacto contigo primero.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te haces el duro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg\" alt=\"bonita mujer sentada en un sof\u00e1 y tecleando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-sitting-in-sofa-and-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es lo contrario del exceso de mensajes de texto que mencion\u00e1bamos al principio.<\/p>\n<p>Playing hard to get means that you are playing those same games you don\u2019t want anybody to play with you.<\/p>\n<p>Podr\u00eda parecer que no te gusta tanto o que le est\u00e1s tomando el pelo.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to respond to every text the second you receive it, but replying after six hours or a day just isn\u2019t nice.<\/p>\n<p>La clave est\u00e1 en encontrar el equilibrio y encontrarse a medio camino.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tienes-quimica-textual-con-el-heres-como-saber\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Qu\u00edmica textual <\/a> is important, and it can really bring the two of you closer\u2014assuming that none of you is playing games.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-80635\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 malos h\u00e1bitos en los mensajes de texto que le har\u00e1n perder el inter\u00e9s\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You text him more often than he texts you Texts are like a relationship. They demand reciprocity. When one is going out of one\u2019s way and the other is barely participating, it\u2019s a really bad sign. Texting him more than you should, will reek of desperation. He will see that you are already crazy about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":80646,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/9-Bad-Texting-Habits-That-Will-Make-Him-Lose-Interest.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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